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Moonfish
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posted February 07, 2016 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always wondered why Chinese astrology sites normally determine one's compatibility by the birth Year. In Bazi charts they have something many of us know as the Four Pillars. If you're not already aware the Four Pillars are simply your Birth - Time, Day, Month, & Year. Each of these Four Pillars have different meanings as far as what they represent in your life time.

In Traditional Chinese Astrology, each of the Four Pillars represent:
Time represents your Children
Day or (Day Master) represents your Spouse/Marriage
Month represents your Parents/Siblings
Year represents your who you are in Society

So why is that we look at the year for compatibility rather the Day Master?

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posted February 07, 2016 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I decided to do a study on 10 well known couples who have been together at least 10 years to see if the Day Master, Birth Year, or Both were Compatible.

1. Beyonce
Day Master: Rooster (Virgo)
Year: Monkey (Leo)

Jay-Z
Day Master: Ox (Capricorn)
Year: Rooster (Virgo)

Result: Day Masters are Very Compatible
Birth Years are Not Compatible.

2. Angelina Jolie
Day Master: Snake (Taurus)
Year: Rabbit (Pisces)

Brad Pitt
Day Master: Goat (Cancer)
Year: Rabbit (Pisces)

Result: Day Masters have Good Compatibility
Birth Years have Good Compatibility.

3. Jada Smith
Day Master: Horse (Gemini)
Year: Pig (Scorpio)

Will Smith
Day Master: Dog (Libra)
Year: Monkey (Leo)

Result: Day Masters are Very Compatible
Birth Years are Not Compatible.

4. Kyra
Day Master: Snake (Taurus)
Year: Snake (Taurus)

Kevin Bacon
Day Master: Dog (Libra)
Year: Dog (Libra)

Result: Both the Day Masters and Birth Years are Not Compatible.

5. Iman
Day Master: Pig (Scorpio)
Year: Goat (Cancer)

David Bowie - R.I.P.
Day Master: Pig (Scorpio)
Year: Dog (Libra)

Result: Days Masters have Good Compatibility
Birth Years are Not Compatible

6. Victoria Beckham
Day Master: Rat (Sagittarius)
Year: Tiger (Aquarius)

David Beckham
Day Master: Monkey (Leo)
Year: Rabbit (Pisces)

Result: Day Masters are Very Compatible
Birth Years are Not Compatible.

7. Sarah Jessica Parker
Day Master: Tiger (Aquarius)
Year: Snake (Taurus)

Matthew Broderick
Day Master: Horse (Gemini)
Year: Tiger (Aquarius)

Result: Day Master are Very Compatible
Birth Years are Not Compatible

8. Nancy Walls
Day Master: Rabbit (Pisces)
Year: Horse (Gemini)

Steve Carell
Day Master: Dog (Libra)
Year: Tiger (Aquarius)

Result: Day Masters are Not Compatible
Birth Years are Very Compatible

9. Sharron Osbourne
Day Master: Rat (Sagittarius)
Birth Year: Dragon (Aries)

Ozzy Osbourne
Day Master: Dog (Libra)
Birth Year: Rat (Sagittarius)

Result: Day Masters have Good Compatibility
Birth Years are Very Compatible.

10. Angela Bassett
Day Master: Ox (Capricorn)
Year: Dog (Libra)

Courtney B. Vance
Day Master: Pig (Scorpio)
Year: Rat (Sagittarius)

Result: Day Masters have Good Compatibility
Birth Years have Good Compatibility

8 out of 10 couples share compatible Day Masters

3 out of 10 couples share compatible Birth Years

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posted February 07, 2016 06:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Click Here to get your Bazi Chart (Four Pillars)

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posted February 07, 2016 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you can add my parents to the list, too.
My Dad`s Day master is monkey, my mom`s Rat.

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posted February 07, 2016 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice!
I hope there will be more people that can relate to this

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posted February 07, 2016 06:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I looked up - out of curiosity- the day numbers for me and Mr Sag (not that compatible. lol I am a Snake, he is a monkey)

"In Chinese astrology, the Snake and Monkey do not seem to possess many common traits. However the two are united by a keen intelligence and resourcefulness, even though these qualities may be expressed in different ways. Thus while the match seems to be an incompatible one at the outset, if the partners agree to put their relationship above mutual differences, they can find a way to make it successful.

High points of a Snake-Monkey love match

The two will be drawn to each other on account of their sharp minds and wide-ranging resourcefulness. Both are capable of quick thinking, whether in times of emergencies or when learning about something new. It is this kind of keen intelligence that will bring the Snake and Monkey together – each will keep the other stimulated through challenging pursuits and interesting experiences. Thus while in case of other pairs, the attraction may be based purely on emotional reciprocity or staid practicality, here the partners will respect each other’s mental acuity and find that they have a lot to offer each other.

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Then again both the Snake and Monkey are quite popular in the social circuit. While the Snake attracts friends and admirers on account of personal charm, sophisticated intelligence and a high level of aesthetic discrimination, the Monkey succeeds in impressing people with their ingenuity and varied experience. They know the right things to say to the right people and on the whole, give full expression to their far-ranging wit and sophistication. Also both are fashion-conscious and can be usually depended to turn out smartly and appropriately for every social occasion. These traits together with the fact that both the Snake and Monkey are foodies and like to cook and host, makes them not only a highly sociable couple but also one which enjoys similar kind of company.

Finally both the Snake and Monkey have a healthy sexual appetite; thus each is capable of responding to the other’s needs with passion and ardor. Sexual incompatibility is often a major cause of couples breaking up even when they may seem to be well-suited in terms of personal traits and social disposition. Thus while the fastidious Rooster may not respond fully to the sexual urges of the Snake, in case the latter is romantically involved with a sign like Monkey, the relationship is most likely to be sexually fulfilling.

Challenges of a Snake-Monkey love match

The primary difficulty that the two may face in their relationship is having a radically opposed approach to life. The Snake has a slow and thoughtful way of going about things. They are inevitably calm and collected, even in situations of great stress and chaos. They do not believe in running hither and thither, but would rather use their resources of psychological insight to attain their goals. The Monkey on the other hand is more of a go-getter, even though he/she may not be as energetic or restless as the Horse. The Monkey loves a good challenge and will happily take a chance if the odds look even fairly good.
This is not so with the Snake who would take their own time to think deeply about all the pros and cons of a situation. This kind of difference may lead each partner to misunderstand the other. While the Snake may feel that the Monkey is too impulsive and frivolous, the latter would feel that the former is uninterested in love and is only slowing him/her down.

Also the Monkey is a trickster at heart and loves having a spot of fun, even with their near and dear ones. If this person’s idea of games include some flirtation, it is quite likely that the Monkey will rouse the worst of his/her Snake partner’s jealousy. Even though the Snake is cool and self-possessed on the surface, he/she is also capable of having very intense feelings. In fact the Snake’s capacity for vengeance is terrifying and a Monkey partner better not do anything to goad the Snake into such negative emotions.

Yet another area of difference between the Snake and Monkey could be finances. As part of the Snake’s slow and deliberate attitude to life, he/she prefers to earn and spend on a regular basis – where a Snake is in charge of finances, money will probably be piled carefully away and spent wisely. Even though the Snake loves to buy pretty things occasionally, he/she will always be careful that there is enough left over in the account. The Monkey has a markedly different approach to finances – while his/her financial resourcefulness is never in doubt, he/she also has a tendency to spend impulsively. Thus a big chunk of savings may be withdrawn on account of a supposedly infallible tip at the races or at the stock market. And while the Monkey may eventually get back several times the investment, such reckless spending may not appeal to the Snake partner.

In the end, it is in their ability to keep each other mentally stimulated and sexually satisfied that would offer the best chances of a Snake and Monkey compatibility. And with a little compromise on each side, they can make this work and find long term romance and happiness in the long run too."
http://www.futurescopes.com/chinese-astrology-love-compatibility/snake-and-monkey/8405/snake-monkey-love-compatibility-chinese-a


What fascinates me though is how much more the description here on Snake resonate with me than my birth year - Tiger does.


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posted February 07, 2016 06:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BTW unfortnately the links you posted do not work, I guess some code has to be changed or some space or something like that.

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posted February 07, 2016 06:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my best friend and her husband: married for 12 years


Him: Rabbit
her: Ox

(I guess that fits, too? It is actually the year numbers of my parents in reverse order)

my brother and his girlfriend (together for 10 years and expecting their first baby this year)

Him: Snake
her: Dog

Is this good, too?

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posted February 07, 2016 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah yes, it took me a while to find the code but I finally got the link to work lol Thanks

Yes the first couple is compatible according to there Day Masters. He is a Rabbit (Pisces) and she is a Ox (Capricorn), good match!

For the second couple however, they would not be considered compatible. He is a Snake (Taurus) and she is a Dog (Libra).

However, with chinese astrology there compatiblity is a little different then westerns. For instance, goats (cancer) are considered to be a good match with horses (gemini). Overall, the basic matching of the elements between western and chinese astrology are the same.


Here is a pretty good chart of compatibility based on chinese signs. So according to this chart a Dog and a Snake is actually really good!

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posted February 07, 2016 06:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, seems like in western astrology there are different concepts on compatibility as well. Possibly different schools exist in chinese astrology, too?

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posted February 07, 2016 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I know and see, it's more like some people placing way too much importance on the birth year's sign when determining compatibility.

The birth year is important in creating a birth chart and determining one's energy. There are 12 Earth branches and 10 heavenly pillars, match them together we have 60 sub-class for each year- the "resulting" energy when we match earth branches to heavenly pillars. In determining compatibility, these "sub-classes" are looked at together with the signs of the birth years ( and many other things are also considered).

60 sub classes - this is the chinese astro cycle. It roughly matches the cycle of when jupiter and saturn meet - they meet once roughly every 20 years and go back to the 1st point of meeting roughly 60 years.

I'm not a fan of "matching" western signs and elements to those of chinese astrology's. The first thing is they often leave the "wood" element out. It's like massacring the basics.

Speaking of elements, "compatibility" is determined based on these two cycles:

1. Metal -> Wood -> Fire -> Earth -> Metal.

2. The "opposition" cycle:

Metal vs Wood

Wood vs Earth

Earth vs Water

Water vs Fire

Fire vs Metal

Metal is born from Earth. But too much Earth and Metal will be buried.

Earth is born from Fire, but too much Fire and Earth will get scorched.

Fire is born from Wood, but too much Wood and Fire can't "breath".

Wood is born from Water, but too much Water drowns Wood.

etc....

This is something to keep in mind when looking at elements, sometimes the "incompatibility" is seen as "good". In my chart I have a lot of fire (badly placed fire), my s.o has a lot of well-placed metal and water. It is considered "good" because his placements helps to reign in the bad manifestation of my fire.

Anyway, I took a look at the posts and wanted to share these info and thoughts. Sorry if they don't provide the answers you look for.

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