posted February 11, 2020 01:56 AM            

my chart: https://imgur.com/Ip9krI4

his: https://imgur.com/mjMQQ6t

Hi all, would love folks' insights on if there's realistic long term potential between these two charts.

I've been single for 6.5 years and just had no real interest in any of the people I've met during that time. Generally bored or turned off by the 2nd or 3rd date and have never found anyone who I feel can really fit into and understand all the disjointed but important parts of my life (family, work, friends). Met someone a couple months ago and this is the first time in over 10 years that I've felt a deep connection and attraction. Not normally my type of person, but the chemistry is undeniable and our physical connection is like none either of us has experienced. I have a lot of sexual trauma and this is the first time in the past 10 years I've felt truly present during sex/physical affection--it feels earth shattering and really loving.

That said, there's such an intensity vibrating between us that we've habitually doubted the other could feel the same and keep getting in our own way--both adjusting behavior to seem more cool/casual and inadvertently hurting each other and ourselves in the process. I felt from the beginning this was a relationship that would take a great deal of self-awareness and communication to maintain and I feel it confirmed in our charts. I never thought I'd be romantically excited about a person and now I fear the intense energy just creates too much of a challenge for us both.

posted February 11, 2020 03:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I see only natal charts here. You need Synastry and Composite charts.

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