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AnnabelLucy
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posted October 26, 2022 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can somebody please take a look at these charts and tell me what the heck kind of karma I have going on with this current love interest and/or why he acts weird and distant and disinterested? I mean... I've never shared a chart like this with any other human I've met and yet here he is being nonchalant and ignorant while I have to be obsessed and infatuated?! Rude :'D

He is red, I am blue. His name asteroid is Taylor, mine is Roberts (for reference).

Birth data is:
Me - 22/11/91, 10:22am, Blackburn, England
Him - 16/08/90, 03:00am, Blackburn, England

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rainyvirgo
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posted October 26, 2022 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rainyvirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi! For the images to work you have to put [IMG] at the beginning and [/IMG] at the end, and remove the s from https

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AnnabelLucy
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posted October 26, 2022 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rainyvirgo:
Hi! For the images to work you have to put [IMG] at the beginning and [/IMG] at the end, and remove the s from https

Thank you very much I've edited! They're still coming up as links only but I've probably done something wrong (coding isn't a skill of mine)

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rainyvirgo
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posted October 26, 2022 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rainyvirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have to take the spaces out )

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PlutoWasHere
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posted October 27, 2022 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking at the natal charts I can see that the red person has their Leo Sun square Taurus Mars. There might be some sensitivity regarding masculinity and their ego, and they could have a very competitive nature. It gets triggered by the blue Scorpio Mars and Pluto conjunction. This might be very attractive but could also lead to frustration, especially for the red person because Mars is in its “fall” in Taurus. The person with Leo Sun might get hurt in their pride by the strong Scorpio Mars. It could also be that his Taurus Mars needs some time to come into action, especially if he fears rejection. His Mars is also ruled by Leo Venus so the ego might be very sensitive here. He might be more receptive after getting some ego boosting compliments.😁

I would expect a strong mutual attraction because the red ascendant ruler (Gemini Moon) is conjunct the blue descendant. This is a very strong indication for attraction and compatibility. But given the red natal chart their pride might get in the way. This also might be seen in the composite chart with Mars square Pluto, making a t-square with Jupiter as well. Harsh aspects with Pluto often indicate an attraction and repulsion dynamic involving power struggles. I can’t see in the charts how well someone has integrated their challenges, so maybe a sensitive ego is the issue or maybe something else is going on. A lot of fixed signs are going through a rough time right now with transit Saturn, Uranus and the eclipses in fixed signs too.

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AnnabelLucy
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posted October 27, 2022 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for that insight Pluto, I think you might be onto something with the ego thing. I know he has similar past trauma to me, but I have been working on mine for the last 8 months and he has been busy opening a business (no time to address underlying stuff I suppose). I guess there is a chance I might intimidate him a little given that I'm channelling a lot of masculine energy (working towards fulfilling my own Capricorn NN and also "business" is the capacity I see him in the most currently) and I have a lot of masculine planet influences in my chart in general, as you point out re: Mars.

I certainly feel that eclipse energy and the heavy influence of Saturn right now, it would make sense to expect him to also be under the influence of these powerful cosmic occurrences. I'm still going through my Saturn return until March 2023 too, perhaps that is having an influence on my end...

I'm curious about all that draconic karmic stuff though, it's certainly occurred to me that this is supposed to be challenging and teaching me something rather than being a simple harmonious connection, I'm just not entirely sure what...

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Randall
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posted October 29, 2022 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You didn't take out the "s" after http.

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posted October 29, 2022 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Looking at the natal charts I can see that the red person has their Leo Sun square Taurus Mars. There might be some sensitivity regarding masculinity and their ego, and they could have a very competitive nature. It gets triggered by the blue Scorpio Mars and Pluto conjunction. This might be very attractive but could also lead to frustration, especially for the red person because Mars is in its “fall” in Taurus. The person with Leo Sun might get hurt in their pride by the strong Scorpio Mars. It could also be that his Taurus Mars needs some time to come into action, especially if he fears rejection. His Mars is also ruled by Leo Venus so the ego might be very sensitive here. He might be more receptive after getting some ego boosting compliments.😁

I would expect a strong mutual attraction because the red ascendant ruler (Gemini Moon) is conjunct the blue descendant. This is a very strong indication for attraction and compatibility. But given the red natal chart their pride might get in the way. This also might be seen in the composite chart with Mars square Pluto, making a t-square with Jupiter as well. Harsh aspects with Pluto often indicate an attraction and repulsion dynamic involving power struggles. I can’t see in the charts how well someone has integrated their challenges, so maybe a sensitive ego is the issue or maybe something else is going on. A lot of fixed signs are going through a rough time right now with transit Saturn, Uranus and the eclipses in fixed signs too.


Oh thank you for pointing out the Sun square Mars.
Because like AnabelLucy...the synastry is insane, and it's super frustrating that we cannot fully have our way with each other.

If I am not an insane person, I really think we are both doing the "I don't care, but I really do care" game.

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AnnabelLucy
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posted October 30, 2022 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is how I thought it was at first, but the more I get ignored the more I think he legitimately must not feel the energy like I do despite all the crazy karmic bonds and strong attractions. It's frustrating as it then becomes an issue of self worth and dignity. In the end, it's a huge waste of time fantasising that there is something going on under the surface when there isn't!?

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litarot
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posted October 31, 2022 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for litarot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't take so risk to synastry. You two have the 8th houses activated in this synastry. From what I've seen, his Sun and Mercury fall in your 8th house, and your Valentine falls in his 8th house. Well, in practice, not only for the houses but for the aspects of you (which I've seen in other synastry and this worked) it seems that it's not working in the Synastry of the two of you. Well, interestingly, a friend had DW from house 8 with a guy, and this was supposed to be very warm and reciprocal, but only she felt the effects. I've seen so many bad synastry that wouldn't have attraction aspects working, and others that were meant to be hot go nowhere.

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AnnabelLucy
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posted October 31, 2022 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by litarot:
Don't take so risk to synastry. You two have the 8th houses activated in this synastry. From what I've seen, his Sun and Mercury fall in your 8th house, and your Valentine falls in his 8th house. Well, in practice, not only for the houses but for the aspects of you (which I've seen in other synastry and this worked) it seems that it's not working in the Synastry of the two of you. Well, interestingly, a friend had DW from house 8 with a guy, and this was supposed to be very warm and reciprocal, but only she felt the effects. I've seen so many bad synastry that wouldn't have attraction aspects working, and others that were meant to be hot go nowhere.

This makes sense, thank you for your response. Despite my feelings I am under no false hope or illusion that, just because the synastry looks intense and significant, there is any future with Mr Leo. After all, astrology is all about potentials, not predictions(!). This particular connection is ostensibly not meant to me in this lifetime. But the charts do raise many interesting questions and seem to speak of a soul family or karmic bond, so hey, maybe next time around haha.

I am still interested in people's analysis and opinions on what they see here though, as it's all teaching me about the noble art of synastry!

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litarot
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posted November 01, 2022 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for litarot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AnnabelLucy:
This makes sense, thank you for your response. Despite my feelings I am under no false hope or illusion that, just because the synastry looks intense and significant, there is any future with Mr Leo. After all, astrology is all about potentials, not predictions(!). This particular connection is ostensibly not meant to me in this lifetime. But the charts do raise many interesting questions and seem to speak of a soul family or karmic bond, so hey, maybe next time around haha.

I am still interested in people's analysis and opinions on what they see here though, as it's all teaching me about the noble art of synastry!


I particularly feel the 1st house is stronger in terms of beginnings, since the 1st house is you, that is, it is your energy materialized for others. In terms of Karmas and past lives, I advise looking at the 12th house (the house that Saturn loves) and the South Node. House 8 ultimately.

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AnnabelLucy
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posted November 01, 2022 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you litarot <3 I'll look into it!

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Randall
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posted November 16, 2022 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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