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posted May 31, 2016 07:01 PM            

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posted May 31, 2016 08:44 PM            

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Are you the moon person?

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posted May 31, 2016 08:46 PM            

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I see Pluto/Venus, as well. Helping to fuel the fire.

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posted May 31, 2016 08:58 PM            

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His moon is conjunct my Pluto , 0 degree orb
My Venus square his Pluto

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posted June 01, 2016 09:04 AM            

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Friendly Bump For Lacey

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posted June 01, 2016 01:38 PM            

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Do it. You have nothing to lose. Write the e-mail. If you don't do it you might regret it!

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posted June 01, 2016 01:41 PM            

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Do it. You have nothing to lose. Write the e-mail. If you don't do it you might regret it!

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posted June 01, 2016 02:15 PM            

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The Pluto/Moon conjunction is going to be opposed by transiting Uranus on and off in the years to come, so it will not be a stable aspect for you two.

The Pluto/Venus square is not a good aspect to have in synastry, imo. Creates intensity but in the end, someone gets hurts badly.

HOWEVER
Are you both singles and available? Are you ready for a deep transformative relationship? Then go for it!

Disclaimer: I only looked at those 2 aspects.

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posted June 01, 2016 04:04 PM            

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Hmm...Well, as far as I know, he's single. He broke up with someone not that long ago.....

Interesting about Moon/Pluto not being "legit"....
I think I may leave this one alone. I am up for the transformation, but don't really want to get hurt..I will leave it to the universe......

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posted June 02, 2016 08:19 AM            

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assuming you have his tob correct i don't think it's moon-pluto. i'd say it's more 8th house overlay with sun/venus or the moon-mars. moon-pluto works more secondarily to other connections and houses and the moon-mars is a far stronger one here, and more instinctual. the moon is also right near the asc. it looks like some nice connections, and remember pisces mars men can be slow... maybe he's just waiting for a sign to get going

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posted June 02, 2016 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
assuming you have his tob correct i don't think it's moon-pluto. i'd say it's more 8th house overlay with sun/venus or the moon-mars. moon-pluto works more secondarily to other connections and houses and the moon-mars is a far stronger one here, and more instinctual. the moon is also right near the asc. it looks like some nice connections, and remember pisces mars men can be slow... maybe he's just waiting for a sign to get going

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Thanks for replying ! Yes, that is his EXACT TOB- he gave it to me and he was confident about it.

As far as Mars in Pisces- yeah, he's a Cap sun too..but see, the thing is, I have to go out of my way to see him, and I feel odd about it...it's been a month and there's been NO contact, so I feel silly.....I don't know, he may think I'm crazy ?! I don't know how to go about this...

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posted June 02, 2016 06:39 PM            

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Oh, and you would say he *should* feel somewhat similarly according to this synastry? I mean, I FELT It, and I don't feel that with everyone I find attractive...there was this spark, ya know? It doesn't come around too often but I also don't want to get my heart stomped and I'm a little old fashioned feeling like he should make the move(s) here, ya know?

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posted June 02, 2016 09:29 PM            

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Thanks for replying ! Yes, that is his EXACT TOB- he gave it to me and he was confident about it.

As far as Mars in Pisces- yeah, he's a Cap sun too..but see, the thing is, I have to go out of my way to see him, and I feel odd about it...it's been a month and there's been NO contact, so I feel silly.....I don't know, he may think I'm crazy ?! I don't know how to go about this...

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i am one of those girls that doesn't want to chase men AT ALL, so i get what you mean by old-fashioned. but there is nothing wrong with planting yourself in his path more often and working on conversation. if you stay away completely there is zero chance at seeing what could happen, you know? if you truly feel there is something there you have to at least talk w/him and see him more often. after a month there should be lots to chat about!

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posted June 02, 2016 10:42 PM            

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i am one of those girls that doesn't want to chase men AT ALL, so i get what you mean by old-fashioned. but there is nothing wrong with planting yourself in his path more often and working on conversation. if you stay away completely there is zero chance at seeing what could happen, you know? if you truly feel there is something there you have to at least talk w/him and see him more often. after a month there should be lots to chat about!

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I had this recently, he didn't want commitment and I can't handle going threw another heartache not knowing where I stand. We never could work out a schedule so I'd know what when and where, plus when we texted or when I was away from him he acted like he was busy or like I bothered him. It wasn't so much in the beginning but it's like he wanted to just get mad over things which he misunderstood or I did so without good communication and our arguing that cut communication, I can't deal with it. I require someone easy to get along with, communicative, funny and wants to be with me. I don't have time for petty games and bs! When I was with him the chemistry was off the chart, my God it felt soo good and had me pursuing him but I've decided to let that go. If he wants me then he knows where to find me and what to do. Outside of that I'm DONE!!! Good luck to him and whoever he decides to be with! I hope yours works out for you!!!

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posted June 02, 2016 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
i am one of those girls that doesn't want to chase men AT ALL, so i get what you mean by old-fashioned. but there is nothing wrong with planting yourself in his path more often and working on conversation. if you stay away completely there is zero chance at seeing what could happen, you know? if you truly feel there is something there you have to at least talk w/him and see him more often. after a month there should be lots to chat about!

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Ah but this is where the problem ls...in order for me to plant myself in his path, I need to contact him for work that I have no need for...and he knows that....so this is my dilemma. MY "contract" is done so to speak and If I were to go back, he would more than likely realIze it was just to see him...I'm not a good faker, lol, nor good flirt...and again, he has my contact info

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posted June 04, 2016 11:41 PM            

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What could possibly happen to you if you contact him?Will you lose your soul to the devil?!
Just contact him and that's it.I'm a girl too and i see nothing wrong/crazy in you making the first step.
I wish you good luck!

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posted June 04, 2016 11:44 PM            

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True...I just feel too shy, and like I don't know what to say

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posted June 05, 2016 12:11 AM            

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Use your imagination to send him an original/funny email about the fact that you like him.Or you can be very blunt.Either way think of this:
-If you write you'll have an answer
-If you don't write you'll forever wonder"what if" and stress yourself over it.
If his answer is no at least you have some closure.There is nothing awkward if you contact him.

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posted June 05, 2016 12:42 PM            

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True...I just feel too shy, and like I don't know what to say

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some ideas:
ask him for a reference (and offer one) for this project/job you completed. go back and ask for a reference and exchange contact info. (again)

go back in and ask if he wants his chart read... if he gave you the time of birth then he might know you like astrology?? tell him it took you a month to do his chart :-) and when he's available you'd love to give him a reading.

i'm all for men making the first approach, but they all need strong signals, i really believe that. even when you flirt very heavily, they sometimes just don't get it. passive = no chance at all.

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some ideas:
ask him for a reference (and offer one) for this project/job you completed. go back and ask for a reference and exchange contact info. (again)

go back in and ask if he wants his chart read... if he gave you the time of birth then he might know you like astrology?? tell him it took you a month to do his chart :-) and when he's available you'd love to give him a reading.

i'm all for men making the first approach, but they all need strong signals, i really believe that. even when you flirt very heavily, they sometimes just don't get it. passive = no chance at all.

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LOL star moon...here's the funny part...I DID offer to do his chart! He was very receptive...I did the chart, EMAILED him a cute/funny email with an interp of the chart...and...CRICKETS. He never even responded to the email!! I took that as a rejection...plus that was a jerky move in my opinion...he could have at least thanked me?

However- when I did see him about a month and half after- he had just broken up with his GF he told me...and after he casually said "oh thank you for that email by the way, it was interesting" and that was it!

But then he tells me at the end of that meeting: "Don't be a stranger" ???????

So is the writing on the wall he's not interested? OR he just got out of his relationship and he needs time? Or am I just crazy? I KNOW what I feel/felt and I know it was mutual...but typing this out is making me feel really crazy lol

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posted June 05, 2016 09:06 PM            

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"Don't be a stranger" sounds like a clear invite to get in touch.

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posted June 05, 2016 09:18 PM            

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Hi Dream,

It seems like the most important thing is to get in touch with your own sense of self worth here... It's clear from the synastry and from your personal experience that a strong mutual attraction is likely, but even with all the evidence in the world you may still doubt your worthiness. Certain relationships trigger our insecurities in order to test them and reveal them to us, to heal them--and in some cases exacerbate the issues, but always it seems that the relationships we choose in our lives have a way of revealing ourselves to ourselves, one way or another. So it will be important to look at your own natal chart and see what patterns therein are affecting your perception of self worth so that you can move in relationship effectively. Of course astrology can't do all the work for you; you will have to experiment to build your confidence after your last relationship's devastating effects, and a trusting loving relationship could definitely help. Of course it's one step at a time but the above advice to get in touch seems very good to me. I think that he definitely is indicating interest...

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posted June 05, 2016 09:22 PM            

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At the same time i can see why you're having difficulty seeing this; his mercury is quincunx your Venus. Even if he sent you an explicit love letter you might get your wires crossed and still be doubting he loves you... because your Venus is having trouble accepting themessage being spoken from him as it is so different in nature from your Venus-ness. The fact that there is a connection (even an inconjunct) indicates there's energythere but you'll have to really work at adjudting to his way of communicating. There are worse aspects than a Venus inconjunct Mercury and if you two can get beyond the small talk and formalities I'm sure the sex would be excellent if that's what you're after

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posted June 05, 2016 09:24 PM            

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Your Mercury widely trine his Venus and sextile his Mars are good signs that when you communicate your intentions and feelings, no matter how subtly or overtly--when you decide to do that, he will likely hear the message loud and clear. So when you feel ready don't worry about it, just be natural, be yourself, and be honest! Tell him exactly what's up--or if that's not your style, just ask if he'd like to meet somewhere some time. Whatever you say it will be good.

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