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Topic: This won't survive these transits, wouldn't it
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 24, 2019 11:22 PM
  
We've done nothing but constantly fight over the last year and a half over past resentments. I've tried to do everything I could to change my behavior, still nothing. I've already forgiven him for whatever he has done but even that means nothing to him. I'm very tired and ready to give up.Lots of crazy transits, tUranus square Sun/Venus, tPluto and tSaturn opposite Sun/Venus, tChiron conjunct Moon. Our relationship doesn't feel like when it all started. It was so different even after the honeymoon phase. I don't know how this all even happened and I don't know what I'm really even supposed to do.
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hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 12017
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 25, 2019 12:30 AM
I think you BOTH need to live in the present moment and focus on connecting and having fun and leave the past behind if your intention is to work things out and be happy. If you are trying to do this but he doesn't join you in this effort then it will not work out. I do feel for a relationship to work out you have to forgive and let stuff go for real and always refocus on the present moment and creating positive experiences with each other. Now some days will be harder than others to do this and you will fight and get on each other's nerves but overall if that is the approach you both have you become a very resilient couple that can bounce back easily from conflicts or crisis in a relationship. However, if they are not joining you and you are trying hard and they are not meeting you half way that is when you start to wonder if is worth it. Honestly things can get better if both of you are in the right frame of mind for things to get better but he can block this if he is in the wrong frame of mind or checked out. The question is if he is ambivalent about wanting to be in the relationship or if he knows he wants to work things out and is motivated to work on the relationship. People can be quite complicated and go through phases were they feel lost and relationships are challenging, when you combine these two things it can be messy and uncomfortable for a while. I hope you each figure out what you want. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 1968
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 25, 2019 01:10 AM
Pluto square Mercury/Mars can be a lot of arguments and fights with neither of you wiling to relent. Uranus opposite Sun/Venus also cause unstable affections. I believe these are where your issues lie?But you have Sun/Venus trine Moon, Jupiter oppositions and Pluto trines... so try to remember the love & affection you share and not focus on your differences. You're capable of speaking nicely to each other, bringing each other joy and passion. IP: Logged |
Graham
Knowflake Posts: 156
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Registered: Apr 2019
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posted August 25, 2019 04:48 AM
Have you already done the synastry, composite and davison analyses ... to establish the core/"natal" issues that are now being highlighted by progressions and transits.If not, you are attempting to address effects rather than causes ... or putting out the fires created by the individual sparks falling from a bonfire that is not being correctly controlled/contained. IP: Logged |
kewf1988
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Registered: Dec 2015
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posted August 26, 2019 02:17 AM
Pluto and Saturn are way too far away from Sun/Venus to have an impact now (the closest is Saturn opposing Sun at a very wide 7 degrees), and Chiron is 5 degrees from the Moon, way too far away to have an impact considering how slow Chiron moves.The Solar Eclipse in July is squaring composite Moon/Saturn, while the Lunar Eclipse is conjunct Neptune. Composite Chiron is also at the midpoint of the two eclipses, which is NOT good. Transit Saturn has been squaring composite Saturn and composite Chiron off and on the whole year, and transit Pluto has been squaring composite Chiron the whole time. There are plenty of bad transits going on, most of which involve Chiron, Saturn, and the eclipses. Chiron, the asteroid of pain, being at the midpoint of both eclipses is too important to ignore, along with transit Saturn forming a T square with Chiron and Saturn. That is VERY hard to overcome, and the Lunar Eclipse in January will square composite Chiron as well. If this has gone on for a year and a half, well before the July eclipses had any effect, these transits are only going to make the pain (Chiron) worse. It will be VERY hard to survive all this. IP: Logged |
vansio
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Registered: Dec 2017
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posted August 26, 2019 02:33 PM
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EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 2562
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 26, 2019 04:26 PM
Ummmm I say take it day by day and be in the present moment too, as Hypatia has suggested.
Don’t let astrology put fear into your rs. I know it’s hard when you see all these transits but if you do that then you’re screwed bc you’re already pre-empting the worst possible outcome.
Can you simply surrender and allow your heart to speak? Meditate, ground yourself, be present, be gentle. Whatever the universe has in store for the highest good of your rs, trust that at this time. You will be taken care of if you can just allow and surrender. The path will open up for you. At the end of the day if this love is meant for you, nothing will stand in your way. It could simply be a readjusting of the rs dynamics 💗 IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2019 12:21 PM
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