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Topic: Composite: What were the reasons for breakup?
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AquaLeo29
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From: Canada
Registered: May 2015
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posted August 19, 2016 08:03 PM
  
Girl was still hoping that they will end up together after breaking up their 4-yr relationship. She never dated anyone and just focused on her job; then, after a year, he married another girl he was in a relationship of less than 6-month.Girl wanna know the deeper reasons of breaking up, from the guy's perspective as shown in the composite chart. Thanks!!!  IP: Logged |
SDragon
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posted August 19, 2016 09:48 PM
Not sure it's possible to tell with just the composite. The composite is the energy of the relationship but acts almost like a third person. So it would depend on synastry and his natal and the type of aspects/configurations he would have been exposed to.IP: Logged |
Piscean Tigress
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posted August 20, 2016 01:22 AM
Seen composite: -Chiron close to Asc: the wounded healer conjunt Asc, both heal and wound each other; something doesn't work at all in the relationship. Maybe he wonīt find the heal he needed. Conjunction it's in 12th house, maybe was hard to him try to express the help he was searching for. - Mars (2nd house) opposite Mercury and Uranus (7th house). Too much discusions and maybe explosive fights; unconventional relationship (Uranus) maybe stuck by way of thinking (Mercury), but fights can be for jelous or money matters (Mars in 2nd). Mercury itīs in fall, so you disagreed a lot. - Sun conjunct Neptune in 7th: High idealization in the relationship to resist the daily basis truths. - Venus (8th) square Saturn (5th) and Pluto (6th). I don't like too much Saturn in 5th (I have it natally) and cools down whatever it touchs (romance, kids in this house). Venus square Pluto show lot of passion, but Saturn in the mix cools down that passion; maybe you had lots of high and lows and he just suddenly found one day that was enough for him. That it's just a storm of thoughts of how was the problems in the relationship, but if you want to know how he felt, you need to put your sinastry to see how he reacted to you and what can pushed him away. IP: Logged |
todd
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posted August 20, 2016 03:27 PM
the first and strongest red flag is mars opposed to Uranus and mercury.this shows he is never going to commit to her. also if the relationship was 4 years in duration, the implication is that she did everything to keep the relationship happening and he did nothing. the mars/Uranus shows she was totally in awe of him and that the love was really one sided. with venus square to Saturn and pluto, she had relationship issues to begin with and likely low self esteem, so she ignored or was not sensitive to the lack of real love for her. this square shows he was only in to her for sexual reasons and her infatuation allowed her to ignore that the fact she was not getting any real emotional intimacy from him. with venus square to pluto and Saturn, I assume the actual reason for the breakup had to do with either or both no longer being receptive to a sexual relationship. these types of relationships often start of very sexual ,but degenerate to celibacy and emotional isolation .
with a strong Uranus and a strong Saturn/pluto, the relationship was always up and down and never achieved emotional balanced that can lead to growing together.it is very unusual that such a relationship would last for 4 years and the duration achieved here is probably a function of the vertex being conjunct to the node. this aspect ,in a composite always shows some type of feeling of "destiny, karma or soulmate. the unusual similarities in life experiences, even though their lives were very different, gives a feeling that something more that them I acting to bring them together.
but these unworldly connections are not something a relationship can be counted on to grow from. with the sun conjunct to Neptune, the relationship was never transparent and with the sun/Neptune conjunction sextile to pluto and Saturn, forming a finger of god with chiron on the ascendant, he likely was always criticizing her or finding faults in spite of her devotion. the finger of god shows the sudden and unexpected severing of the relationship, with callousness and disregard for her feelings .
I assume this has all happen rather recently as the sun/Uranus midpoint is at 13sag12 and the mercury/Neptune midpoint is at 17sag22. this implies he started seeing the other women or made the decision to marry the other woman in early june and that the her knowledge of the abrupt break occurs around july 30th. todd todd IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted August 25, 2016 09:23 PM
out of curiosity, would a mars uranus conjunction in composite be read similarly? I find your description above interesting, about the opposition and square.
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vansio
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posted July 18, 2021 02:43 AM
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