posted December 09, 2016 10:47 AM
Hello!so I've been studying astrology for quite some time now (going on three years) and it's really changed my life in terms of how I view relationships, attraction, and compatibility.
However, there's this guy in one of my classes at university and ever since our first class, I noticed myself.. well not exactly attracted to him but definitely infatuated (I adore him even though we've never actually talked). He looks exactly like my brother, who is the centre of my universe, which is probably why I feel this tremendous amount of love towards him despite our lack of interaction.
anyway, I found out his birthday yesterday and obviously looked up his natal chart and was completely and utterly shocked!!
We have sun conjunct venus double whammy (exact!!) his mars conjuncts my sun (1.5 degrees), and my mars squares his sun.
I mean, his natal chart would be my dream pick if I ever had the chance to choose the love of my life's natal aspects and chart.
I thought I couldn't keep my eyes off of him because he resembled my brother perfectly but it turns out we have this 'perfect' synastry (I know there's no such thing, please don't go off on me haha).. but the thing is he barely notices me. I am certain he has no feelings towards me whatsoever. Not that I have any legitimate feelings or attraction towards him but the potential is DEFINITELY there for me, especially now that I know of our beautiful synastry.
so I came back here to an old post that was titled: why doesn't he notice me despite our amazing synastry'.. and most people commented that synsatry is only activated or is only important if there's already physical attraction between two people. this really confuses me because I thought that synastry was the CAUSE behind the physical attraction in the first place, it'as what brings 12 people together out of allll the possible attractions one could have with others.
what do you think? :/