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Topic: Synastry and composite interpretation
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Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 07, 2020 04:16 PM
Please can you help me to interpret The synastry and composite of me and my lover?Me: 09/29/1971 at 9:30 a.m in Ascoli Piceno (Italy) Him: 05/07/1980 at 11:00 a.m in Ascoli Piceno (Italy) I’m new to astrology, thank you very much! IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 2132 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted October 07, 2020 09:42 PM
Ciao Alaska71 :-) la sua data di nascita è 7 maggio, giusto?This looks like a binding serious passionate but complex and maybe stormy relationship. In the Composite chart, North Node is conjunct Mars and trine Vertex and Mercury, so there's a soulmate feeling of being meant together and with Jupiter sextile Venus/Juno there are strong feelings of devotion and committment. Sun is conjunct Saturn, this is also a very binding aspect which gives a serious tone though, as if duties and responsibilities to each other have a weight and this might restrain the most romantic emotions. Mars/North Node is square to Venus/Juno, this is a strong sexual aspect which makes the relationship very passionate but carrying an aggressive trait as one of the two might become excessively dominant over the other, arguments and fights might arise making things exciting but draining in the long run. Chiron is square Sun/Saturn forming a Grand Cross with Moon square Uranus... this suggests that the relationship might be restricted by some particular responsibility/issue from one of the two interfering and making the relationship emotionally unstable... Sun/Saturn is square to Uranus, this is unfortunately a strong divisive or break up/divorce aspect. There could be conflicting goals or strong incompatibility in your life paths and the man might start neglecting the relationship, with this aspect potential break up can be abrupt and painful. My feeling is that this is a very passionate bond but with some conflicting traits and there's also something challenging on a basic plane in your lives or in the life of one of you that might bring a burden and that will pose priorities of one of you with more weight or making one of you dependent from the other's decisions, will or needs... IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 2132 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted October 07, 2020 10:00 PM
...transiting North Node is going towards Composite MC and square to Vertex/DSC. This suggests your bond is likely taking a very serious establishment/committment at this moment, maybe financial/career sphere is also having a weight... transiting Saturn going direct opposite to Sun/Saturn confirms that there's a serious undertaking at this moment, it will be conjunct to Composite Moon early next year. Are you planning marriage or moving in together? IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 08, 2020 02:52 AM
Thank you very much Stoika7. Yes, there are limits in our relationship, I’m married and he’s a single man. I’m very involved and it’s difficult to let go. What about synastry? Is he involved too? Kind regardsIP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 08, 2020 02:59 AM
Thank you very much Stoika7. Yes, there are limits in our relationship. I’m married and he’s a single man. I’m very involved and it’s so difficult to let go. What about synastry? Is he involved too? Kind regardsIP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 08, 2020 07:21 AM
Thank you very much Stoika7. Yes, there are limits in our relationship. I’m married and he’s a single man. I’m very involved and it’s so difficult to let go. What about synastry? Is he involved too? Kind regardsIP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 4988 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 08, 2020 03:13 PM
I hi Alaska I think that your friends will tell you the same thing I do. He is bad for you and you are looking through rose colored glasses. You are extremely sensitive but you are quick to see only the good in others.your moon/Neptune conjunction square to pholous suggest you have a alcohol issue. Mars conjunct the node and square to Venus shows the intense sexual feelings NHS,though I would not call this love as he is devoid of sincere feelings. Even though the Eros/psyche midpoint is conjunct the show giving feeling of a first love it is in you head as he is a destructive and cold person. To start Saturn is conjunct to Orcus and square to Chiron so he is mean, dominating fuel.the sun and Orcus are square to Lilith showing these dark characteristic are a the root of his being. In addition,the mars/Venus midpoint is square to nessus which suggests you have a childhood history of abuse for you to he attracted to someone who only uses you .you do no seem to separate love and pain. As I said alcohol is likely the common thread that unites you.there is nothing thing healthy in this affair.todd IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 2132 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted October 08, 2020 04:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Alaska71: Thank you very much Stoika7. Yes, there are limits in our relationship, I’m married and he’s a single man. I’m very involved and it’s difficult to let go. What about synastry? Is he involved too? Kind regards
He's involved as his Sun/Chiron is on your DSC, but this could suggest that he's attracted to you as a counterwight to his own inner "wounds", likely an emotional/abandonment issue he has with Chiron square Moon, but your Mars conjunct his Moon is square to this so this could be a strong sexual/emotional glue but that can become "toxic"... you also have your Pluto square his Venus which can also be a toxic trait and very hard to let go... his Mars/Jupiter on your MC and square to your Jupiter, I think he would want you to leave your husband and will be uncompromising and could start to arise troubles about your marriage, but his Saturn is unaspected and his Pluto/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Saturn, so I think that his urge to have you only for him could be only a possessive desire but if you leave your marriage he might not be a reliable/stable partner, he's not going to care about your troubles if you leave your husband, so be careful. IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 09, 2020 01:48 AM
Hi Todd, something is wrong here. I don’t drink alcohol, never. I don’t like it. I had no childhood abuse, I was a very happy child. He’s a very sensitive person. If someone is dominant, that is me. However, thank you for your personal interpretation.IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 09, 2020 02:13 AM
Hi Stoika, Thank you for your reply. I won’t leave my husband, there are children too. But it’s so difficult. I saw that his pluto conjunct my Venus, so it’s a DW. Very addictive and toxic as you said. Moreover, in his solar return I saw that his Sun is conjunct to my Dc, his moon to my Asc, his north node to my vertex. Is it important or not? RegardsIP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 2132 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted October 09, 2020 02:25 AM
Ciao :-) Yes those aspects look significant, I think it shows he strongly feels the bond with you and wishes for a future together... The "toxic" aspects might just be the expression of the fact that the feelings are so intense but in the challenged situation it all becomes obsessive... I think that his Chiron/Sun square moon is treatened by your mars, and that he might feel neglected by you and might react badly with those turbolent composite aspects... Transits to composite though would suggest that you will intensify your bond in a close future, not a letting go, at least not in a near future... even though with composite sun/saturn square uranus the relationship is hardly going to be very stable... My personal feeling is that you will keep this going for some time. Hugs.IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 09, 2020 03:58 AM
Hi Todd, something is wrong here. I don’t drink alcohol, never. I don’t like it. I had no childhood abuse, I was a very happy child. He’s a very sensitive person. If someone is dominant, that is me. However, thank you for your personal interpretation.IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 09, 2020 08:34 AM
Thanks a lot Stoika!IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted September 18, 2021 11:19 AM
Hi, Stoika! What about this synastry? Me: September 29th, 1971 in Ascoli Piceno (Italy) at 09:30 am him: June 24th, 1968 in Ascoli Piceno (Italy) at 09.00 amThank you for your reply! IP: Logged |
Alaska71 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Italy Registered: Oct 2020
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posted September 18, 2021 12:35 PM
Hi, Stoika! What about this synastry? Me: September 29th, 1971 in Ascoli Piceno (Italy) at 09:30 am him: June 24th, 1968 in Ascoli Piceno (Italy) at 09.00 amThank you for your reply! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 148097 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 29, 2021 05:21 PM
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