posted May 21, 2019 07:24 AM            

Not sure if you have seen a previous thread of mine but this guy and I met earlier this year, went out a few times while I was having issues with the other guy, had great chemistry and then possibly due to still healing from his Ex he dropped off. Like he hasn’t even been in touch while I’ve been away. When I was still there I’d see him at church, he came to my farewell drinks, would swoop right in with back and forth texting, laughing at so much together, clearly attracted, flirting. Then nothing. I’ve dreamt about him the last few nights. Not sure why.
I’m just curious about this progressed composite because maybe it has clues. It looks a little lonely lol. Especially Venus 😬
P.s in our synastry all angles conjunct.
Maybe he’s just not that into me 🤔

posted May 21, 2019 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Well, Venus looks lonely at this time (lol) but in 9th house it looks like wishful thinking! the progressed chart shows the separation at this time, since Uranus is opposite Chiron/Jupiter in 4th house... Sun/Mercury conjunct Mars with Moon conjunct Neptune looks motivational though, and since Sun is in 7th house, nothing is impossible here... since this is just a progressed chart. How does the actual Composite look like? Is Venus lonely? :-)

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Thank you Bella! Venus is not lonely in the composite thankfully 🤗 but I just don’t get why he’s dropped off. And it’s a hard thing to bring up with him for some reason. I wonder if that’s the Mercury Saturn conjunction in the progressed composite.

Here’s the actual composite

posted May 21, 2019 07:05 PM            

Oh goodness I hope the marriage works out with the couple you know! My friends have been happily married and they have sun Uranus square in their composite. There’s hope.

posted May 21, 2019 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Yes I feel all that too with our situation. He certainly is unavailable but it was very spicy at the beginning and when we went out. I feel the Uranus influence strongly. You know, it’s ok though because it’s not like I’m hugely hung up over it. I was just very confused as to why things suddenly went that way. I am already dealing with healing from the other one so it’s ok I didn’t expect too much. Every time I see him though I’m insanely attracted and want to rip his clothes off lol. It’s hard because he goes to the same church as me and we have mutual friends. I think his Venus/Saturn will not be up for just fun and if it’s not something he sees as a future commitment then he won’t go there and will let it go. He’s celibate before marriage.

Oh goodness I hope the marriage works out with the couple you know! My friends have been happily married and they have sun Uranus square in their composite. There’s hope.

I find it so interesting that I’ve been attracting sun uranus squares in my composites lately! I wonder if it’s tUranus heading towards my descendant!

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I think you're very attracted to him cause your Scorpio ASC/Uranus is conjunct his Scorpio Pluto... and he's a Scorpio Sun trine to your Venus... then his Mars is also sextile to your Mars/Moon trine his Uranus, his Venus in 8th house is sextile to your Pluto, and your Sun is in 8th house. So it looks mutual.
I agree, his Saturn/Venus in 8th might be controlling (and self-controlling) and together with Uranus opposite your Sun/Eros, so this might explain why he might just give up on this... but why wouldn't he find you not ok for committment? I see his Moon square his Sun and his Uranus/Saturn is opposite his Chiron 2nd house, he might actually be very insecure on the emotional level and since his Venus/Saturn/Uranus is in Sagittarius 8th house, he might react to his own insecuritity with emotional detachment.

posted May 21, 2019 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I think you're very attracted to him cause your Scorpio ASC/Uranus is conjunct his Scorpio Pluto... and he's a Scorpio Sun trine to your Venus... then his Mars is also sextile to your Mars/Moon trine his Uranus, his Venus in 8th house is sextile to your Pluto, and your Sun is in 8th house. So it looks mutual.
I agree, his Saturn/Venus in 8th might be controlling (and self-controlling) and together with Uranus opposite your Sun/Eros, so this might explain why he might just give up on this... but why wouldn't he find you not ok for committment? I see his Moon square his Sun and his Uranus/Saturn is opposite his Chiron 2nd house, he might actually be very insecure on the emotional level and since his Venus/Saturn/Uranus is in Sagittarius 8th house, he might react to his own insecuritity with emotional detachment.

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Yes! That scorpio energy reels me in and I get so jacked up haha!

Do you think he's as attracted to me as I am to him?

My venus in the 9th and he has venus in sagg opposite my sun/mercury/eros? Our moons conjunct even though out of sign. But I feel it. We are very comfortable when we're together and there's a lot of electric energy between us.

Possibly it might be too hot to handle considering he's celibate.

Hmmmm, it must be that unless he's in 100% then he just won't go there due to his venus/saturn. I mean, he would feel my stability from my moon/saturn for sure. And his venus/saturn wants that reliability.
I don't know. He hung out with his ex recently and he ghosted her after that. I've heard that moon square sun can easily ghost people.
You're right about him being insecure emotionally yes. I feel that and can easily see that in him. He possibly has an avoidant attachment style. He berates himself a lot, he's even admitted that.

posted May 21, 2019 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Yes! That scorpio energy reels me in and I get so jacked up haha!

Do you think he's as attracted to me as I am to him?

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I think so, there's plenty of aspects (Scorpio/Pluto/8th/5th house overlays and others aspects!) showing this, and the ones you've added here:

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My venus in the 9th and he has venus in sagg opposite my sun/mercury/eros? Our moons conjunct even though out of sign. But I feel it.

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I mean, he would feel my stability from my moon/saturn for sure. And his venus/saturn wants that reliability.

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This is why I was wondering, why he wouldn't commit, lol

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You're right about him being insecure emotionally yes. I feel that and can easily see that in him. He possibly has an avoidant attachment style. He berates himself a lot, he's even admitted that.

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Yes, his Saturn looks heavy to his Venus, and with the Chiron opposition he might be questioning himself and beating himself up a lot... moreover, his Sun/Pluto midpoint looks to be square to his Moon in 5th... this is a litlle harsh on a psychological level. It might be sign of bipolar disorder, chronic depression, deep emotional wound coming from their childood and a negative/obsessive relationship with their mother... His Sun/Pluto in Scorpio can be able to keep the deepest feelings shut inside without ever showing them. He might have very intense feelings/desires and still look apparently detached with his Sagittarius Saturn/Venus/Uranus.