posted April 03, 2018 03:46 AM            

men tend to avoid their BML, this is something they wouldn't want in a wife...for casual sex maybe that's a great factor for attraction

women are more in touch with their BML...again the themes involve darker aspects of one's psyche..there is a destructive and revengeful vibe to it..

for everyone, NN is an intense point where we feel like running away from, at least initially and in many for the most of their life...

posted April 03, 2018 07:47 AM            

I like Lilith, but I am a woman. I think she has the ability to show this side to you, and maybe it brings you along your path. This is where you will see her not back down, and maybe it is overwhelming for a man to see this in a woman? It's intense, and the relationships I have had with Lilith can be obsessive for sure. With your NN involved, maybe this will play in to where you need to go eventually to develop yourself.

For men, I think much depends on their level of comfort with a strong woman. I had a relationship with a man who had his BML on my Moon. My BML opposed this. He pursued me hard, was crazy attracted to me, but over time it devolved in to him wanting and needing to control me. It couldn't happen, and the relationship ended pretty abruptly.

posted April 03, 2018 08:59 AM            

So this is pretty interesting then. How do you feel with your own Lilith? Where is she in your chart? Do you feel comfortable posting your natal and your partners?

So let me see if I can get the picture. She has Mars and Lilith on your NN in Virgo, and your Mars and her moon conjunct in Pisces on your SN? In her natal, Lilith is at odds with her emotional self.

I really want to see the charts for the whole picture, but she has Mars opposite moon. Her emotions and her desire to act fight each other, so she stops herself. She is connected between action and emotionality, but its a struggle. With Lilith conjunct her Mars, I think her drive wins over her heart. She will do what she needs and desires, despite her heart wanting to go a different route. This can add to that feeling you have with her being overly possessive or controlling. She seems like she would have a lot of stops and starts, but ultimately she is going to push forward.

Your Mars is opposite this, so there's this attraction because you like the way she does things, for the most part. It's not how you would do things, but there's an attraction nonetheless. With your Mars on your SN, I feel like sometimes makes it easier for you to get stuck in old habits. She has the drive and energy and ability to get you moving the other way. It may not be without a fair amount of friction, but it's there. As two women, this can be very powerful for you. She has the means to show you how to fulfill your own sense of purpose and destiny. I would like to see your Lilith in your chart, but if you are disconnected from BML in yours, maybe she brings you in touch?

posted April 03, 2018 02:57 PM            

Her Saturn opposes your Sun. She will feel comfortable with this bcs she is Cap, but you're Pisces sun and Sag Moon. This can be tough for you. You have a lot of freedom in you, a lot of happiness within yourself type thing. Aqua Venus, Gem Rising, Sag Moon... having Juno conjunct your Sun probably helps temper this a little?

There are definitely some struggles for you both here. Your Lilith is not overly prominent so I suspect that overall she will help you with this. Her Venus and Sun are unaspected by you? But they fall in your 7th. You're being hit a little more than her, but those Saturn aspects and Pluto aspects are strong. And she needs her Saturn activated. Your venus does hit her first house, so this probably feels good to her. And you both have Venus in Aqua, so though not conjunct it fits. You do put Jupiter in her 7th, which will emphasize relationship for her.

Did you notice your Lilith on her vertex? That's nice and feels strong to her, I would imagine. It is hard to see degrees here but it looks close.

You have a heavy 9th house, and she puts her Moon there, right in the middle of your Sun and Mars.

posted April 04, 2018 01:17 AM            

Ours Suns are also square, and my Jupiter conjuct her Juno widely opposes her Venus. I think there are more aspects to her personal planets