posted April 18, 2021 02:22 AM            

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His Lilith is conjunct my south node and my eros is conjunct his south node

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I would interpret this as you've mastered or even overdone his ultimate femme fatale kind of ideal, the kind of woman/lover that drives him crazy, he is attracted yet fears. It could be you had power over him in a previous life. The gender roles may have been reversed.

And similarly with his Eros on your SN. Simply a strong turn-on, he embodies an erotic and/or creative ideal for you. I think there's less of a power play with Eros.

I wonder if in the past, you may have used sexual power over him, or used your power to get sex from him. I strongly suspect the gender roles were reversed.

But Todd is right, these are not major players in the whole chart and you've got to consider a lot more like the signs and houses of the nodes, the rulers of the nodes, etc. Anyway just isolating these aspects, it seems you had a sexual relationship of some kind in the past, and a lot of that erotic energy is still wafting around unresolved, potentially due to the power dynamic that used to be between you. That would be my guess.