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Topic: Todd, Since you are always so helpful...
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DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 1625 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 15, 2018 06:27 PM
Could I ask for a quick assessment of this composite? This is somebody I am involved with currently, although intuitively I have reservations...would love your input. THANK YOU <3 IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 1874 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 15, 2018 07:55 PM
whoaaa Uranus opposed to Venus on the anti-vertex. this is extremely electric/sexual/psychic. .this is very intense but extremely difficult to integrate into a serious or long term relationship.it shows a magnetic attraction and with juno square to Uranus/Venus, it would give feelings of a serious hookup. the sun/moon midpoint is conjunct to venus which really amps up the attraction and sexual intensity.it also increases the volatility.Saturn is square to the moon and the vertex. this complicates matters as these feelings can be the polar opposite of the venus/Uranus feelings.this square is guarded and distant, not conducive to emotional intimacy and juxtaposes the intense intimacy of the Uranus/Venus opposition, which often shows a off and on attraction at best. pluto opposed to eris tend to put a premium on sexuality and not emotional intimacy. Jupiter on the ascendant square the node really put emphasis on a serious relationship. but the mars/Saturn midpoint s square to Uranus and venus which doesn't bode well for a continuous emotional connect. I think the killer here is that Saturn is square to Uranus and the midpont is conjunct the node and square to Jupiter.this would negate any coherence that Jupiter could give to a long term relationship there is a stellium of mercury/sedan/chiron and the sun, so there is a interesting mental connection.it seem that there is a intense intellectual connection and a sympathy for truth. this would give an aura of sincerity. it seems you both are opening up your inner selves and learning about how each other think and react . I don't know but the polarities of are too far apart for something stable to form. todd IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 16, 2018 05:02 AM
Hey Todd, what does it mean when you see a yod in a composite chart like this or? And it pointing to mercury? IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 1625 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 16, 2018 08:16 AM
Wow this is interesting. I agree with the volatility, and with the distance and not being able to feel settled into a real relationship. There are major emotional barriers which I feel mostly from his side (he has major issues with intimacy).What is interesting to me, is that in the VERY beginning I was strongly attracted to him physically, but as time went on I became repulsed by him and we are totally and completely sexually incompatible. It is definitely not electric! He has been extremely nasty to me further breaking down communication, and I always feel/felt like he is/was hiding things from me. As of now, I'm pretty sure I am going to leave tihs behind as I ponder: will I ever have a nice relationship?? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 781 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 16, 2018 12:35 PM
Can you post the synastry? I'm very curious lol But yes this composite is a mess. Jupiter on the rising is beautiful, but the moon is pretty much unaspected except for squaring Saturn which is significant as moon and Saturn are the ASC and DSC angles. Moon is also in the 12th. This shows complete lack of any real emotional connection or intimacy, you probably feel alienated from him and vice versa. Saturn is distant and cold and critical. And this moon is the ascendant ruler so this relationship never stood a chance, the fact that the 1st and 7th rulers are afflicted with Saturn making a trine to Neptune as the only nice aspect, and these two squaring tells me you two are inherently incompatible as people in a relationship, no sympatico. Also the mars square sun and mercury shows irritation, conflict and tension. Uranus is showing instability and hot and cold dynamics. Saturn in the 3rd is showing awkward communication or lack of communication. Mars is again very afflicted no nice aspects, mars is sexuality so this is probably why you two are so sexually incompatible. The yod shows this was a very fated and compulsive relationship, you were probably very attracted at least initially, but other than that the composite doesn't show harmony, attraction, intimacy or much longevity. Learn from it what you can and move on is my suggestion, you can find a lot better, don't settle 😘👍 IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 1625 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 16, 2018 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: Can you post the synastry? I'm very curious lol But yes this composite is a mess. Jupiter on the rising is beautiful, but the moon is pretty much unaspected except for squaring Saturn which is significant as moon and Saturn are the ASC and DSC angles. Moon is also in the 12th. This shows complete lack of any real emotional connection or intimacy, you probably feel alienated from him and vice versa. Saturn is distant and cold and critical. And this moon is the ascendant ruler so this relationship never stood a chance, the fact that the 1st and 7th rulers are afflicted with Saturn making a trine to Neptune as the only nice aspect, and these two squaring tells me you two are inherently incompatible as people in a relationship, no sympatico. Also the mars square sun and mercury shows irritation, conflict and tension. Uranus is showing instability and hot and cold dynamics. Saturn in the 3rd is showing awkward communication or lack of communication. Mars is again very afflicted no nice aspects, mars is sexuality so this is probably why you two are so sexually incompatible. The yod shows this was a very fated and compulsive relationship, you were probably very attracted at least initially, but other than that the composite doesn't show harmony, attraction, intimacy or much longevity. Learn from it what you can and move on is my suggestion, you can find a lot better, don't settle 😘👍
Thank you sooo much! On the flip side- I have learned a LOT about my own self-worth through this relationship. Sure- here is the synastry below. Note: His Nessus on My Ascendant!! Verbal abuse to the max- very true that was. He is on the outside, I am on the inside.
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todd Knowflake Posts: 1874 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 16, 2018 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Wow this is interesting. I agree with the volatility, and with the distance and not being able to feel settled into a real relationship. There are major emotional barriers which I feel mostly from his side (he has major issues with intimacy).What is interesting to me, is that in the VERY beginning I was strongly attracted to him physically, but as time went on I became repulsed by him and we are totally and completely sexually incompatible. It is definitely not electric! He has been extremely nasty to me further breaking down communication, and I always feel/felt like he is/was hiding things from me. As of now, I'm pretty sure I am going to leave tihs behind as I ponder: will I ever have a nice relationship??
He has been extremely nasty to me further breaking down communication, that's what happens when the chiron/mercury goes south. iut gets very cruel because often you kmnow so much about each others inner workings that criticism strikes close to the quick IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 1874 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 16, 2018 03:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: Hey Todd, what does it mean when you see a yod in a composite chart like this or? And it pointing to mercury?
my personal take on a finger of god are that they represent a unexpected intrusion into a otherwise harmonious situation. it depends greatly on the planets involved. todd IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 1625 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 16, 2018 03:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by todd: He has been extremely nasty to me further breaking down communication,that's what happens when the chiron/mercury goes south. iut gets very cruel because often you kmnow so much about each others inner workings that criticism strikes close to the quick
Oh YES to criticism Todd. It is always MY fault, I am the problem. etc etc....he takes zero ownership for anything. I'm not saying I am an angel by any means, but I am a nice person that does not talk down to others.
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DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 1625 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 17, 2018 09:28 AM
Bumping for Luna IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 1625 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 20, 2018 09:49 AM
Bumping again for Luna IP: Logged |