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Topic: a synastry between and a person in love with me
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viiv28 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: kaspichan Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 13, 2014 09:45 AM
Dear all, I posted that I am afraid about being an old maid. Due to this fear I decided to consider people interested in me, who I have not considered before. There is a guy who is in love with me for a long time, but is quite younger than me --6 years. Also I was in love with someone else, who just was not serious about me. This prevented me from paying attention to this person, who has shared his feelings for a long time. Now with my fears about spinsterhood and lack of children I decided to consider this guy. I do not know his time of birth. This is the synastry: Thank you very much for the help. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Moderator Posts: 3279 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 13, 2014 12:01 PM
I'm going to be frank as usual. You're in the prime of your life. Turning 34, if I'm correct about the 1980 JUP-SAT conjunction in Libra there.Your chart is similar to one of my dearest soul-sisters; I'd say you're born a month behind her. She's remained single, with no kids, like you. Just got other things to do. She's open to the idea, but waiting for just the right one. And I say more power to her. Don't ever let the fear of losing the opportunity for love and children push you into settling for someone you don't love. That's never the right environment for children. Wait. This is my advice. Perhaps the synastry is nice -- nothing immediately grabbed me, though. The point is don't make decisions based in fear -- especially not when it comes to love. Wait. IP: Logged |
viiv28 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: kaspichan Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 13, 2014 02:46 PM
Hi, thanks! Well yes of course I will wait and will not marry this guy tomorrow but still think of dating him. To be honest I know many cases in which feelings develop with time. This guy is a very nice person and very very intelligent and also very positive. We have been friends for some time so I do like him very much as a friend. What worries me the most is the age difference.IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Moderator Posts: 3279 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 13, 2014 02:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by viiv28: Hi, thanks! Well yes of course I will wait and will not marry this guy tomorrow but still think of dating him. To be honest I know many cases in which feelings develop with time. This guy is a very nice person and very very intelligent and also very positive. We have been friends for some time so I do like him very much as a friend. What worries me the most is the age difference.
Is it about 5 years?
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viiv28 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: kaspichan Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 13, 2014 02:48 PM
no it is 6.5 years him being my junior, but he also seems to have a bit not so much experience with women and very idealistic.IP: Logged |