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Topic: Please help me understand why I cannot forget about him...
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margym0o Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 20, 2014 08:09 PM
We dated for almost 3 years. We met online, went on a roller coaster ride to finally end up together, dated long distance for 1 year living in different countries and while he was in Afghanistan, until I finally moved to the US to be with him. It was a very easy relationship is really all I can say. We were best friends and I felt so comfortable with him. Talking to him was effortless. Eventually I grew tired of his immaturity. I felt like his 'mother' towards the end and we had lost that passion. He was also like a 'fart in the wind' for lack of a better expression - changing his mind about his life path every other day seemingly which made me nervous. I also missed home very much. We had an amicable split as he understood my reasons. We remained friends and we still chat though we have both moved on over a year and a half later. Still I cannot get him off my mind. I think of him often - not necessarily in a romantic sense but the ease of our interaction with each other. I find it so hard to replicate that same feeling with people I have dated since him. He just 'got me' if that makes sense... Was our synastry/composite strong? With my limited knowledge it doesn't appear to be. I hope I can fully move past this someday. Synastry: Composite: IP: Logged |
amelia28 Moderator Posts: 4014 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 20, 2014 10:20 PM
The composite has a kite, a mystic rectangle, a house and a grandtrine.Plus: Two yods in synastry. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 20, 2014 10:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: The composite has a kite, a mystic rectangle, a house and a grandtrine.Plus: Two yods in synastry.
I'm kind of a noob at this still but I am to assume that's a good thing. Edit: Sorry, what are the yods in the synastry? I have an idea but I can't really tell for sure. What would they signify? (Still learning ) IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4534 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 20, 2014 11:03 PM
•Pluto/Venus square •Venus/Pluto sextile...looks like your Moon/Nep/Nep conjunction is also is aspecting the Venus/Pluto sextileNot sure exactly how tight these aspects are but I know they are tight enough that there is a good possibility for obsessive feelings and an intense urge to be together! Look up Pluto/Venus synastry of any kind and you will understand! IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 21, 2014 09:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: •Pluto/Venus square •Venus/Pluto sextile...looks like your Moon/Nep/Nep conjunction is also is aspecting the Venus/Pluto sextileNot sure exactly how tight these aspects are but I know they are tight enough that there is a good possibility for obsessive feelings and an intense urge to be together! Look up Pluto/Venus synastry of any kind and you will understand!
Oh I have Venus square Pluto natally so I understand very well what this entails! Ugh. Is the moon/nep/nep conjunction you're referring to one of the yods? IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4534 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 21, 2014 09:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: Oh I have Venus square Pluto natally so I understand very well what this entails! Ugh.Is the moon/nep/nep conjunction you're referring to one of the yods?
Yes it is! IP: Logged |
amelia28 Moderator Posts: 4014 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 21, 2014 11:02 AM
1. Red moon at the MC conjuncts Blue Neptune and this conjunction is at the apex of a Yod which incojuncts blue venus on one side and red jupiter on the other.2. The other Yod involves red jupiter at the apex inconjuncting blue neptune/red moon on one side and inconjuncting blue pluto on the other. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 21, 2014 12:30 PM
Thank you With the synastry and composite like that, does it indicate at all that this was some sort of "fated" or "karmic" relationship? The second I heard his voice (and I'll never forget it) there was this overwhelming sense of familiarity and comfort there. It's hard to describe. From then everything just flowed like it was a movie plot unfolding. I'm a big believer in fate anyway but I just had this sense that he came into my life when he did for a reason. IP: Logged |