posted March 13, 2017 02:23 AM
I have looked at the synastry chart of a guy I irrationally hate and our synastry is quite strong, especially for romance.The majority of his personal planets are in my fifth house, which is where the majority of mine are as well. We're both Libras, but not the same year. We have his Mars and my Venus in Scorpio conjunct..nope. I am gagging just thinking about typing it. My sun and Mars is trine his Gemini moon to the degree and my Virgo moon sits right on his Ascendant, to the degree again.
I do not ever want a romantic relationship with this schmuck. I think one could start by comparing synastry charts to the natal charts of each person and seeing how each planet lines up. For example, my Sun and Mars are rather heavily battered by the outer planets in my natal chart, so should they form harmonious aspects to someone else's planets that could rather backfire by invoking the nasty Saturn/Uranus/Neptune stellium I have sending hard squares to my Sun, Mars, and Mercury.
I have noticed that I personally don't prefer other people's planets in my fifth house. I haven't found the culprit for that one yet, except that maybe it's quite crowded already for me natally.
But really, transits and progressions are essential. When you met someone plays a very heavy hand into what kind of relationship will form between you. In my experience, first meeting charts, wedding day charts, etc have been highly accurate in coloring a relationship that forms between myself and someone else. I had actually met this guy totally randomly by chance three years before he really came into my life as a romantic interest of my friend. Three years prior I didn't really have any feelings either way but when I got to know him much later it was sort of a "Hmm...actually I kind of hate you" type of feeling. By a stroke of pure luck, we met at a conference for work which I could track down the exact day of. Once I looked at my transits for that day the nature of my feelings for this guy started to make so much more sense since that day was filled with rough transits for me to the same planets that are rather well aspected in our synastry. I think this is the biggest piece of evidence for me why I really can't stand this guy. Perhaps if we met on another day it would have ended up differently, but that's just how the universe is sometimes lol.
Lindaland
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