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posted July 13, 2015 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With someones natal Venus conjucting the composites North Node in the 12th house of Leo, how would one interpret this aspect?

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posted July 14, 2015 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 14, 2015 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm going to give the shiniest most positive interpretation first! The Venus person would be applying their big-hearted, generous, Leonine love nature in service of the mission of the relationship itself, and the relationship, in its ideal manifestation, would feed the Venusian Leo native in many positive ways, allowing them to really go whole hog with their affectionate nature... Together these people will ideally be revealing transcendental truths and being a shining example of what a loving relationship looks like, merely by being, and not by doing... allowing spirit to work through them to show the world what a beautiful open heart chakra can look like; non-judgmental, endearing, engaged, theatrical, and generous... through vibration with the Leonine qualities the relationship is working towards exemplifying.

Is the composite ascendant also in Leo?

The challenge would be that the South Node in Aquarius in the 6th will often challenge the Venus Leo with the tendency towards obsessive-compulsive impersonality and erudite, mental rebelliousness... The relationship may experience periods of fanaticism in some direction, likely in thinking they must constantly be working or caring for others, being of service, etc. and will need grounding in the 12th... quiet time, and candlelight, creating sanctuary... understanding that it is a service to others just being at peace...

I find that our composite South node can be very heavy and successfully integrating the North Node into the interplay between two people is not always easy. Well, the North Node never is I guess... With one person's Venus conjunct the North Node it should be much easier however.. Their way of relating will really resonate with the needs of this relationship. Beautiful, imo.

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posted July 14, 2015 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
(Would love to see an image of the chart(s) )

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posted July 14, 2015 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey great description yungang_grotto! It has been just like you say
Too bad I screwed things up.Anyway..

Just noticed my nVenus is not that far away from the cSN. hmm, this could intensify the 6th house aquarian matters I suppose

The Asc is 1 deg Virgo. just a few degrees away from her Sun

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posted July 14, 2015 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure

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posted July 14, 2015 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh... Yes, how interesting that your Venus is there in Aquarius near the south node of the composite... I want to look at the charts more later maybe, but may i say that the divine plan is perfect and you didn't do anything 'wrong'... You simply lived your true nature. Your venus is valid You were an anchor for the Aquarian side of the relationship, and there is something beautiful about the symmetry there... Still, it is likely that you were manifesting qualities which were inhibiting the growth of the relationship towards embodying that North Node; a very tall order, as the 12th house always is. Your continued search for understanding may enable the reality of that twelfth house North node to surface consciously for you, even if that means embracing the 'end' of the relationship in this lifetime on the earthly plane--nothing is ever really over, just as there was no beginning... We can always learn and love... blessings!

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posted July 14, 2015 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This relationship is a great benevolent teacher for you on your life path, with the composite Jupiter on your personal North Node

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posted July 14, 2015 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would venture to say that you're fairly intelligent in matters of love with Venus conjunct Pallas and that you feel deeply and fluidly, with that trine to Pluto in your natal chart. It takes a lot of humility and candour just to say you screwed things up. Your Black Moon Lilith on the North Node of the relationship and her Venus might have brought some things out in you that you didn't know you had...? Maybe some not so pleasant. There's tension for you between your Venus and Lilith too.... Lilith wants you open and generous with love, wants you exuberant and playful, wants you unashamed and present, wants your ego shining through, celebrated; your Venus is much more cerebral ... The fire sign Lilith might get out of control at times, or seem to, but blowing on that fire with your Aquarian Venus, just the right amount of forward thinking... 'Coy detachment' I would posit as a keyword for that opposition in its lighter manifestation.. Balancing out the energies of that opposition will probably bring you a lot of pleasure and joy.

I also want to say with your Sun at the anaretic degree of Pisces and a loose moon/Neptune conjunction, plus that Pluto Venus trine, that maybe you're primed to learn the lessons of universal love and spiritual compassion. Forgive yourself, honour her, know that all is well...

And forgive me for any unwanted advice!

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posted July 14, 2015 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like the thought of seeing what might be closely aspecting the cNNODE -- especially a conjunction. Rather than simply looking to see what's making conjunctions in each natal to the composite; that's where we get the 'cSUN conjunct natal points shows great importance of the relationship to the individual'.

This is a good idea, Yun.

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posted July 14, 2015 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a good idea, but not proving very fruitful. Well, rats. It was a great theory.

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posted July 15, 2015 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I don't think it will always be applicable but I think there's significance when it does happen... This is just my take on it of course

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posted July 15, 2015 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are absolutely right yungang. I just wish that I had noticed this earlier,so that I had not resisted the growth towards the NN as much

It has been a big lesson going through this relationship. In a painful manner also unfortunately.
I can say that I am fairly intelligent & deep when it comes to matters of love. usually can't manage out mine though hehe

I was always curious, almost ready also to begin a new thread asking how does Venus in opposition to Lilith manifest. I think u just answered my question in a way!
The ego and untamed character of Lilith in Leo seems to be something of a hassle for Venus in Aqua treating love in a free and unconditional manner.
Will indeed try to balance this energy out!

Your advice was very helpful! On the contrary I am grateful

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posted July 15, 2015 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Yeah I don't think it will always be applicable but I think there's significance when it does happen... This is just my take on it of course

Yeah, I checked my top 15 charts of deep soul connexions and expected strong aspects to the cNNODE. I was honestly very surprised.

It was more tight conjunctions to the cNNODE in the composite itself. Within 3°. Those were significant.

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posted July 16, 2015 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Asteroids to the composite NN are interesting, using serennu's ephemeris I learned some funny things...

His Hybris (Hubris) on our composite North Node as well as his Altjira (and his Juno).. Our composite north node is conjunct our composite descendant and each of our natal descendants also...

The Hybris is the funny part. heh. He does seem over confident about the relationship sometimes (this coming from me must sound pretty silly though )

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posted July 16, 2015 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm thinking maybe we could look at it the other way, too, 3--that part of the destiny of the relationship was to teach you about your Lilith, and to reveal information about that opposition to you...

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posted July 16, 2015 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could be. Lilith sure did awaken in this relationship. A side that never knew existed tbh

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posted July 16, 2015 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She seems to want acknowledgment, seems like a key feature of Lilith... i can't figure out right now how much attention i should be giving mine... Her position in Libra in my chart is currently very instructive for me... I do really look to externals for recognition... realizing this tendency is rooted in a feeling of rejection and... How do I soothe this? The answer comes through other parts of the chart and seeing ourselves holistically I guess; we gotta forgive our own darkness even as we express it, no matter what is happening, touch into that still point within us which is never swayed even by the most violent passion; and love ourselves regardless, laugh at our own wild, uncontrollable nature as 'the witness,' as true or higher Self, who understands so deeply. .. I think befriending and understanding her will ultimately help us with the 'know thyself' maxim, which is one of the ways in which astrology heals, I guess...

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posted July 16, 2015 08:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Asteroids to the composite NN are interesting, using serennu's ephemeris I learned some funny things...

His Hybris (Hubris) on our composite North Node as well as his Altjira (and his Juno).. Our composite north node is conjunct our composite descendant and each of our natal descendants also...

The Hybris is the funny part. heh. He does seem over confident about the relationship sometimes (this coming from me must sound pretty silly though )


Believe it or not, HYBRIS is a violence marker, rather than relating to pride (that's more NIOBE). I was wondering why; I'm just relating it to hybristophilia, which is where I got that delineation. But Ami has seen it, too. So, now I'm intrigued.

I also didn't see it as active in many killer's charts. However, the hybristophile is drawn to the fantasy / delusion of devoting to a charismatic power. So I can see why this is more related to cult leaders, and those who deceive with charisma. I'll have to explore that in greater depth.

MYTHOLOGY

In Ancient Greece, Hybris was a pretty nasty Goddess, symbolising insolence, violence, outlandish behaviour and reckless pride. 'The better path is to go by on the other side towards justice; for Dike (Justice) beats Hybris (Outrage) when she comes at length to the end of the race. But only when he has suffered does the fool learns this.'

ASTROLOGY

Now Hybris is a very blatant influence and in your natal chart, indicates an area of negative ‘potential’, but do keep in mind please that nothing is absolute. Everyone has Hybris somewhere, and subsequent aspects mean little as everything is based on individual life evolution.

Hybris in the natal chart indicates where one can toss their sensible nature to the side and act completely out of character. It is an area where one could locate extreme bad manners, violent outbursts or tendencies, extreme arrogance, and ridiculous levels of pride. On a minor scale, it can indicate a stubborn stance regards personal opinion and also a hidden side that can be quite reckless. Rulership and house position will be most telling regards the actual emotive connection to Hybris – with aspects to Hybris indicating possible means of physical expression of the influence.

In transit, Hybris is a tinder box of potential, with not all of it being a negative. Obviously, the extreme potential is there and should be considered in your chart as a time to be aware and take more personal care. But on the positive side, it can be the arrogant snap needed to wake you up and get you motivated to move out of a demeaning situation.

On research, this asteroid is not overly active in the charts of serial killers but it is quite commonly found in the charts of cult leaders. Jim Jones experienced Hybris contra parallel Saturn, Luc Jouret square Pluto, David Koresh experienced Hybris conjunct Charybdis, oppose Pallas.

It was this horrendous news story that encouraged me to explore and find this asteroid in aspect. So I looked up a local tragedy. Martin Bryant, responsible for the shocking Port Arthur Massacre in 1986experiences no aspects to natal Hybris. However, on the date of the massacre, Hades oppose Hybris (he also experiences Sun conjunct Hades in the natal), Ceres was oppose the Hades/Hybris conjunction. Also, Astraea (decision/one way path/judgement) was conjunct Hybris, and sadly, the North Node was conjunct his natal Mars. There were numerous other asteroids, mostly retrograde, that can explore the depths of this individuals troubled soul but……

Possible Keywords: violence, possible violence, violent tendencies, out of character behaviour, excessive pride, extreme arrogance, gaining enough pride to move on from a damaging situation, finally defending self, unable to change path due to personal belief, stubborn attitudes.

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The possible keywords seem a combination of positive and negative influences. I'm guessing there's not too much known of this one yet.

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posted July 16, 2015 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
She seems to want acknowledgment, seems like a key feature of Lilith... i can't figure out right now how much attention i should be giving mine... Her position in Libra in my chart is currently very instructive for me... I do really look to externals for recognition... realizing this tendency is rooted in a feeling of rejection and... How do I soothe this? The answer comes through other parts of the chart and seeing ourselves holistically I guess; we gotta forgive our own darkness even as we express it, no matter what is happening, touch into that still point within us which is never swayed even by the most violent passion; and love ourselves regardless, laugh at our own wild, uncontrollable nature as 'the witness,' as true or higher Self, who understands so deeply. .. I think befriending and understanding her will ultimately help us with the 'know thyself' maxim, which is one of the ways in which astrology heals, I guess...

My BML is 21° Libra exactly conjunct PLUTO, 2° conjunct my SUN in 2H.

I secretly did care quite a bit regarding how I was perceived for ... well, most of my life thus far. Around 33 -- I dunno why -- but I just stopped caring. It's rather liberating, honestly. I just don't see the point of it. They can take me or leave me, you know? I'M happy with me, and that's what matters most.

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posted July 16, 2015 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Totally. ^^ I'm there at times... Still only 26 so I'm just learning yet... I thought you might have BML in Libra from something you said in another thread; I was glad you refuted what it was they had written about BML in Libra because it didn't ring true or sit well with me either... Can't remember what it was now.

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Yeah this guy... The thing about throwing all the good sense out the window does seem to apply in some of the ways he's relating... He's usually pretty sensible and wise... But with Hybris on his descendant and conjunct our North Node I guess he's really embodying those things in relationship... sigh. hoping he can see his way out. It's funny that it is on his Juno because my Juno is near my South node (and his part of fortune)... We both have things to learn in this department, no question.

Altjira, the Aborigine creation god, closely linked with the Dreamtime, is interestingly described as somewhat aloof... somehow this plays into Hybris for him as they are conjunct...

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posted July 17, 2015 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, it does take some growing into BML. I hadn't quite realised it at first, but it's becoming clear now.

Ugh. That thread. It meant well, but, wow. What a horrible characterisation! Yeah, we may refuse to participate in unequal partnerships, but that's kind of the worst of it. Sure, plenty can misuse the energy, but it can make one a tremendous champion of equality, and willing to confront bigotry in the social strata. We won't give into the status quo just to belong. That's not a bad thing!

HYBRIS is pretty fascinating. Turns out it's 1° conjunct my SUN-PLUTO-BML; his is rising from the 12H at 0°. I'm going to have to study that further.

Oddly enough, ALTJIRA resonates, too. It's 0° conjunct his SATURN-INTERKOSMOS; mine is conjunct my PALLAS on his EROS. Wow! That would certainly explain some things. I love the Dreamtime. Aboriginal philosophy and religion is so fascinating to me.

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posted July 17, 2015 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just realised that with Venus going retro soon, she will be stationing on the cASC and going back to the exact position of the cNN,her Venus ,just before she moves forward again. Wonder what that could manifest!?

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posted July 17, 2015 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
313, that could definitely get interesting. You'll have a chance to revisit things I'm thinking, and get deeper perspective during the retrograde... Where it goes from there nobody can tell ... Venus will likely act as a benevolent influence when transiting, could bring up questions about the identity of your relationship where attraction is concerned eh... Maybe having both transiting and her Venus on the North Node will tip the scales... I dunno if it works like that Your BML on her Venus is really powerful. She is probably very attracted to that side of you in some way..

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posted July 17, 2015 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ugh. That thread. It meant well, but, wow. What a horrible characterisation! Yeah, we may refuse to participate in unequal partnerships, but that's kind of the worst of it. Sure, plenty can misuse the energy, but it can make one a tremendous champion of equality, and willing to confront bigotry in the social strata. We won't give into the status quo just to belong. That's not a bad thing!

Yep I hear ya!

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HYBRIS is pretty fascinating. Turns out it's 1° conjunct my SUN-PLUTO-BML; his is rising from the 12H at 0°. I'm going to have to study that further.


What a potent combo! I'm interested to hear what you discover and how you feel about it. Astrology kinda lets us look at ourselves from outside ourselves at times, doesn't it?

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Oddly enough, ALTJIRA resonates, too. It's 0° conjunct his SATURN-INTERKOSMOS; mine is conjunct my PALLAS on his EROS. Wow! That would certainly explain some things. I love the Dreamtime. Aboriginal philosophy and religion is so fascinating to me.


Your Pallas on his Eros somewhat explains the psychosexual research I guess! With Altjira there too, that explains a lot actually... sounds so fascinating indeed...

To speak to his Altjira on our North Node, he has had some pretty powerful dreams during the course of this relationship, which--if they pertain to the direction we're going together--I am going to take the liberty of considering comforting and auspicious

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