posted December 14, 2017 12:55 PM            

When you feel like you want to be involved in all their problems..and when you genuinely are interested to know how they life will unfold throughout years?

posted December 14, 2017 01:08 PM            

I feel like that about some of my childhood friends and some of my clients and my ex.

posted December 14, 2017 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
For me that has happened with my moon conjunct his moon. But not sure you can pin it down to just one aspect.

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posted December 15, 2017 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Isn't that LOVE?. I would check for unconditional love aspects. Love that transcends time and space.
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What are some unconditional love aspects?

If this feeling is love, then I am now sure I have never loved anyone

posted December 15, 2017 03:33 PM            

I believe you also need a certain amount of Neptune and perhaps positive Pluto aspects to support a relationship that is based on unconditional love. In our composite chart we have Neptune conjunct the Ascendant. This is by no means an easy aspect, but it's a very powerful one as you are willing to do almost everything for one another quite readily. As Pluto sextiles the Ascendant (from the 10th house) this makes the relationship truly healing and regenerative, with the focus being on growth.

In synastry, conjunctions or sextiles/trines from someone's Neptune to the other's Sun or Ascendant would have a similar feel. The Neptune person will be very accepting of the planet/angles person but will not be seeing them very clearly for what they really are. Positive Uranus aspects can also be very accepting and appreciative of the quirky qualities of the other person which could also be seen as a form of unconditional love as there is no expectation for commitment or reciprocity.

Pluto conjunctions to Moon/Venus, etc. are felt powerfully but are heavy and would not be a good example for unconditional love, as they involve a lot of jealousy and possessiveness. However, if in the Composite/Davison charts you perhaps see Venus conjunct Neptune sextile Pluto this might indicate a very idealistic love that is very close to being unconditional, however it would not be very realistic or clear due to the strong influence of Neptune.

posted December 16, 2017 01:18 AM            

thank you for your input

I had my vesta conjuc someone's sun once, it was exact, actually their vesta was also on my sun exact, it was a pretty long relationship (3 years maybe not exactly long, but comparing to my other relationships which lasted only a few months or a year tops) but I never felt any sort of commitment to him..my sun was even also in his 7th..I broke up with him once he brought up marriage...I saw him more as a hot man who would put up with my flaws..never felt any thing romantic either..even though in synastry his mars was on my venus exact, my venus trine his pluto exact..my sun on his NN and his sun/moon midpoint with the orb of 1..his sun was square my moon and his uranus was square my moon as well these weren't nice aspects along with his pluto trine my venus...his sun in my 11th and my moon in his 5th..in the composite there was also sun conjunct venusand mercury aamong other aspects...but like I said I never felt committed to him and was always waiting foran oopportunity to dump him..in the composite moon was square uranus and saturn..not nice at all

posted December 20, 2017 10:07 AM            

I have a valentine-jupiter DW with someone in synastry, and I want to be around for him, even when he's making bad choices. I see him for who he is, I accept him, I just want to cheer him on and be happy. Even if that means we can't be happy with each other (as a couple).

Would probably also be looking at NN conjunctions - same guy I have my venus conjunct his NN, his Moon conjunct mine - our moons are parallel each other.