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Selenite
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posted October 28, 2014 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have some sort of crush.. Very mysterious and intense connection we have, barely have spoken to each other but we'll be working together soon. Tell me what you think?

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posted October 28, 2014 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi selenite,
this is a tough one.the moon is trine to Saturn and their midpoint is conjunct the vertex and ascendant. this is an exceptionally stable and harmonious emotional connection snd it does stabilize relationships though it can not counter act hard or malicious squares . mercury is conjunct the node so there is immediate telepathy between you. you know each other thoughts and can actually send your thoughts to each other.this is a extremely psychic connection.mercury with the dragon brings romantic and sexual desires through the attraction of minds. your mental harmony is the main reason there is a interest between you.
interestingly you mars/venus midpoint is square to ,I think, telepathy.... is that the name of the asteroid? if so once again both systems,asteriods and planets portray the same dynamics.

but I think you should run as even though the sun is conjuhct to venus, the sun is also tightly conjunct pluto and square to Saturn.these are hard malicious aspects . it shows no compromise ,only cold and cruel emotional submission. the real danger here is that the eros/[psyche midpoint is conjunct to node/Pluto. this shows a attraction to the darkness.
this is innocence in the face of evil , this is pain with pleasure as in S/M or master/slave dynamics.
mars square eros shows him to be a outgoing and emotional guy.
I think the asteroid chaos opposed to venus is absolutely descriptive of the emotional turmoil you could descend into.
the Saturn/chiron midpoint is also conjunct Eros/psyche and Pluto/node.
you say you are to work with him.
I would to a net search on him .
definitely do not get involved. keep it platonic.


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posted October 29, 2014 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One thing's for sure. NYMPHE-JUNO in both of your natals. Casual sex is out of the question!

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posted October 29, 2014 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Todd, the asteroid is TELEPHUS. It indicates a tendency to communicate at a distance. As in 'telephone'.

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posted October 29, 2014 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much <3 i wasn't expecting such a detailed reading, so cool of you
Wow.. What can I say, how could i resist someone who I would connect that deeply with?
I'm a bit confused as to what the danger is, because even if it's very intense, and even dark, the emotional stability is really what matters in the end, and that seems ok, right?

I was getting a vibe of urgency, like this is important and it will play out and I have to stay aware. But yes the reason I posted this was mainly to make sure I wasn't blind to any huge red flags.. And it seems like there are some, but again I'm confused. Do you mean that this could be abusive, or obsessive, unhealthy, unrequited?
Well, I'm getting ahead of myself anyway. thanks again..

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posted October 29, 2014 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
One thing's for sure. NYMPHE-JUNO in both of your natals. Casual sex is out of the question!

Oh that is interesting! I never noticed that

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posted October 29, 2014 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selenite:
Oh that is interesting! I never noticed that

Yeah, and the fact it's JUNO, that's a definite link between you. Honestly, EROS/PSYCHE=NODE/PLUTO is NOT a bad thing, in my view. Intense? Sure. Transformative? Absolutely. But bad? I don't see it that way.

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posted October 29, 2014 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Yeah, and the fact it's JUNO, that's a definite link between you. Honestly, EROS/PSYCHE=NODE/PLUTO is NOT a bad thing, in my view. Intense? Sure. Transformative? Absolutely. But bad? I don't see it that way.

I agree
Also, in the synastry, the moon on my ascendant is really interesting to me - it's almost exact, and his sun is 1 degree opposite my moon. And then his moon trining my sun and mercury. Seems pretty forgiving.
Todd was right he is very emotional and outgoing, very sarcastic but in a subdued way.. On the job application he wrote to the applicants: 'just please no BS' and that's when i knew

I am concerned by his pluto squaring my ascendant. My last relationship was like that and it was abusive. (But he also had it natally.) I'm also worried about acting a fool because my Pluto is on his Venus and my Mars is squaring his Venus. So I'm inclined to run so I don't do anything stupid! I've already played that game.. Not fun. But then I am already engaging in manipulative Pluto behavior by running
Guess I'll just have to go with the flow then

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posted October 29, 2014 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Todd, the asteroid is TELEPHUS. It indicates a tendency to communicate at a distance. As in 'telephone'.

thanks for the clarification. it meaning is still related to telepathy as the mercury/node conjunction indicates.there were no telephones when telephus was embodied.

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posted October 29, 2014 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi selenite

just a intial note to aubyanne.

with a Saturn pluto square, the eros/psyche midpoint conjunct node/pluto midpoint is very dangerous. psyche is often found aspected harshly in young abuse victims. anytime oyu have vibrations of light and life conjunct vibrations of transformation and death, tenuous consciousness develops by having to distinguish pleasure from pain and love from hate.

I also read nymphe and juno as licentious as Jupiter and nymphe. nymphe is associated with orgiastic rituals among the springs. the roman version of juno certainly cast a chaste shadow but juno too has a lustful and rustic appetite .

selenite

as you seem to be entranced by the darkness of this chart , I looked at your natal to see you sexual conditioning.
your chart is lightly abusive , in that nearly all relationship have been emotionally and sexually abusive.orcuus square the node,by itself is aabusiv life experience. this aspect made it lijkely that al is repressed of b;locked.
mars is squiare the stellium of Pluto nymphe and ixion. this pattern is abusive.it shows most men have all been abusive especially in your family. nymphe with pluto bears on the concept of child abuse in a chart. With pluto and orcus posited so strongly, th effect is that you act extremely selfish. but as these dynamics are repressed ,you don't see yourself as selfish.you problems in human relations will always come down to you not see how your insensitivity hurts or offend others.
your Saturn/chiron midpoint is opposed to eros ,once again bring the image of early abusive environments. Jupiter is square to mars and conjunct the pluto stellium. Jupiter's influence bring cultural and generational abuse dynamics. this includes authority figures, friends of family of grand parents.it shows the abusive familial dynamic underlies the family structure so that what other's might describe as abuse relations are simply part of the natural family dynamic.

but you are such a spontaneous sweetheart.your venus/mars midpoint is opposed to the moon/Saturn midpoint and square the vertex axis. this shows you loving spirit and you sense of and need for devotion and commitment.the mars square the juno/Jupiter conjunction also shows a desire for marriage. and most serious relationships are base on this premise

but you are so emotional and idealistic that your sense of the possible is lost in space sometimes .with the eros/psyche midpoint square to eris,you have the naiveté of youthful innocence coupled with insatiable physical desires . this is a spirit that needs to be in the ecstasy spiritual love along with the intense throes of carnal union.

with Uranus square to the moon, you emotions are volatile and inspires.as neptune is conjunct Uranus, you are given visions and far reaching ideas. you seem many possibilities but uncertainty can make it difficult to decide on what directions to go or which plan to use.

when the south node transits your eris around the 8th of December, you sexual nature will be very strong and aggressive. if you and he are not intimate before then ,then I would expect him to jump your bones if you wish it.

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posted October 29, 2014 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by todd:

anytime oyu have vibrations of light and life conjunct vibrations of transformation and death, tenuous consciousness develops by having to distinguish pleasure from pain and love from hate.


Yes I really resonate with this.. Didn't know that the Psyche aspect was the explanation. In the past when I've felt a lot of pain I've viewed myself with a light in my heart and surrounded by demons. & I use this concept in art to channel it in a healthy way.


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as you seem to be entranced by the darkness of this chart , I looked at your natal to see you sexual conditioning.
your chart is lightly abusive , in that nearly all relationship have been emotionally and sexually abusive.orcuus square the node,by itself is aabusiv life experience. this aspect made it lijkely that al is repressed of b;locked.
mars is squiare the stellium of Pluto nymphe and ixion. this pattern is abusive.it shows most men have all been abusive especially in your family. nymphe with pluto bears on the concept of child abuse in a chart. With pluto and orcus posited so strongly, th effect is that you act extremely selfish. but as these dynamics are repressed ,you don't see yourself as selfish.you problems in human relations will always come down to you not see how your insensitivity hurts or offend others.
your Saturn/chiron midpoint is opposed to eros ,once again bring the image of early abusive environments. Jupiter is square to mars and conjunct the pluto stellium. Jupiter's influence bring cultural and generational abuse dynamics. this includes authority figures, friends of family of grand parents.it shows the abusive familial dynamic underlies the family structure so that what other's might describe as abuse relations are simply part of the natural family dynamic.


Yeah this was a little hard to read! Very interesting. I've yet to delve into midpoints.. Maybe I should start Ah the selfish thing.. Well, basically I see it as: I need to protect myself to stay healthy because I have been sucked into abuse before. So I am reluctant to comply with people. But I do have a lot of empathy, so I think if someone misinterprets me and won't try to understand or respect me, then we are just not that compatible Because I will do the same for them.. to an extent.
So it is as you say, I don't see myself that way.


This was eye opening. Thanks again, I would pay to be read by you IRL

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posted November 01, 2014 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi selenite.


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