posted February 09, 2021 02:54 PM            

Been seeing him for almost 3 months. Right away I saw the sexual element and also the delusional energy in the composite. He’s super sweet to me, very generous. The sex is over the top. We cuddle and touch a lot. He even spent the weekend with me without having sex just to prove to me it wasn’t all about sex. But what I really wanted was just that lol. When we have it, I am physically exhausted the next day because it goes on for hours. It really is an amazing sexual experience. Very satisfying.

I don’t see any long term potential to this. So I guess I’d like to know what you see, and maybe give me an idea as to how long I can expect to keep this up with him. He keeps talking about future events with me but I think it’s the neptune talking.

posted February 10, 2021 05:35 PM            

Well after sleeping on this chart and with the addition of Orcus, I'm leaning back to the viewpoint, the relationship is temporal .

Of course there are several very is xual aspects.
Pluto opposed to the sun/mars conjunction and square the node is extremely sexual.Pluto/ node can indicate a connection to previous lives,but in any case the carnal intensity is very strong.the main problem with Pluto sexual encounter a is that there is often no corresponding g emotion bonding.Pluto can be so selfish that the sexual experience does no include the satisfaction of the partner.or rather emotional intimacy is not increases by the physical intimacy as is so often the case.many times after a peak of sexuality one partner may become satiated and or lose interest.also when no emotional bonding occurrs and it is apparently only a sexual tryst ,desire can diminish or disappear.

posted February 10, 2021 07:05 PM            

I also saw the moon/Saturn MP conjunct Juno/orcus/alma and wondered about all that squaring uranus and the opposing asteroids. It was really unclear to me how all of that would resonate.

I am aware of the vertex energy as many of my relationships have had this. I didn’t figure in saturn/psyche squaring it. He doesn’t seem to be obsessed or even to have that potential with me yet. I’m pretty independent and don’t need a spouse for financial support, but I can tell you that he finds ways to provide with practical matters, without me even asking. He even said it’s in his nature to be a provider to his mate, and that it felt good for him to be wanted vs needed.

There’s a lot of activity to neptune, and he’s been real dreamy with me about things. But he does also have a strong dominate side - which is part of the turn on for me really. The chemistry is unreal.

Do you think I should look at planets/node aspecting that moon/sat MP for a breaking point?

Our synastry is chock full of karmic aspects: nnode conjunct vertex, his snode conjunct my mars/Saturn/venus. It was easy for us to both embrace each other for sure. And I’m older than he is. I gotta get the young ones so they can keep up with me lol 😂

You are a gem. Thank you so, so much!

posted February 10, 2021 08:12 PM            

His Sappho is conjunct his uranus, and opposite his venus/Juno conjunction. My moon is conjunct his uranus/Sappho conjunction.

posted February 11, 2021 07:04 PM            

Nessus/Saturn/psyche square the vertex/ dcs is intriguing.
This still look like interest in ingénues. Interesting that he has aspect showing interest in older and younger.
It is ominous.
The pluto/saturn midpoint is square to Venus which can be a aspect of abuse.I didn't focus on Venus as it is square to Jupiter which is usually a favorable emotional and social interactions.

A problem here is that both major sexual indicators are some what exploitive. I mean that the focus is not so much intimate emotional bonding as it is just letting your raging hormones lose.meaning subtle emotion distinctions may be over looked .

posted February 11, 2021 07:46 PM            

Also in November the node transited through the Saturn/ psyche connection and square the vertex.

Hmm if there is no sign of tensions then I would think you will grow closer as the Ceres/Saturn and Ceres/ psyche will soon be transited with the node and the the square
to Vesta.these symbols are somewhat domestic.

One the other hand as the transit has passed the most intense phase the passion may wane.

The vertex energy can be otherworldly so I really can't anticipate what will happen.this could be the beginning .

posted February 12, 2021 08:20 AM            

We hooked up in Mid-late November and then he just started calling me regularly and wanting to spend time together every weekend. I can’t be sure yet if he has side dishes, but I already met a few of his friends and he’s pretty much been isolated most of the year, so they were happy to see him connecting with someone new.

I’m trying to keep a mindset with him that this is just a vacation. And if I end up loving the destination I may look for property there. Lol. You know what I mean? Regardless, I think it would take a while for me to get to that point.

As far as drug abuse, neither one of us does drugs. We drink sometimes when we are together, and I admit there were a few nights when we both had too much...but it’s not a crutch for either one of us.

He mentioned to me that he’s never had a relationship where he can talk about the deeper meaning of things in life. Or even about his emotional state. He said it’s foreign to him. Which I thought was kinda odd, but he has moon conjunct Saturn in cancer so I’m attributing it to that.

I will keep you apprised if the situation.

posted April 08, 2021 07:54 PM            

I really like being with him and the attraction grows each time I see him.