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Topic: Chose his friends over me :(
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Laylay
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From: Sydney, NSW, Australia
Registered: May 2020
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posted April 08, 2021 01:49 AM
  
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vansio
Knowflake Posts: 1717
From: the outskirts of Delphi
Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 08, 2021 03:36 AM
You should cast your differences aside and go the party standing beside your boyfriend and he to you. Not going is to break up your partnership. IP: Logged |
Laylay
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Sydney, NSW, Australia
Registered: May 2020
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posted April 08, 2021 04:52 AM
quote:
Originally posted by vansio:
You should cast your differences aside and go the party standing beside your boyfriend and he to you. Not going is to break up your partnership.
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Laylay
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Sydney, NSW, Australia
Registered: May 2020
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posted April 08, 2021 04:57 AM
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Originally posted by vansio:
You should cast your differences aside and go the party standing beside your boyfriend and he to you. Not going is to break up your partnership.
I would but I'm no longer on the guest list, that's why I'm upset that he is going. He should be the one standing beside me.
I think that's it for us. I dont think any amount of good synastry could help with this.
I just feel really let down by him, and I sense this will just keep happening.
Thanks for your reply. It's what id like to do ideally but I dont think this will happen.
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vansio
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From: the outskirts of Delphi
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posted April 08, 2021 10:12 AM
Removed my opinion because of member below prefer not to be misinterpreted. wish you well Laylay IP: Logged |
alegna
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: uk
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 08, 2021 03:20 PM
Hi there, That previous poster was uninsightful and unnecessarily nastly.
Most people in your situation would feel betrayed.
Your boyfriend says his life depends on the approval of others. In particular, a group of so-called friends who say bad things behind his back and are quite happy to put him in a difficult situation regarding his relationship with you.Genuine friends do not behave this way. The fact that these people's approval are so important to your boyfriend shows he has issues with low confidence and lack of self esteem. He will find true friends if he can work on these issues, perhaps with the help of councelling.He needs to only approve of himself , and then he will find friends who like him for who he is.
Unless he can do this, your relationship will not turn out to be a happy one.You will constantly feel let down , as these kinds of situations are bound to keep on occuring.
If I were you, I'd start casting my net further afield and make some new friends. Do whats right for you, Hun.
You are clearly not worth his absolute loyalty.Why give him yours?IP: Logged |
teasel
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2021 06:24 PM
I don't understand why he would be going to this party, when his friend insulted him, and the birthday girl backed up the friend. IP: Logged |
Laylay
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Sydney, NSW, Australia
Registered: May 2020
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posted April 08, 2021 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by alegna:
Hi there, That previous poster was uninsightful and unnecessarily nastly.
Most people in your situation would feel betrayed.
Your boyfriend says his life depends on the approval of others. In particular, a group of so-called friends who say bad things behind his back and are quite happy to put him in a difficult situation regarding his relationship with you.Genuine friends do not behave this way. The fact that these people's approval are so important to your boyfriend shows he has issues with low confidence and lack of self esteem. He will find true friends if he can work on these issues, perhaps with the help of councelling.He needs to only approve of himself , and then he will find friends who like him for who he is.
Unless he can do this, your relationship will not turn out to be a happy one.You will constantly feel let down , as these kinds of situations are bound to keep on occuring.
If I were you, I'd start casting my net further afield and make some new friends. Do whats right for you, Hun.
You are clearly not worth his absolute loyalty.Why give him yours?
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Laylay
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Sydney, NSW, Australia
Registered: May 2020
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posted April 08, 2021 09:59 PM
quote:
Originally posted by alegna:
Hi there, That previous poster was uninsightful and unnecessarily nastly.
Most people in your situation would feel betrayed.
Your boyfriend says his life depends on the approval of others. In particular, a group of so-called friends who say bad things behind his back and are quite happy to put him in a difficult situation regarding his relationship with you.Genuine friends do not behave this way. The fact that these people's approval are so important to your boyfriend shows he has issues with low confidence and lack of self esteem. He will find true friends if he can work on these issues, perhaps with the help of councelling.He needs to only approve of himself , and then he will find friends who like him for who he is.
Unless he can do this, your relationship will not turn out to be a happy one.You will constantly feel let down , as these kinds of situations are bound to keep on occuring.
If I were you, I'd start casting my net further afield and make some new friends. Do whats right for you, Hun.
You are clearly not worth his absolute loyalty.Why give him yours?
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Laylay
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Sydney, NSW, Australia
Registered: May 2020
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posted April 08, 2021 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't understand why he would be going to this party, when his friend insulted him, and the birthday girl backed up the friend.
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Sandra018
Knowflake Posts: 681
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 09, 2021 07:18 PM
Rejection is a Divine Protection.once you look at it that way, it ll be easier to let go. all the best
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Randall
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posted April 18, 2021 09:45 PM
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Randall
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posted April 28, 2021 06:06 PM
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Randall
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