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Topic: New crush making me feel things again, how/why?
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 07:15 PM
  
Please help me.... I've finally met a guy that I really like. I didn't think I ever wanted another relationship again but now that I've met someone that makes me feel this way I'm remembering that it feels like to be that into someone, As opposed to all of the other guys I've dated the last few years and had ongoing history with- this guy is completely new and I'm so taken with him. Like, bad!
I think my Mercury square Pluto natally makes me super obsessive in thinking when I have a crush. He's definitely a 'bad boy' which I love, but seems to have a good heart/respects me and treats me well.Please tell me, why am I so obsessed? Why this guy, I I meet a lot of people and no one had made me feel this way in a very long time. Does he feel the obsession too? I'm the inner circle in the chart. Could we have a relationship? He actually makes me nervous at times which is not in my nature with guys.  IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 527
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 07:35 PM
Venus/Uranus opposition, his moon in your 8th house and your Mars conjunct his ascendant.IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 07:57 PM
sorry i'm the inner circle! so that's my moon IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 527
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
sorry i'm the inner circle! so that's my moon
Ok, so his planets falling into your 4th makes him feel like home to you. His sun opposes you Venus - you adore each other. His Mars conjunct your ascendant, trining your Neptune. He's probably very attracted to you, and the way you move. He might feel energized by your presence. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 527
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 08:11 PM
Actually, it looks like you have a Mars/Neptune double whammy. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 08:35 PM
Thank you Laceyleigh for your insight! I think I may have ruined things already, as I tend to do. Basically I demanded that he see me last night night when he was out but went home sick, gave him an ultimatum of 'if you don't see me now you won't hear from me again'. Now I'm worried he won't come back and I can't exactly reach out now. Do you think there is any longevity here? I can't get him out of my head!
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athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 445
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
Thank you Laceyleigh for your insight! I think I may have ruined things already, as I tend to do. Basically I demanded that he see me last night night when he was out but went home sick, gave him an ultimatum of 'if you don't see me now you won't hear from me again'. Now I'm worried he won't come back and I can't exactly reach out now. Do you think there is any longevity here? I can't get him out of my head!
Protip: Never issue an ultimatum with anyone unless you're 500% ready to follow through, otherwise it's just emotional manipulation and that's never romantic or cute Sun opposite Venus can sometimes lead to bafflement bordering on dislike. The inherit, whole quality of the sun just cannot reconcile the tastes/inclinations of the venus, and both can grow to become extremely frustrated/hateful of one another as a worst case scenario. My Pisces mars is also conjunct another's ascendent I feel extremely "possessive" over his entire being and want to absorb his whole life's history and nest on it like a proud, protective mother hen. I also would love to observe him in an open glass room and jot down notes every time he blinks. Very obsessive placement. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 08:45 PM
I know, well now I have to follow through even though the ultimatum was utterly ridiculous. So would that mean he obsesses over me? As it's his mars? Do you think the feelings are mutual or am I way more into this than him? IP: Logged |
athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 445
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 08:46 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
I know, well now I have to follow through even though the ultimatum was utterly ridiculous. So would that mean he obsesses over me? As it's his mars? Do you think the feelings are mutual or am I way more into this than him?
Oh he's the Mars?? Well dang, maybe he would! Do you get the vibe? Do you feel him "staring" at you even when he's not around? It's a super powerful placement and I doubt the nature of it is one sided.. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 08:56 PM
When we are together I do, like he is very protective, has to touch me etc - when we were at a party together at christmas he made sure I was sitting on his lap the whole time - kind of to say to everyone we are together was the vibe I got, but when we are apart I don't know what he is thinking, it's only been a few days but he hasn't made plans to see me again so now i'm stressing. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 6338
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 28, 2015 01:53 AM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
sorry i'm the inner circle! so that's my moon
I'm always wondering how the MOON feels. Apparently, quite obsessed. Does he know how you feel this intensely? IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 28, 2015 02:26 AM
No he doesn't. I'm pretty good at keeping people guessing, he says one of things he likes about me is he never knows what I'm going to text him back (his venus is in gemini)IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 6338
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 28, 2015 03:10 AM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
Basically I demanded that he see me last night night when he was out but went home sick, gave him an ultimatum of 'if you don't see me now you won't hear from me again'. Now I'm worried he won't come back and I can't exactly reach out now.
 Why on earth would you do that? It seems quite extreme! Forgive my gut reaction here, but that's ... a bit over the top. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 28, 2015 03:25 AM
I don't know why I did that! I was drinking and not in my normal frame of mind/dramatic. He is kind of talking to me now so hopefully I can smooth things over. Did you have any other thoughts on our synastry? x IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 28, 2015 07:43 AM
Well I've basically ruined it. I spoke to him about it and he said he found it weird that I did that and is being more distant now. I tried to explain myself and apologise but I don't think it's going to change anything. I'm so upset and there's nothing I can do to fix it.IP: Logged |
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