posted April 01, 2017 01:17 AM
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Originally posted by rorrr:
Have any of you experienced this as the Moon in synastry? What did it feel like?Were you unattracted to Mars physically? Was sex bad? Or did they end up hurting you in an emotionally wounding way? Maybe fights and arguments were especially stressful and emotionally uncomfortable?
This should be in Interpersonal, but I can't help to answer it.
My moon (aries) square his mars (cancer). It is wide.
I've found that his actions are unattractive. My Aries moon likes a person who is quick and clever in taking an action, he needs time and, well, for me, he is too much careful and too much worry and if he takes quick action it's always based on emotions then he thinks later but it's too late, that it is why he regrets much (but too much pride to admit he's wrong), but what has done is done.
His moon conjunct my mars too. It is close. So, we have DW.
I think moon/mars in synastry is HOT, the metaphor of lots of sweat , but the couple need to lower their sensitivity and need to learn how to control and have a healthy fights/arguments. Intimacy will satisfy your heart because it is what your emotional level wanted.
We have a lot of arguments, but it may be because my mercury is in Aqua and his mercury is in Cancer. We have different style of communication and how we process information is hard to understand to each other. We have a lot of misunderstanding on how each other thinking/communicate. Our fights/arguments are usually about it. It is stressful and emotionally uncomfortable, at least for me, because his mercury also square my moon. I try to learn to speak with emotions and understand his and he has learned to shut his mouth because his water mercury trine pluto can be in attack mode quick like a crab.
If you have moon/mars in synastry, you need to see what sign and what aspect is the mercury. Water or fire sign can heat up the moon/mars aspect. Earth or air sign, I think can cool it down and make it one of HOT aspect to have in synastry.