posted August 06, 2019 10:26 PM            

im blue he's red

posted August 07, 2019 06:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi bluestskies88,

the list of aspects giving you a mutual intense attraction is really too long, LOL
Such attraction, with Mars square Venus square Pluto and Mars conjunct Moon square Uranus, is powerful and challenging. With your Sun/Mars conjunct his Moon (on your 7th house) trine to Pluto conjunct Pluto (in his 5th house), the level of intimacy can be really high. (not to mention your Venus in his 8th house trine to his Venus!)
I can tell you that his Moon opposite your ASC is terribly fascinated by you, and he dreams of you (his Jupiter trine to your Neptune in his 7th house sextile Pluto)...
Things might develope pretty fast, with Mars conjunct Moon square to Uranus conjunct Uranus.
You both might be actually ready to commit in short time... His Sun/Venus/NN/Saturn conjunct to your Saturn/NN trine to your Venus looks fated.
Beware of DW Saturn square Neptune/Neptune, this might become mutually restrictive to each others' individual life and - expression. Your individuality and approach to life, mainly where you come from, might be very different and you might have to be willing to learn from your differences.
A Composite chart might tell more about a potential relationship/future committment.

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Hi Stoika lol..thank you for this. it seems super relating. there seems to be this super feel good energy between us. i know he gets really hyper and out of his shell when i talk to him and see him lol....we were at a group meeting when we first met, and he was pointing me out and said THAT GIRL OVER THERE over and over again. everyone looked at me and i turned red lmao. he would get into this burst of joy/smiling i noticed when he sees me. i think he's a bit uptight, but i could be wrong because i barely know him still. one thing is for sure, i can't stop thinking about him at all! LOL

not sure how i am able to open him up and hang out to see if these mutual intense attraction is real. we rarely see each other. we indirecty work with each other and i sense that he's being cautious because of this factor. but when we do see each other, the intensity of the attraction and chemistry and even us being in sync....we cross each other whilst walking, me thinking of him then BAM he shows up around the corner lol...one time i was standing and started to walk towards the front of stage (we work at a events venue) and my mind said look to your right, there he was walking in sync with me lmao walking towards the stage.

the odd thing and maybe you can help me by looking at our chart, is that he's being nitpicking / critical with how i email stuff to him lmao. i realized through investigation that Virgo suns are like this? or what you said here Beware of DW Saturn square Neptune/Neptune, this might become mutually restrictive to each others' individual life and - expression. Your individuality and approach to life, mainly where you come from, might be very different and you might have to be willing to learn from your differences. could already be playing out?

he also seems annoyed with me out of nowhere with no reason, and he has ran away from me when he sees me a couple of times but then corrects himself by catching me again and says hello lol

Also, you said mars square venus. i don't see this. you mean his mars opp my venus?

here's our composite/progressive

composite http://gyazo.com/0014b8561f3eb648fc9e1dce7146c23d

progressed composite http://gyazo.com/46d11eb907fff265789ae4f8e67f9f4f

let me know if these are the charts you asked?

posted August 07, 2019 12:31 PM            

Well... this guy is very interesting. He's a top quality Virgo somehow. with his Virgo Sun/Mercury/Venus/NN, and yes, his Virgo Sun/Mercury can be very nitpicking especially on intellectual/work matters and with his Saturn/Venus square your Neptune he can be especially critical over your creative/intellectual style and approach, which might actually become annoying to you... even though his Sun/Mercury trine to your Venus can soften this critical attitude of his since he's still inspired and fascinated by your style and the Uranus conjunct Uranus trine to his Mars is very intrigued by the refreshing feeling you give him and the differences between you. In fact, his Uranus also square your ASC, and this might give that mutual feeling that you're not alike or not matching your ideal partner, and he might be puzzled and intrigued at the same time about this.
His a little weird behaviour might be explained by the fact that while he looks like a self-confident, outgoing person, he has a deep emotional insecurity in his life. This is given by a few fundamental natal aspects of his, natal Moon opposite Jupiter, ASC square to Sun/Mercury, Chiron in 12th house opposite Uranus and especially Saturn square to Neptune. The latter is a heavy aspect giving him insecurity and constantly questioning himself, and since Neptune is sextile to the Moon and Moon square to Uranus, this whole picture hits his emotional world, creating him an inner emotional conflict challenging his relationships. So, I'm thinking, based on these aspects of his, that such insecurity together with the strong attraction he seems to have towards you might lead him to have mixed feelings and might provoke a sort of emotional upheaval any time he meets you, and to act in such weird unclear way... moreover, in such astrological context, his Aqua Moon might (apparently) react with detachment. likely as you said, moreover within a work place context. He's very dedicated to his work though which he seems to fullfill his sense of identity and self-worth. He's also very skilled in what he does, even though he's not always self-disciplined and he might waste some of his energies, but gaining such a strong intellectual/professional structure might be a deep inner need of his.
The synchronicity/mind connection you also have with this person is very interesting, in fact your NN and Saturns are tightly linked and you have Composite Saturn conjunct NN in 3rd house as a result. This is pretty psychic, karmic and other wordly somehow. You have a stunning mental connection at subconscious level, since this conjunction is trine to Composite Chiron/Mars and square to Composite Neptune/Moon. Morever, the Uranus/NN midpoint is conjunct to Pluto in 4th house, so this connection is very powerful and gives a sense of fate and familiar feeling beyond any rational reason. This looks very karmic and life-changing, affecting a potential transformation in the way you both view life and relationships. The Composite Uranus/Venus conjunction opposite to Chiron Mars is challenging. This aspect might trigger all his emotional insecurities potentially giving instability to your relationship and this might lead to an abrupt/impulsive reaction from his part and/or an abrupt separation. At the same time the Saturn/NN square to Mercury and square to Neptune/Moon might deeply affect the relationship negatively, preventing you to gain mutual understanding and becoming an oppressive element on the long run. The Composite Moon/Neptune trine to Jupiter sextile Pluto, with the Sun trine to Jupiter, suggests that there might be enough empathy, affection and mutual inspiration to overcome the above mentioned negative aspects... With Composite Venus conjunct Uranus sextile to Saturn the relationship might stay on a very unconventional level, giving you both a lot of motivation, excitement, and sexual spark, even though it all might not ever become completely stable. The risk is that the Saturn seriousness and critical aspect might ruin the initial excitement preventing to find a balance between the differences between you two. He especially might rule the partner and might not be willing to compromise about his habits or rooted mindset or not to let the partner interfere in his own mental/emotional structure.

posted August 07, 2019 01:12 PM            

i appreciate your time in reading the charts <3

i asked that friend if he's in a relationship, she said she hasn't seen him with anyone. i am not 100% sure if he is or not, but he's constantly working like you said. he's dedicated to his work. lol

i think he's being cautious is because we work together that's what i am sensing.

posted August 07, 2019 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I was just wondering about his funny behaviour you described. If he's not in a rs, I believe he's very insecure on how to act with you. From the chart, it looks he's very intrigued and attracted though. With those Mars and Uranus contacts I would expect things to develope quickly, but his natal chart shows he has an emotional block somehow, he's probably someone who needs to be very at ease in order to expose himself... maybe you might do somehing to encourage him a little and get closer? 😜

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haha. i rarely make moves with men. i let them do it first. however, with this one, i did text him a few months ago if he was attending a party. he said no lol. he was working that night. so i don't know what else to do.

posted August 07, 2019 04:07 PM            

i have been nice to him, he's the one that's been mean /critical. i don't react well when people are like that even though i know it's not personal.

it's hard to have small convo with him because he literally runs away from me LMAO

posted August 07, 2019 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
Is it possible that he might be in a relationship with someone else and his 'running away' is his way of resisting the attraction, so things won't develop any further? Those synastry aspects are really quite intense, I've had the venus opposite mars and moon conjunct mars aspects with a man, also several uranus conjunctions and the physical side developed extremely quickly.

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it could be a possibility he's with someone. i barely know him, however, as what i said above with Stoika, a friend who knows him said he doesn't have a gf as far as she knows because she hasn't seen him with a girl.

i think he's just socially awkward or maybe he is also sensing the intensity as well. i sense it so much especially if i see him / talk to him. it's so weird

posted August 07, 2019 08:08 PM            

yes seems like it. i get the feeling that he also acts snobbish around me. it's so strange! lol

posted August 27, 2019 11:05 AM            

so a bit of an update. i am trying to be friendly with this guy, but he seems to be super aloof and snobbish..just plain mean. i don't know how to call it.

i sent out a few texts to people the other day after working with them, which i do all the time, and he never replied and just ignored me. lol.

posted August 27, 2019 03:05 PM            

i have no idea that's why i am asking.
others has said that he's just 'odd' and can snap at people, so it's not personal.

i am just curious why he ignored my text. i basically just thanked him for a great show, and that i said you're hilarious because he was trying to make me and others laugh. i even said i appreciate all the hard work that he and the staff does.

was that too condescending maybe? i was genuinely trying to be friendly.

he alludes an alpha energy, but i agree with what you said before, he masks his insecurities with this alpha energy.

maybe he just doesn't like me lol but i know he's lying. lmao

posted August 27, 2019 04:56 PM            

my friend told me he's single and straight so lol...i am not making any 'moves' or overtly chasing him, not at all. i barely speak to him, and when we speak it's about work.

i don't even like him like that anymore because it seems there's alot of red flags and he's way too insecure.

i don't know, i am not really showing him i like him directly. i told a couple of my girlfriends, i hope it didn't get back to him lol

posted August 27, 2019 07:14 PM            

The Composite Saturn squares might also play out in such restrictive ways, taking you to lose interest, as I previously assumed that "The risk is that the Saturn seriousness and critical aspect might ruin the initial excitement..." (in that case though, I believe he'd be the one to lose something, i.e. YOU!)

posted August 27, 2019 07:38 PM            

it's just odd because my other coworkers, they have no issue texting and having convos with me. lol so it's not a 'work' thing...

posted August 27, 2019 07:49 PM            

I hope you will be able to give me updates though! This guy is tough :-)