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Loveher
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posted June 02, 2016 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never had a stable realtionship.
Will I have one?


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angel4845
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posted June 02, 2016 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your relationships are not stable because your 7th ruler is opposing a malefic (Pluto) that tells me it's either your with me or your not kind of relationships. I could be wrong but your relationships tend to bring this intense side of you involving manipulation, control, domaination, power, or jealousy side of you that can take place in your relationships. Constant transformation and change describes your character when your in a relationship things are always changing or not the way you had thought would go possibly. I can see you also having issue with control or trust and whether you are being taken advantage of is a question you may bring up in the relationships. You are very passionate indeed you are and you feel like every relationships brings out a side of you that you didn't think you had in yourself which I call a deep passionate side to you that you maybe scared to see or get in touch with yourself cause it can get intense with you. Let me know if this resonates? I could be wrong but with what you gave me that's what I can see.

There is also a side of you that's romantic and dreamy and you can get that way in your relationships. You can get also disapointed sometimes because of the high idealization you may have on your partners but this is just a possibility I see I could be wrong.

Or it may be hard for you to see romance in a partner because you've got Neptune opposite Chiron you can get into a dream with someone you like nd if it doesn't go the way you wish it went that can crush you or just simply get so turned off and I feel that I understand that

I feel like you become "I love you" or "I can see myself with this person" and time goes on and you think "you know what this just isn't what I'm looking for" I don't mean to judge you that is what I get from your natal chart and how you get when you become involved with somebody. Also I can see that you get "okay I love this person this is the ONE" and it doesn't end up going that way.

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Loveher
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posted June 02, 2016 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by angel4845:
Your relationships are not stable because your 7th ruler is opposing a malefic (Pluto) that tells me it's either your with me or your not kind of relationships. I could be wrong but your relationships tend to bring this intense side of you involving manipulation, control, domaination, power, or jealousy side of you that can take place in your relationships. Constant transformation and change describes your character when your in a relationship things are always changing or not the way you had thought would go possibly. I can see you also having issue with control or trust and whether you are being taken advantage of is a question you may bring up in the relationships. You are very passionate indeed you are and you feel like every relationships brings out a side of you that you didn't think you had in yourself which I call a deep passionate side to you that you maybe scared to see or get in touch with yourself cause it can get intense with you. Let me know if this resonates? I could be wrong but with what you gave me that's what I can see.

There is also a side of you that's romantic and dreamy and you can get that way in your relationships. You can get also disapointed sometimes because of the high idealization you may have on your partners but this is just a possibility I see I could be wrong.

Or it may be hard for you to see romance in a partner because you've got Neptune opposite Chiron you can get into a dream with someone you like nd if it doesn't go the way you wish it went that can crush you or just simply get so turned off and I feel that I understand that

[b]I feel like you become "I love you" or "I can see myself with this person" and time goes on and you think "you know what this just isn't what I'm looking for" I don't mean to judge you that is what I get from your natal chart and how you get when you become involved with somebody. Also I can see that you get "okay I love this person this is the ONE" and it doesn't end up going that way.

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This is so true... I feel like im repeating the same patterns over and over again to the ooint i get frozen when i feel attached to anyone. Think that they would be the same as my exs.. Just sit there and wait until i gave up altogether. I do get scared of my emotions because i feel like they control me and take over im jelouse person and i find anyone who ignore this or try to **** me off is only being disrespectful of my emotions. I do dream a lot of what the realtionship would be until reality takes over. I fell in love with a girl three years ago she was so attched to me to the point she asked me if we should get married until i knew her true colors and knew that wasnt what im looking for.. Everything u said is true... I dont know if i would ever be loved the same way i love..

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angel4845
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posted June 02, 2016 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Loveher:
This is so true... I feel like im repeating the same patterns over and over again to the ooint i get frozen when i feel attached to anyone. Think that they would be the same as my exs.. Just sit there and wait until i gave up altogether. I do get scared of my emotions because i feel like they control me and take over im jelouse person and i find anyone who ignore this or try to **** me off is only being disrespectful of my emotions. I do dream a lot of what the realtionship would be until reality takes over. I fell in love with a girl three years ago she was so attched to me to the point she asked me if we should get married until i knew her true colors and knew that wasnt what im looking for.. Everything u said is true... I dont know if i would ever be loved the same way i love..

i feel you i feel you i feel you honestly what you said right now resonates what i had saw in your natal chart just didn't want to sound negative the whole time i just wanted to be honest with you as much as possible.

You see! that's the thing! when you say "i don't know if i can be loved the same way" that is something that i feel runs in you when you get involved with someone you have fears and that is the nature of pluto especially when it involves your 7th ruler (venus) or the moon but in this case its your (venus). Pluto involving the 7th ruler tend to make you feel paranoid or fearful when it comes to whether they will love you or the fear of being owned by the other person completely pluto tends to do that. and i understand you completely!! cause I'm similar in my relationships in a way, my relationships tend to bring this dark side of me that i bury under my skin (8th ruler) aspecting my 7th ruler...and I'm sure you feel similarly...

whether or not you will find somebody that will love you eternally and treat you the way you want to be treated is determined only by transits (the stars above you now) and secondary progressions/return charts/tertiary progressions can tell you but that is just only my OPINION.

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Loveher
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posted June 02, 2016 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by angel4845:
i feel you i feel you i feel you honestly what you said right now resonates what i had saw in your natal chart just didn't want to sound negative the whole time i just wanted to be honest with you as much as possible.

You see! that's the thing! when you say "i don't know if i can be loved the same way" that is something that i feel runs in you when you get involved with someone you have fears and that is the nature of pluto especially when it involves your 7th ruler (venus) or the moon but in this case its your (venus). Pluto involving the 7th ruler tend to make you feel paranoid or fearful when it comes to whether they will love you or the fear of being owned by the other person completely pluto tends to do that. and i understand you completely!! cause I'm similar in my relationships in a way, my relationships tend to bring this dark side of me that i bury under my skin (8th ruler) aspecting my 7th ruler...and I'm sure you feel similarly...

whether or not you will find somebody that will love you eternally and treat you the way you want to be treated is determined only by transits (the stars above you now) and secondary progressions/return charts/tertiary progressions can tell you but that is just only my OPINION.


Finally find someone who really go through what im going through.. People around me take realtionship as a game to waste their time ... It's actually feels good to know that there is someone feeling the same.. All this time i thought there is something wrong with me

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angel4845
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posted June 02, 2016 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Loveher:
Finally find someone who really go through what im going through.. People around me take realtionship as a game to waste their time ... It's actually feels good to know that there is someone feeling the same.. All this time i thought there is something wrong with me


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