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Topic: Why is it so painful to be apart?
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 25, 2018 02:05 AM
Hi everyone, Me and my now ex boyfriend (we broke u recently) always felt and still feels it's hard for us to be apart from each other for even a day or two let alone have a long distance relationship..Anything in the composite/synastry to suggest this? Also ,are we meant or have the potential to be life partners and soulmates sometime in the future or are we more towards karmic short term partners? Charts are as below. IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 25, 2018 02:20 AM
Composite Synastry(I'm on the inside) His Mine IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 5943 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 25, 2018 12:27 PM
I think it could be your Moon conjunct. It can make separation painful. Especially if you both really enjoy being with each otherPlus he has the Moon in 4th whilst you have a buildup of Mars/Venus and Moon in 7th. So whilst he is "homey", you enjoy being in a relationship and live for it. In the composite I notice that you have Mars/Pluto conjunct. That energy can turn explosive because its so obsessive. So perhaps this distance is needed to have a little more perspective. IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 26, 2018 05:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I think it could be your Moon conjunct. It can make separation painful. Especially if you both really enjoy being with each otherPlus he has the Moon in 4th whilst you have a buildup of Mars/Venus and Moon in 7th. So whilst he is "homey", you enjoy being in a relationship and live for it. In the composite I notice that you have Mars/Pluto conjunct. That energy can turn explosive because its so obsessive. So perhaps this distance is needed to have a little more perspective.
Yes we do enjoy being together very very much.So it could be that the joint moon is part of the reason. Yes I do ..I do live for the moments of being in a good relationship (by my standards of what a good relationship is). Perhaps..but up until the eclipse and supermoons and retrograde planets we never fought or any disagreements we're dealt with quickly and easily. Thank you so much Aries23! Any others thoughts?Are we soulmates?karmic?both? Are we marriage material? Or at least life partner materials? Thank you so much! IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 26, 2018 08:47 PM
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 27, 2018 03:11 AM
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 28, 2018 01:42 AM
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pocketrocket Knowflake Posts: 148 From: Italy Registered: May 2017
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posted July 28, 2018 03:33 AM
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 5943 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 28, 2018 12:53 PM
Tbh, I can't tell any of that from my side. Only tell the synastry relationship.I think you are the only one whom can answer that question for yourself. What do you think? IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 01, 2018 09:53 AM
Do tell what the synastry says then?Any little info would help. Thank you! IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 02, 2018 03:41 AM
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 02, 2018 10:57 PM
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1383 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 05, 2018 07:53 AM
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9982 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 05, 2018 01:39 PM
Aside from the moon conjunction it could be that Jupiter rules your 4th house and opposes that stellium in the 4th in your composite. Add moon in the 5th in aquarius and you are good friends who really enjoy each other's company and feel at home and comfortable with each other. 4th house/moon energy seems to be the focus. I could see how this may lead to some codepandancy, feeling comfortable and secure together and getting use to been around each other all the time.Also with sun opposite Venus and your Pluto forming a tsquare plus the moon conjunction you two have deep feelings for each other but Mars is weak in your synastry, I feel that indicates your sex life is not strong or will eventually not be strong. Without a strong Mars presence this relationship will start to feel more like a deep friendship as time passes, you will feel you love each other deeply but that something is missing. However you do have Mars conjunct Pluto in composite which is very sexual but is a wide conjunction and Pluto is retro but with Mars inconjunt mars in synastry I would say perhaps you two have different styles in your sexual nature and are at odds with eachother as to when you want to have sex, and with composite Mars in the 3rd perhaps you talk about having sex more than actually having sex, I wonder if Pluto retro reinforces this difficulty in expressing that side of your relationship. Add that Pluto retro is sesquisquare jupiter and mars inconjuncts Ceres so both Pluto and Mars are dealing with challenges that require adjustments and flexibility from both sides. Pluto rules the third house so you probably do communicate about these issues but it almost seems like that this deep attachment and comfort you have for each other and desire to nourish each other is undermining your sex life. Post the Davison. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9982 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 05, 2018 02:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aurora_girl1990:
Also ,are we meant or have the potential to be life partners and soulmates sometime in the future or are we more towards karmic short term partners?Charts are as below.
I feel with northnode in aquarius you are meant to end up as good friends... So karmic short term romantic partners (southnode in leo) but long term friends. But then again Mars is your skipped step which rules the 8th house and falls in the 3rd house and inconjuncts mercury/ceres.. Like part of what you are here to work on is learning to communicate about 8th house issues but this is challenging with that inconjunction to mercury which rules your chart and MC. Learning to communicate at a deeper level about sex, taboo topics, finances, psychology, what is underneath the surface, true intimacy, talking about the things people like to push under the rug etc is what will help you two work through your karma and move forward perhaps. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 100146 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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mir Knowflake Posts: 2781 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2018 01:29 AM
tSaturn hitting both their Jupiter by opposition. Structural problem coming to light.. (you will face what you can't or don't want to see or name it). Problem was already noticeable when tSaturn had its first hit to their Jup a while back.IP: Logged |