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Topic: can't get over it
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cherryann
Newflake Posts: 23
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Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 26, 2016 02:44 PM
  
hello all  i'm still in love with my ex boyfriend we split in july this year
i miss him so so much he is in a new relationship right now and i know this split was for my best
i'm the one who ended the relationship
now i try to figure out why i'm so sad about it all the time and why i can't get over him?
i never felt this way with anybody i dream about him i think everyday about our relationship i have no interest to other man i feel like i wan't to be alone forever when i can't be together with him
so weird situation... our synastry looks not sooo good and our composite or davison chart is not better... in synastry we have moon venus and his mars conjunct my moon but there are no moon sun aspects
his moon is not really aspected
does this mean he has a lack on emotions in relation to me? my pluto conjunct his moon maybe this is one of these aspects who make me so obsessed with him?
i also wondering about that my saturn make at least only two aspects to his ac and mc but i wanted the relationship i wanted to be together with him without saturn not enough clue i read our composite looks really strange for me but we have three planets in the 8th house can these feelings of not can leting go come from the moon in 8th house conjunct saturn?
when i look on this composite i ask how could we be ever be together? it would be so helpful to hear a new opinion what do you say about our charts?
did someone experienced similar feelings?
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hearttreasure
Knowflake Posts: 506
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posted November 26, 2016 07:58 PM
If a man's moon doesn't make any aspect to your sun or moon or ASC, I think you will only torture yourself knowing he will never emotionally manifest on you in the relationship.Can you imagine yourself in that one-sided relationship? This is my opinion because I've found a man's moon will find a satisfying relationship if it touches one (or more) of your sun/moon/asc. If you don't mind, would you post the synastry chart? IP: Logged |
cherryann
Newflake Posts: 23
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posted November 26, 2016 08:18 PM
thank you for your answer
yes maybe its one sided but it felt so deep in the beginning
i also worried about his moon aspects 
his moon is in my 7th house so i see him as a partner but he for him it was just fun?here is the synastry he is on the outside   IP: Logged |
alludeu
Knowflake Posts: 135
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted November 27, 2016 11:53 PM
It may have been deep at the start since he is a scorpio moon he is capable of have intense encounters. But he has strong gemini which makes him restless and flit around from thing to thing.
From looking at the charts I would say that the problem just lied in different personalities - he has lots of strong air (detached from heavy emotion) and you have strong water and earth (water is the intense emotion itself and earth finds security from stability). I was with someone where in our synastry chart I had everything of mine in his 7th house but nothing of his in mine and there were good sun/moon connections, but it just didn't work out.. That's the way life goes sometimes and if that's the way fate and destiny work then the universe has something much better waiting for you. I got over a gemini when I went out and started dating again, it stopped me dwelling on everything. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
Knowflake Posts: 758
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 28, 2016 01:18 AM
Pluto/Moon DW Synastry...that aspect is very hard to break and will haunt you for a while, if not for a lifetime.I'm still getting over an Exact Pluto/Moon with an ex, and it's been 3 years... It does ease up in time... IP: Logged |
Brendan34
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: Albany, NY, USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 28, 2016 01:34 AM
Sounds familiar. I dated a gemini (Libra ascendant, Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon) for 7 years but she ended things a few months ago. Overall she seems detached in the aftermath of the relationship, pretty immediately (as we were breaking up).To me (Cancer Ascendant, Pisces Sun, Cap. Moon), it is a deep wound and a loss of who I was, and so much energy/love. I cannot pretend that my memories don't comprise part of who I am and I mourn this loss with a full heart everyday at some point. It changes you. But change can be good, you learn and grow and realize the parts of you that need to keep evolving on your own. You learn to find yourself again. That's what I'm working toward and hoping for. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 590
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posted November 28, 2016 08:35 AM
quote:
Originally posted by hearttreasure:
This is my opinion because I've found a man's moon will find a satisfying relationship if it touches one (or more) of your sun/moon/asc.
do you believe that the man's moon trine the woman's AC counts? (the orb is 6 degrees) IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted November 28, 2016 05:14 PM
Your Chiron is conjunct his Venus... big love aspect, but tough... hem. I have been struggling with similar synastries all my life.IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
Knowflake Posts: 506
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posted November 29, 2016 01:42 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
do you believe that the man's moon trine the woman's AC counts? (the orb is 6 degrees)
Yes. Long term, familiarity and comfortability satisfy the emotional side (moon). IP: Logged |
cherryann
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posted November 29, 2016 02:32 PM
thank you for your opinions so pluto and chiron are the ones who torment me at time...gemini venus can be really very difficult in long term relationships or much air in the natal not always but in this case it is... i often meet gemini venus men they like me i don't know why 
so this is the reason for his fast overcome with chiron venus i always thought chiron is the one who would hurt i hope i feel better soon i work on it everyday
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