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psytaurus
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posted December 27, 2017 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for psytaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a "relationship" if we could call that has arrived out of nowhere when no one was asking for it. Lol
It's not romantic cuz we're both happy in our relationships, it's not sexual cuz we're not really each other's type.

It's just a thing that started on a train that we weren't even supposed to be on.
Obviously there's some karma at play here but I don't understand what kind of karma. We don't really get along, we're pretty different people but since we come from the same place and we're in a foreing land we kinda cling to each other. Plus we work together so there's no escaping for now.
On a more serious note there's also this powerful desire between us to help each other. I feel like I could ask anything from him and he would do it and vice-versa. Which is pretty bizarre to feel towards someone you met a couple of weeks ago.

I dunno... the synastry is pretty meh, but that composite is not something I've ever experienced or felt. I've never had that many planets clustered together.
My composites are usually very scattered including the one that I have with my fiance. It's the first time I have seen a Sun-Mercury-Venus conjunction for example.
Too bad Chiron is there.


So I'm curious what's our purpose? What do you make of it?

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todd
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posted December 28, 2017 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's just a thing that started on a train that we weren't even supposed to be on.
Obviously there's some karma at play here but I don't understand what kind of karma. We don't really get along, we're pretty different people but since we come from the same place and we're in a foreing land we kinda cling to each other. Plus we work together so there's no escaping for now.
On a more serious note there's also this powerful desire between us to help each other. I feel like I could ask anything from him and he would do it and vice-versa. Which is pretty bizarre to feel towards someone you met a couple of weeks ago.

much of this can be explained by the vertex square to midheaven, at least part about meeting on a train you both were not supposed to be on.

the part about not being each other type, not really getting along and being different people all correlates with chiron conjunct venus/sun/mercury opposed to Saturn/Uranus/ moon conjunction.

chiron in a composite csan be very bad or very good because with thish configuration, you are drawn to understanding each others most private and intimate feelings and responses. often one partner feels this is too prying and will pull away. so small matters can turn into large arguments because you know each other's weakness and strengths. so it takes a rare combination to be absolutely truthful with each other, which is what chiron demand ad as a consequence this configuration often shows problems and break ups.

but clearly there is very strong desire as is shown by the venus/sun/mercury conjunction
tis combination invariably shows affection openness and a overall joy of being together.
I have to admit,the opposition to Saturn/Uranus/moon is usually a big stumbling block, because this gives mixed feeling.i want you I don't want you etc.this pattern usually ends in a breakup.

but it seems you are sensitive to all these potential negative aspects and yet both of you are trying to help each other.this is really quite extraordinary, to have developed a relationship that seems to be constructive, without you difference leading to problems . with a strong chiron placement you mental connection is emphasized and show you are about extremely intelligent.

but clearly there is a karmic element to the relationship. I think as long as you both acknowledge the "specialness" of the relationship, it may help you both.
but the desire aspect is a wild card because when passion becomes involved, often the best intentions can be lost.
and since you both have romantic interests I think the affection should remain as friends and it would be "dangerous " to proceed to another level of intimacy,

but all you observations are spot on to the dynamics this composite creates.
thanks for sharing
todd

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psytaurus
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posted January 01, 2018 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for psytaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Romance or passion seems impossible with Venus in the 11th house opposite Saturn in the 5th in composite. If anything this aspect alone probably stops anything romantic from ever happening. Which is a blessing in disguise considering our situation.
Also what we've got is cool and different from other things in my life, a romantic affair would make it quite mundane and boring (that's probably my Aqua talking though ).

It's a shame that the first composite Sun/Venus/Mercury I get to experience is so heavily tried by Chiron+Saturn+Uranus. Uf it weren't for them this would be quite a nice configuration Sun/Venus/Mercury for organizations and friendship opposite Moon in the house of creativity which incidentally is our line of work. Add a Mars in the 8th house trine Pluto and we would've been a powerful team.

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Randall
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posted January 08, 2018 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, todd!

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