posted June 27, 2016 08:31 PM            

The story is: I've been crushing on this friend of mine for more than a year. At first I thought he liked me but I became mixed signals. Being the coward I am, I've never dared to ask him directly if he likes me. We don't talk much, we don't even meet each other regularly. I'll say we meet each other only one every two months (I can't cut him off completely because we're at the same university and attend the same course). This kind of relationship has been torturing me because I'm having many problems of my own and the mixed signals make me feel more insecured than ever. Occasionally he would kind of just "buzz" me if he catches sight of me and disappears. He initiates our conversations most of the time because I'm so scared that he will know about my feelings I hardly make a move. My feelings are so strong and intense I can't even ignore them. He's at the back of my mind, all most every day and it's like a restrained obsession. Every time I tried to forget him and give up, he appeared and I fell in love all over again. I can't get rid of him.

I don't know his birth hour so I know it can't be precise but could someone please throw in some insight? How can I move on or how can I make this relationship better? Thank you!

My planets:

Sun in Scorpio 2*34'49''
Moon in Cancer 12*52'35''
AC in Aquarius 6*39'
Mercury in Libra 22*16'54''
Venus in Scorpio 14*40'55''
Mars in Leo 11*34'4''
Jupiter in Scorpio 20*16'51''
Saturn in Pisces 5*51'8''
Uranus in Capricorn 22*38'12''
Neptune in Capricorn 20*43'41''
Pluto in Scorpio 26*59'2''
True Node in Scorpio 14*51'8''
Chiron in Virgo 21*16'45''

His planets:

posted June 27, 2016 09:03 PM            

Or something. But really, though. I have no idea how to advise you on how to deal with another 'of my kind'. Or if I'd even want to.

If anything, I can say that we both have MERC in Scorp. That makes us (typically) rather private. But then he doesn't have the Uranian involvement I do, and may be more obsessive and need less space.

I've got VENUS in Virgo, whereas his is in Libra, but, nonetheless, nobody wants to make a move if they fear rejection. Maybe he does? Maybe you ought to make it clear.

posted June 28, 2016 02:30 AM            

Secondly: Libra SUNS are usually very forthcoming, diplomatic, jokesters and all around nice.

Thirdly: Scorpios have boiling thoughts, emotions, obsessions-which will most likely negate his Libra Sun

Fourthly: based on PERSONAL experience (and I did really, really, really like this guy-circumstances were just bad then) but the Libra Sun/Scorpio Moon I had a "thing" with made no move whatsoever but he did send out signals in an offbeat kinda way and I acted. I had to really work hard to gain his trust but it was worth it despite everything else being wrong (lived in different cities, different period in our lives, different emotional problems etc etc etc).

Fifthly: don't EVER be scared of doing what your heart tells you to do! You'll regret it.

posted June 30, 2016 06:03 PM            

So I worked up the courage to ask him out but things didn't go as I planned (again urrrrgh).

It's tiring me out day by day because my feelings for him are affecting me strongly, to the point that my emotions are becoming kind of bipolar. So my new, cowardly plan is that I'll just text him how I feel about him and then get on a plane and block his contact.

posted June 30, 2016 07:05 PM            

My experience with Libra men is that they make better friends than lovers if you're looking for something deep (this is of course taking only Libra Suns into account and I know the entire chart matters).

Libras are all about relationships and appearances. They want everything to be beautiful, cute, and lovely. Judging from your post, I feel like you're pursuing him in some way and this isn't the natural order of things which Libras hate. Plus, they don't like aggression of overly dramatic displays. Libra men are females at heart sort of.. in ny opinion.

Adding in his Scorpio moon.. all the Scorpio male influenced men I've encountered always go after the signs they are least compatible with. So even if there's banging chemistry and attraction, he might just feel repulsed and back away. Maybe he feels there's no mystery because he didn't have to work at figuring out. I don't know if that helps you figure things out a little better, but I hope so.

Your situation sounds a lot like a situation I had with a Libra male/ Scorpio moon ironically and as crazy as it sounds!

posted June 30, 2016 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:

Libras are all about relationships and appearances. They want everything to be beautiful, cute, and lovely. Judging from your post, I feel like you're pursuing him in some way and this isn't the natural order of things which Libras hate. Plus, they don't like aggression of overly dramatic displays. Libra men are females at heart sort of.. in ny opinion.

Adding in his Scorpio moon.. all the Scorpio male influenced men I've encountered always go after the signs they are least compatible with. So even if there's banging chemistry and attraction, he might just feel repulsed and back away. Maybe he feels there's no mystery because he didn't have to work at figuring out. I don't know if that helps you figure things out a little better, but I hope so.

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Thank you!

In fact he did kind of pursue me first. I never talked to anyone in my class, I'm practically a wall flower. But in the first semester that we know each other he tried to engage me in every conversation, if he saw me in class (and he knew I knew he saw me) he would approach me at our break. If I was absent he would occasionally text me and ask why etc etc. So I thought he was into me but perhaps it was just his friendly nature. Now I kind of "return the favour" because it's been more than year and I've lost my patience.