posted May 27, 2021 06:10 PM            

When we go out he'd always prefer very quiet places since he told me he's scared that since we're so very new, if we meet people we know they could give us "the evil eye"... I don't know what to think, if he's a player or just plain superstitious, which I know he is. Or maybe he just wants to keep it hushed until he's absolutely sure about what he feels/wants to do? 🤔

Compelling, magnetic, lots of mental attraction, very deep conversations since the first days of meeting, we are pretty much obsessed even if we both try to not make it so obvious.

posted May 28, 2021 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Try to put your composite. I see his own chart as being secretive and private with personal planets distributed between Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn. Maybe, Uranus/ Neptune sq. MC could make him uncomfortable with public appearances, but you have moon on his DC and Venus in his 10th should be good.
It kinda sounds suspicious, but if you’re very new, I don’t see needs to make it public right away.

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posted June 18, 2021 08:18 PM            

I am still very new to astrology but I'll try my best!

My boyfriend and I also have the 10th house emphasized in the composite. Venus in the 10th house is good as mentioned since it is in it's own sign, Libra. The thing that pops out to me is all the squares. Perhaps the reason why he keeps you hidden is because the 10th house stellium is receiving all that square energy. Neptune is making lots of hard squares with personal planets. Deceit and lying is very much possible. Saturn hard squares also don't look very good. especially squaring sun and venus. Relationship may feel stifled. Mars is also squaring moon, as well as pluto-moon square and indicates trust issues and lots of miscommunication. Overall, this composite is screaming no to me unless you two are evolved people and willing to welcome growth.

posted June 18, 2021 09:20 PM            

-- I'm on my small device and can't view both my notepad and your chart @ same time. Pls forgive me Librapurr and Heavenszing if I am saying What either may had said.

Personal note: I dated a Cappy and Pisces - neither would vocalize feelings. Saying those words. They would lose me, rather get vulnerable on me.

”Compelling, magnetic, lots of mental attraction, very deep conversations since the first days of meeting, we are pretty much obsessed even if we both try to not make it so obvious”
Speaks to me of his water qualities.

With The synastry-
His Pluto is nearly hitting your Juno.
In some astrology thinking, Pluto is very Soul like. That inner side of self.

He may well feel very drawn to you, yet the secret side might be more relating with his Uranus (the rebel) trine with your 5th house moon. boxing you into a play zone. ?Wide trine Chiron could be what makes it difficult to rebel against your open union.

As for hiding it - I think it may be Saturn at play. Restrictive. He has a Cappy Uranus. This could bring him doubts, guilt or fear - anything a fatherly which energy might cause a guy to resist showing off his deeper feelings - too soon. His Jupiter hits your 11th house Saturn (Wishes and dreams).
That could mean his Saturn quality is expanded? Adding how BML for him hits your 5th house. It's as though all his rebellious qualities might be reactive to sharing his feelings in an outwardly way. His Venus is the ultimate secret sign, Scorpio. It trines his Saturn in Pisces another somewhat reclusive energy. He *could* just want you all to himself??? I think this water energy makes me wonder if that's the reason.
Sagittarius, Capricorn seem instrumental in his natal makeup.

Definitely Saturn/Jupiter influence there.

In your composite -

Juno opposite BML
Sun in 10th - There's a presence of you together on the world stage yet he's coming across to me as self conscious. I still feel his chart water and Saturn are his reasons.
Pluto in *water* trines your together Vertex. He might be very sensitive and the fears Pluto can bring with that Saturn are more common possibly. Here's some reading. You two in compsite are merged as one.
http://astrologyclub.org/plutonian-fears/