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Topic: Someone's Mars in your 4th house
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Lana29865 unregistered
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posted November 05, 2007 03:01 AM
Any experience, anyone, on this...?Would someone's Mars possibly be an indicator of domestic violence (or potential to it)? Or could it mean the Mars person wants to sex you in your home? ;-) Or just to be the boss at your house? I'm having some difficulty understanding fiery Mars in the home area, especially in synastry ... IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted November 05, 2007 11:25 AM
My parents have this aspect ... my father's Mars falls in my mother's 4th house. They have been married for over 30 years. My father always has been the more dominant one in their relationship, but never in a violent way. He never hurt my mother physically. They do have heated arguments all the time though. And whenever they fight, my father has a tendency to say hurtful things to my mother.So, the way I see it, Mars in the 4th doesn't necessarily indicate physical violence at home. It can also mean heated discussions.
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sthenri unregistered
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posted November 05, 2007 07:07 PM
My sister's mars in my 4th house and she would yell at me all the time when we lived together. We would argue and she would hit me too. And her mars is in pisces. So I believe it's possible that there is a war of words, and emotions run high.On the other hand, now that we are grown my sister and I are very close, emotionally. But we don't have long discussions. If we do I just listen, I don't talk. personally I am also curious about someone's mars in your 10th or 11th house. Would that cause physical or verbal arguments? IP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 01:14 AM
Thanks for the replies :-)I have this aspect with my man, his Mars falls in my 4th, and he is overbearingly dominant... We have our own appartments, which seems a good living arrangement also in the future... His chart also shows some other tendencies to dominance. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 01:18 AM
And you've let him know that it's not ok with you that he's this dominant? I read somewhere that the sixth house in synastry can indicate inequalities in relationships... oh yeah, BUD posted that! What's your sixth house like in synastry? And what are your Pluto aspects and placements? In synastry and individually? I ask because it seems like Mars in 4th can't be the only thing contributing. My ex and I had composite Mars in 4th and there was hardly ever an angry word spoken in five years. And even then it was never a full scale battle or anything. The composite Mars was in Pisces though, so maybe that's why. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 01:25 AM
Can you post charts? It might be helpful if we can see it for ourselves. IP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 01:28 AM
Oh yes, I've let him know... (We're both in our early 40'es, not a "young couple", we both have some history behind us). He just tells me to accept him as he is...His natal Pluto is in his 7th, mine in my 2nd. My Pluto falls in his 7th and his in my 3rd. Our composite Pluto is in the 5th house sextiling our Sun (in the 7th house). Composite Venus is in the 8th house. One astrologer stated that his natal Mars-Sun and Mars-Moon squares are strong indicators of his macho dominance (both in fixed signs), as there is a struggle inside him to find peace, and he tries to achieve this by controling his enviroment... (Edited). IP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 01:34 AM
I'll try to post the chart a bit later today.IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 01:39 AM
Interesting. I look forward to seeing the chart...I ask because I do have a personal interest in this. This kind of thing comes up every now and then between me and Mr Gemini, and his natal Pluto is in his fifth house. Whenever he tries to be dominant he doesn't get away with it, but I do find it annoying that it still crops up. (He's 35 and I'm 32 btw). I think, "why is he still bothering to try this with me." Maybe he's mentally pitting his Pluto in 5th against my Scorpio moon/Pluto square ASC/DSC as a kind of intellectual workout. I find it to be annoying. If he doesn't want to change his approach, it sounds like a good idea that you don't live together. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 06, 2007 02:34 AM
My ex's Mars was in my 4th. He was NOT violent at all or domineering or anything like that.He has a Sun/Moon square as well - but so do I. In cardinal, not fixed. IP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted November 06, 2007 03:00 AM
Unfortunately, I'm not able to post the chart, but here's his info:HIS NATAL Sun 13 Aqua (12th/1st house cusp) ASC 14 Aqua Moon 10 Leo (6th house) Mercury 4 Aqua (12th house) Venus 0 Aries (1st house) Mars 18 Scorpio (9th house) Jupiter 5 Libra (7th/8th house cusp) Saturn 20 Aries (2nd house) Uranus 3 Libra (7th/8th house cusp) Neptune 28 Scorpio (9th house) Pluto 24 Virgo (7th house) Chiron 0 Aries (1st house) True Node 1 Aries (1st house) MC 5 Sagittarius Edited - I realize it's boring to read other people's data, but I can't post charts :-(
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plutonian105 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: CA Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 09, 2015 02:28 PM
I had this aspect with a girl I was getting to know...she ended having sex (Mars) with my brother (4th house family and home) This is generally an aspect of upheaval in your domestic life IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 59915 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2015 04:39 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2053 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 10, 2015 06:05 PM
emotions can get pretty intense and under my skin to BE HONEST. my girlfriend's mars falls in my 4th house (i too have mars in the 3rd conjunct my IC) so i know how this feels. she says she was never physically abused but i dont believe her, i think there was defently anger issues with her family, possibily not physical abuse, but im sure there wasa some anger issues or power struggles in her family which she does confirm. mars in the 4th house seems to always indicate heavy emotions and turmoil in the family while growing up.------------------ Sun Capricorn, Moon Aries, Libra Rising IP: Logged |