posted December 23, 2019 02:50 PM            

7th House is more about positive projection of one's shadow/unconscious. We typically think of the shadow in terms of "negative" or at least limiting aspects, but sometimes we do not fully accept positive, helpful, gifted, talented, or what not, things about ourselves either.

For basically the same reason as we reject the negative or limiting--a lack of a more full and true self/other love.

Anyways, 7th House and Venus can relate to those positive shadow projections.

After all, all "opposite" signs are really just two different sides of the same coin. It's like one is a lower and one a higher octave of each other. One more personal and one more collective. You need both for a greater and balanced whole. Tip too much to one side, and you get lopsided/imbalanced, whether its to the lower or higher octave.

Or, in other words, the different opposite Sign pairings, in a sense, need each other to be whole.

If someone is complete within themselves (fully and truly love themselves and others), then they don't really need a close, personal relationship and that kind of reflection dynamic. But, these types are rare. (and they still might partake in the "game" for service reasons, depending).

But, I would imagine that with a strong connection between the 7th and 5th, mutually, that this would tend to indicate a strong mutual attraction, particularly if Planetary/point interactions also support same.

But then again, people also have "free"will (I prefer the term spiritual will, as freewill is a bit of inaccurate misnomer as we experience so much conditioning and structures which influence us), and sometimes, people even walk away from pre-contracted connections.

posted December 24, 2019 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
I'm not sure that 7th House necessarily corresponds to "ideal partner". I'm not even sure such a thing exists other than in romance novels...

7th House is more about positive projection of one's shadow/unconscious. We typically think of the shadow in terms of "negative" or at least limiting aspects, but sometimes we do not fully accept positive, helpful, gifted, talented, or what not, things about ourselves either.

For basically the same reason as we reject the negative or limiting--a lack of a more full and true self/other love.

Anyways, 7th House and Venus can relate to those positive shadow projections.

After all, all "opposite" signs are really just two different sides of the same coin. It's like one is a lower and one a higher octave of each other. One more personal and one more collective. You need both for a greater and balanced whole. Tip too much to one side, and you get lopsided/imbalanced, whether its to the lower or higher octave.

Or, in other words, the different opposite Sign pairings, in a sense, need each other to be whole.

If someone is complete within themselves (fully and truly love themselves and others), then they don't really need a close, personal relationship and that kind of reflection dynamic. But, these types are rare. (and they still might partake in the "game" for service reasons, depending).

But, I would imagine that with a strong connection between the 7th and 5th, mutually, that this would tend to indicate a strong mutual attraction, particularly if Planetary/point interactions also support same.

But then again, people also have "free"will (I prefer the term spiritual will, as freewill is a bit of inaccurate misnomer as we experience so much conditioning and structures which influence us), and sometimes, people even walk away from pre-contracted connections.

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posted December 24, 2019 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Coolkewlio:
Ya true what i have known is that 7th house basically shows the type of partner we get or attract in our lives.
And also there is double whammy venus mars conjunction in our synastry.
Are there any combinations in synastry which shows like a long lasting or permanent attraction to someone? [/B]

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Well, there sure does seem to be a lot of "theories" and myths about this out there, but as to how much objective truth there are to these, that's anybody's guess.

My advice--specifically go around and find couples that have been together for a long time, say 20 years plus, and weed out the ones of these that are actually more happy than not with the relationship (that might be hard to do in and of itself, you'll either need to be able to read or see auras pretty well or have a pretty good intuitive b.s. detector).

Then look for patterns. If you find any repeating ones, come back and report your findings.

I have not done this. Doubt too many have and on a large enough scale to actually count for more than a can of beans. (Uh oh, you know I'm getting feisty when the old people sayings start coming out).

Personally, I look for a blend of harmony and inharmony (for some spice), but slightly more weighted to the harmony all in all.

I do see a general pattern in a number of charts between people that are particularly close, of a lot of same sign and opposite sign connections between different symbols. The big ones being Sun same or opposite the other's Moon or Ascendant and the Moon same or opposite the others Ascendant.

Moon or Venus same or opposite Mars indicate a strong sexual and/or romantic factor and attraction often, which is especially noticable when supported by mutual 1st, 5th, 7th, and 8th stuff.

4th can indicate some pretty strong ties as well.

Jupiter connections are nice because they often indicate a deeper spiritual connection as well as a heart openeness/givingess and joviality and tolerance which is based more on a true actual "Love" than many other connections, and can mitigate or balance out say heavier, Saturnian and/or Plutonian type connections. Again, especially in terms of same and opposite Signs.

Moon same or opposite Venus is particularly comforting, peaceful, familiar, getting along, respectful, and harmonizing in nature, course the opposition does indicate a bit more spice and attraction than being same sign, but no real or deep actual "tension" as sometimes is outlined by oppositions.

I mean, synastry is really a complex subject. Very hard to sum it up in a full book, let alone a forum post. If doing the average individual's chart is like putting together a 500 piece puzzle, then comparing two natal charts is like putting together a 1500 piece puzzle (non linear).

Been at this astrology thang for a long time, and I don't feel I've mastered it yet in a deeply consistent and accurate sense.

posted December 24, 2019 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Well, there sure does seem to be a lot of "theories" and myths about this out there, but as to how much objective truth there are to these, that's anybody's guess.

My advice--specifically go around and find couples that have been together for a long time, say 20 years plus, and weed out the ones of these that are actually more happy than not with the relationship (that might be hard to do in and of itself, you'll either need to be able to read or see auras pretty well or have a pretty good intuitive b.s. detector).

Then look for patterns. If you find any repeating ones, come back and report your findings.

I have not done this. Doubt too many have and on a large enough scale to actually count for more than a can of beans. (Uh oh, you know I'm getting feisty when the old people sayings start coming out).

Personally, I look for a blend of harmony and inharmony (for some spice), but slightly more weighted to the harmony all in all.

I do see a general pattern in a number of charts between people that are particularly close, of a lot of same sign and opposite sign connections between different symbols. The big ones being Sun same or opposite the other's Moon or Ascendant and the Moon same or opposite the others Ascendant.

Moon or Venus same or opposite Mars indicate a strong sexual and/or romantic factor and attraction often, which is especially noticable when supported by mutual 1st, 5th, 7th, and 8th stuff.

4th can indicate some pretty strong ties as well.

Jupiter connections are nice because they often indicate a deeper spiritual connection as well as a heart openeness/givingess and joviality and tolerance which is based more on a true actual "Love" than many other connections, and can mitigate or balance out say heavier, Saturnian and/or Plutonian type connections. Again, especially in terms of same and opposite Signs.

Moon same or opposite Venus is particularly comforting, peaceful, familiar, getting along, respectful, and harmonizing in nature, course the opposition does indicate a bit more spice and attraction than being same sign, but no real or deep actual "tension" as sometimes is outlined by oppositions.

I mean, synastry is really a complex subject. Very hard to sum it up in a full book, let alone a forum post. If doing the average individual's chart is like putting together a 500 piece puzzle, then comparing two natal charts is like putting together a 1500 piece puzzle (non linear).

Been at this astrology thang for a long time, and I don't feel I've mastered it yet in a deeply consistent and accurate sense.

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I believe there could be good compatibility with many harmonious aspects but the relationship may not be meant to be and u might have bad synastry with your spouse because its all about working out karma. I don't think there is any combination in synastry which can foolproof show if it will turn out into marriage.

posted December 26, 2019 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Coolkewlio:
I believe there could be good compatibility with many harmonious aspects but the relationship may not be meant to be and u might have bad synastry with your spouse because its all about working out karma. I don't think there is any combination in synastry which can foolproof show if it will turn out into marriage.

I got with my person our moons conjunct plus moon trine venus DW. What possible jupiter combinations in synastry lead to deep spiritual connection? Or just in general show spiritual connection in synastry

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