posted February 07, 2024 10:37 PM            

First is synastry chart and second is composite.

How would both relate?

posted February 12, 2024 02:30 PM            

Outside person might have come as a shock to the inside person, or change their identity in some fundamental way. They may trigger some of the inner person's core wounds, especially around communication, friendship, and ideals. Actually inner person triggers outer person's core wounds too - there is mutual wounding/potential healing going on, but the healing comes through triggering, not nurture. They likely experience the inner person as very controlling and repressive. Inner person may have obsessive tendencies toward outside person. However, outside person likely stimulates inner person's thinking, philosophy about life, but may tamp down their ideas or enthusiasm sometimes. Very similar emotional natures, an innate emotional understanding that feels effortlessly nurturing. Outer person triggers the inner person's hopes, dreams, ideals, but inner person may develop illusions around them as a result. Inner person stimulates outer person intellectually, outer person likes to exchange ideas with them. Romantically or just artistically, or even financially, inner person has a lot to learn from outer person, but the inner person is likely to resist these lessons even if they are drawn to them. Inner person appears as outer person's repressed qualities/traits and therefore ideals in a partner, but also triggers their unconscious issues as well as unrealistic romantic ideals. Inner person may want commitment.

posted February 13, 2024 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Hey, are you inside or outside?

Outside person might have come as a shock to the inside person, or change their identity in some fundamental way. They may trigger some of the inner person's core wounds, especially around communication, friendship, and ideals. Actually inner person triggers outer person's core wounds too - there is mutual wounding/potential healing going on, but the healing comes through triggering, not nurture. They likely experience the inner person as very controlling and repressive. Inner person may have obsessive tendencies toward outside person. However, outside person likely stimulates inner person's thinking, philosophy about life, but may tamp down their ideas or enthusiasm sometimes. Very similar emotional natures, an innate emotional understanding that feels effortlessly nurturing. Outer person triggers the inner person's hopes, dreams, ideals, but inner person may develop illusions around them as a result. Inner person stimulates outer person intellectually, outer person likes to exchange ideas with them. Romantically or just artistically, or even financially, inner person has a lot to learn from outer person, but the inner person is likely to resist these lessons even if they are drawn to them. Inner person appears as outer person's repressed qualities/traits and therefore ideals in a partner, but also triggers their unconscious issues as well as unrealistic romantic ideals. Inner person may want commitment.

In the composite, communication and exchanging ideas is again a major theme, but this can be in conflict if egos get involved and butt heads. The purpose of the relationship is to develop felt security, especially as individuals. There is some blindspot the couple has that inhibits their ability to commit, although it appears as ideal. The composite also repeats the theme of control, repressive attitudes, some emotional heaviness.

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posted February 13, 2024 03:54 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Hey, are you inside or outside?

Outside person might have come as a shock to the inside person, or change their identity in some fundamental way. They may trigger some of the inner person's core wounds, especially around communication, friendship, and ideals. Actually inner person triggers outer person's core wounds too - there is mutual wounding/potential healing going on, but the healing comes through triggering, not nurture. They likely experience the inner person as very controlling and repressive. Inner person may have obsessive tendencies toward outside person. However, outside person likely stimulates inner person's thinking, philosophy about life, but may tamp down their ideas or enthusiasm sometimes. Very similar emotional natures, an innate emotional understanding that feels effortlessly nurturing. Outer person triggers the inner person's hopes, dreams, ideals, but inner person may develop illusions around them as a result. Inner person stimulates outer person intellectually, outer person likes to exchange ideas with them. Romantically or just artistically, or even financially, inner person has a lot to learn from outer person, but the inner person is likely to resist these lessons even if they are drawn to them. Inner person appears as outer person's repressed qualities/traits and therefore ideals in a partner, but also triggers their unconscious issues as well as unrealistic romantic ideals. Inner person may want commitment.

In the composite, communication and exchanging ideas is again a major theme, but this can be in conflict if egos get involved and butt heads. The purpose of the relationship is to develop felt security, especially as individuals. There is some blindspot the couple has that inhibits their ability to commit, although it appears as ideal. The composite also repeats the theme of control, repressive attitudes, some emotional heaviness.

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Oh gosh sounds like I’m the controlling one lol

Can this work? Is there a prediction to the future of this? Not sure if he will come back. Clearly I triggered something! And he hasn’t told me but I felt it. Also I’m not sure I can move to where he is