posted December 28, 2017 02:31 PM
It's just a thing that started on a train that we weren't even supposed to be on.
Obviously there's some karma at play here but I don't understand what kind of karma. We don't really get along, we're pretty different people but since we come from the same place and we're in a foreing land we kinda cling to each other. Plus we work together so there's no escaping for now.
On a more serious note there's also this powerful desire between us to help each other. I feel like I could ask anything from him and he would do it and vice-versa. Which is pretty bizarre to feel towards someone you met a couple of weeks ago. much of this can be explained by the vertex square to midheaven, at least part about meeting on a train you both were not supposed to be on.
the part about not being each other type, not really getting along and being different people all correlates with chiron conjunct venus/sun/mercury opposed to Saturn/Uranus/ moon conjunction.
chiron in a composite csan be very bad or very good because with thish configuration, you are drawn to understanding each others most private and intimate feelings and responses. often one partner feels this is too prying and will pull away. so small matters can turn into large arguments because you know each other's weakness and strengths. so it takes a rare combination to be absolutely truthful with each other, which is what chiron demand ad as a consequence this configuration often shows problems and break ups.
but clearly there is very strong desire as is shown by the venus/sun/mercury conjunction
tis combination invariably shows affection openness and a overall joy of being together.
I have to admit,the opposition to Saturn/Uranus/moon is usually a big stumbling block, because this gives mixed feeling.i want you I don't want you etc.this pattern usually ends in a breakup.
but it seems you are sensitive to all these potential negative aspects and yet both of you are trying to help each other.this is really quite extraordinary, to have developed a relationship that seems to be constructive, without you difference leading to problems . with a strong chiron placement you mental connection is emphasized and show you are about extremely intelligent.
but clearly there is a karmic element to the relationship. I think as long as you both acknowledge the "specialness" of the relationship, it may help you both.
but the desire aspect is a wild card because when passion becomes involved, often the best intentions can be lost.
and since you both have romantic interests I think the affection should remain as friends and it would be "dangerous " to proceed to another level of intimacy,
but all you observations are spot on to the dynamics this composite creates.
thanks for sharing
todd