posted June 07, 2019 12:43 PM            

I will give you my personal experience.

I havent yet experienced the famous Mars/Venus conjunction though i have experienced a few other combinations.

The best sex ive experienced was with a woman who touches my Mars with squares from her Neptune/Mercury conjunction and her Juno exactly conjunct my Mars.

My Mars is in 12th Virgo and hers is in her 12th in Aquarius conjunct her moon.

Her Mars/Moon creates a grand trine of air together my natal Venus/Pluto-trine, and I think this should be given the creds for the great experience, with the Mars/Juno-conjunction at a strong 2nd place and at the 3rd place our mutual Mars house positions.

So you see the 2 "incompatible" Mars-positions didnt mean anything in terms of physical compatibility.

That was just my experience.
You will find lots of more clues if you search around some.

posted June 07, 2019 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Mars in Aries and Mars in Scorpio aren't really compatible. But check to see if they parallel each other. That's similar to having Mars conjunct Mars. Also, it's just not Mars/Mars but Venus/Mars too. Another thing I'd like to mention is that so far the best I've had is with a guy who's Mars trines my Mars. My Mars is in Gemini and his Mars is in Libra. BUT he has a tight Mars/Pluto conjunction is in natal chart.

So that probably has a lo to do with it. Mars/Mars synastry is only about physical sex and attraction. It's best to have some aspects that give affection which is Venus/Mars, Sun/Moon etc. I remember thinking with this guy the sex is great. But he never kisses or touches me. And that's something that I like. He will kiss me on my forehead lol but I mean like caressing. I think people with water Marses are great for that.

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Hi There! Thank you both for responding! @ChildofVenus that's very helpful! Our Mars' are trine each other actually and I've read that this is a good aspect as it denotes 'smooth sailing' physically and our body rhythms match well. Then I dug a little deeper and I saw that my mars (in Scorpio) tends to like more intense and focused sex while mars in Aries is pretty hard and fast (but can go again pretty quickly as well).

The good news is, we have a sun/moon conjunction, Sun/Mars trine, Mars/moon sextile, Sun/Venus trine and a Mars/Pluto double whammy [conjunction and sesquiquadrate] (which I read can be problematic but very intense in regard to sexuality between two people) So there are some flowing aspects there but no Venus/Mars unfortunately. His Pluto semisextile's my Venus though. Anyone have any more insight on these/personal experiences?

posted June 08, 2019 03:37 AM            

My experience:

1st guy (Aqua Mars) -
We have Venus trine Mars DW, Mars sextile/square Moon, Mars square Sun, Mars trine Pluto, Mars semi-sextile Mars, Mars sextile Neptune, Mars sextile/sesqui Jupiter.

Seems like we have the concoction of a great sexual connection but we don't. While our bodies rhythm matched (no awkwardness) but sex was mundane, boring... and quick. I don't miss it at all.

2nd guy (Virgo Mars) -
We have Mars trine Sun DW, Mars square Moon/Venus, Mars opposite Mars, Mars square Neptune DW, Mars trine Jupiter/Eros, Mars trine/semi-square Uranus, Mars quincunx Pluto, Lilith opposite Mars.

Very horny sex. Always satisfying. Virgo Mars is eager to please but kissing/touching ends once the actual act starts (a pity) but was still good overall. I keep missing it after we broke up.

3rd guy (Cancer Mars) -
We have Mars trine Mars, Mars sextile/opposite Sun, Mars quincunx Moon, Mars square/trine Jupiter, Mars trine Uranus DW, Mars square/quincunx Pluto, Mars quincunx/square Neptune, Lilith trine/square Mars, Lilith conjunct Venus.

Very passionate and emotional sex, like merging of souls. Lots of kissing/touching during sex. Even when we're not doing it, there's always an impulse to touch/kiss each other whenever we're near. He's the first guy I feel so sexually impulsive.

posted June 08, 2019 06:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I've Pisces Mars.

My experience:

1st guy (Aqua Mars) -
We have Venus trine Mars DW, Mars sextile/square Moon, Mars square Sun, Mars trine Pluto, Mars semi-sextile Mars, Mars sextile Neptune, Mars sextile/sesqui Jupiter.

Seems like we have the concoction of a great sexual connection but we don't. While our bodies rhythm matched (no awkwardness) but sex was mundane, boring... and quick. I don't miss it at all.

2nd guy (Virgo Mars) -
We have Mars trine Sun DW, Mars square Moon/Venus, Mars opposite Mars, Mars square Neptune DW, Mars trine Jupiter/Eros, Mars trine/semi-square Uranus, Mars quincunx Pluto, Lilith opposite Mars.

Very horny sex. Always satisfying. Virgo Mars is eager to please but kissing/touching ends once the actual act starts (a pity) but was still good overall. I keep missing it after we broke up.

3rd guy (Cancer Mars) -
We have Mars trine Mars, Mars sextile/opposite Sun, Mars quincunx Moon, Mars square/trine Jupiter, Mars trine Uranus DW, Mars square/quincunx Pluto, Mars quincunx/square Neptune, Lilith trine/square Mars, Lilith conjunct Venus.

Very passionate and emotional sex, like merging of souls. Lots of kissing/touching during sex. Even when we're not doing it, there's always an impulse to touch/kiss each other whenever we're near. He's the first guy I feel so sexually impulsive.

For best sexual satisfaction, I choose 2nd guy because he's always so eager to please me in bed. But for overall emotional/physical satisfaction, guy 3 win hands down. I think what makes it so good (overall) is our Mars trine Mars (our sexual "styles" aligned so well we practically don't need to adjust). Also the other Mars hard aspects add a lot of passion although can be heated when we have disagreements (no violence) but make-up sex was especially good.

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posted June 08, 2019 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
It’s odd that I like Mars in Cancer but I’m Mars in Gemini. I like that their gentle I guess it’s the parallel between our Mars. But I know someone else who has Mars in Gemini and she said she enjoyed sex with a Mars in Cancer.

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I didn't sleep with enough Cancer Mars guys to ascertain this (lol) but I really like how my Cancer Mars guy is so passionate and emotional when we make love... aligned with my Pisces Mars "soul merging" style.

posted June 08, 2019 02:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I've Pisces Mars.

My experience:

1st guy (Aqua Mars) -
We have Venus trine Mars DW, Mars sextile/square Moon, Mars square Sun, Mars trine Pluto, Mars semi-sextile Mars, Mars sextile Neptune, Mars sextile/sesqui Jupiter.

Seems like we have the concoction of a great sexual connection but we don't. While our bodies rhythm matched (no awkwardness) but sex was mundane, boring... and quick. I don't miss it at all.

2nd guy (Virgo Mars) -
We have Mars trine Sun DW, Mars square Moon/Venus, Mars opposite Mars, Mars square Neptune DW, Mars trine Jupiter/Eros, Mars trine/semi-square Uranus, Mars quincunx Pluto, Lilith opposite Mars.

Very horny sex. Always satisfying. Virgo Mars is eager to please but kissing/touching ends once the actual act starts (a pity) but was still good overall. I keep missing it after we broke up.

3rd guy (Cancer Mars) -
We have Mars trine Mars, Mars sextile/opposite Sun, Mars quincunx Moon, Mars square/trine Jupiter, Mars trine Uranus DW, Mars square/quincunx Pluto, Mars quincunx/square Neptune, Lilith trine/square Mars, Lilith conjunct Venus.

Very passionate and emotional sex, like merging of souls. Lots of kissing/touching during sex. Even when we're not doing it, there's always an impulse to touch/kiss each other whenever we're near. He's the first guy I feel so sexually impulsive.

For best sexual satisfaction, I choose 2nd guy because he's always so eager to please me in bed. But for overall emotional/physical satisfaction, guy 3 win hands down. I think what makes it so good (overall) is our Mars trine Mars (our sexual "styles" aligned so well we practically don't need to adjust). Also the other Mars hard aspects add a lot of passion although can be heated when we have disagreements (no violence) but make-up sex was especially good.

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Sounds intense! I have Mars trine Mars actually with the individual who prompted me to start this thread. I can feel the tension between us and I've actually had pretty intense dreams about him since we've met. Once I looked at our aspects, we have a HUGE amount of 'psychic/telepathic' links. North node to moon DW, Moon/Mercury, Mercury/Neptune, moon/ Neptune, moon/Uranus, Mercury/Uranus, not to mention eros/psyche and Mars/Uranus DW. I think Mars and Uranus indicate 'kininess', no? I'm not usually able to fantasize very well about sex with someone if there hasn't been at least a kiss yet, but with this one--it's different. I just want to rip his clothes off.

posted June 09, 2019 03:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Murikhi:
Sounds intense! I have Mars trine Mars actually with the individual who prompted me to start this thread. I can feel the tension between us and I've actually had pretty intense dreams about him since we've met. Once I looked at our aspects, we have a HUGE amount of 'psychic/telepathic' links. North node to moon DW, Moon/Mercury, Mercury/Neptune, moon/ Neptune, moon/Uranus, Mercury/Uranus, not to mention eros/psyche and Mars/Uranus DW. I think Mars and Uranus indicate 'kininess', no? I'm not usually able to fantasize very well about sex with someone if there hasn't been at least a kiss yet, but with this one--it's different. I just want to rip his clothes off.

We're heavy on lilith aspects as well. His lilith for the most part aspecting my ascendant, Venus, Mars, Sun and Pluto. His Priapus is touching my moon (all I know about priapus is that it indicates an insane need to merge). That, with the Mars/Pluto double whammy does have me concerned. I'm a scorpio so I love it a bit rough but do any of you think I should be worried about obsession/abuse? Or will some of the softer aspects I mentioned before temper them out?

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Mars-Uranus is kinky sex or simply that sex feels exciting. For us, the prelude to sex always feels like a game with a lot of sexy teasing.

Neptune-Moon is a romantic contact... a lot of dreaminess, idealisation... and forgiveness. I personally love this contact because we both have Moon-Neptune in natal.

You seemed to have a lot of Uranus contacts. Are they the hard contacts or harmonious? Hard contacts have problems with instability.

We also have significant Priapus connections. In Composite, Priapus conjunct Uranus/NN/Eros. In Synastry, his Priapus conjunct my NN & Dsc, square my Eros/Lilith. My Priapus conjunct his Psyche, square his Eros/Jupiter.

posted June 09, 2019 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Mars-Uranus is kinky sex or simply that sex feels exciting. For us, the prelude to sex always feels like a game with a lot of sexy teasing.

Neptune-Moon is a romantic contact... a lot of dreaminess, idealisation... and forgiveness. I personally love this contact because we both have Moon-Neptune in natal.

You seemed to have a lot of Uranus contacts. Are they the hard contacts or harmonious? Hard contacts have problems with instability.

We also have significant Priapus connections. In Composite, Priapus conjunct Uranus/NN/Eros. In Synastry, his Priapus conjunct my NN & Dsc, square my Eros/Lilith. My Priapus conjunct his Psyche, square his Eros/Jupiter.

Yes, I read that Priapus makes you wanna merge with that person but I'm not sure my feeing this way is because of Priapus or other contacts.

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Our Uranus aspects are mostly flowing/harmonious save for my Uranus squaring his Mars [Which he has natally] and my Venus squaring his Uranus [Which I have natally.]

To be honest I don't believe I recall having Uranus square Mars with anyone in synastry before. Would that mean a lot of make-up/break-up? Or that I, as Uranus, would be unpredictable to him sexually/relationship-wise? Would I, as Uranus, be the 'kinkier' one or since he has it natally would that mean he brings the bulk of that energy to me? I'm pretty comfortable with Venus square Uranus since I have it in my natal chart so my relationships are unconventional and I do tend to like my freedom.

I definitely feel the Neptune/moon thing. I have a shot of Neptune in my natal chart but it's touching my venus so lots of idealization with lovers... for better or for worse.

I WILL say keep an eye on Priapus. All of this astro talk made me research my old flames and when I plugged in Priapus for them, it explained why I had tons of passion/desire to merge for some while I lacked the same kind of passion for others. In this instance, if he feels Priapus at all in regard to me then he's definitely feeling that need to merge.

Have you had Mars/Pluto in hard aspect synastrically? Again, I can't help but inquire about this since its a double whammy between the two of us. I have it natally so I'm used to the energy but I don't know what it will do between the two of us. He already has some obsessive aspects in his chart with Mercury opposite Pluto and Venus Opposite Pluto. he also has Moon Conjunct Pluto as well so that indicates stalkerish tendencies and difficulties letting go. I heard Moon/Pluto also means they attract 'intense' partners (which explains my attraction to him lol). I won't lie, I do tend to attract types like these since I have a Scorpio stellium [Asc/Sun/Mars & Pluto]. But I've never seen someone else with as many plutonic contacts as myself. Good compatibility you think? Or should I run for the hills? I get the feeling sex between us would be quite emotional/heavy with all the contacts we have... thoughts?

posted June 10, 2019 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Murikhi:
[B]Our Uranus aspects are mostly flowing/harmonious save for my Uranus squaring his Mars [Which he has natally] and my Venus squaring his Uranus [Which I have natally.]

To be honest I don't believe I recall having Uranus square Mars with anyone in synastry before. Would that mean a lot of make-up/break-up? Or that I, as Uranus, would be unpredictable to him sexually/relationship-wise? Would I, as Uranus, be the 'kinkier' one or since he has it natally would that mean he brings the bulk of that energy to me? I'm pretty comfortable with Venus square Uranus since I have it in my natal chart so my relationships are unconventional and I do tend to like my freedom.[b]

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The square is a very different energy from a trine. The trine feels exciting yet stable... you turn each other on, but the square tends to cause too much wilfulness so you get under each other's skin more than excite each other.

His natal Mars square Uranus will show him to be a rebellious one. Individuals with this aspect tend to be stubborn too and they will do something just because you told them not to do it.

Venus square Uranus is feelings of wild, passionate love then suddenly tuning off, that's why the infamous on/off reputation.

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Have you had Mars/Pluto in hard aspect synastrically? Again, I can't help but inquire about this since its a double whammy between the two of us. I have it natally so I'm used to the energy but I don't know what it will do between the two of us. He already has some obsessive aspects in his chart with Mercury opposite Pluto and Venus Opposite Pluto. he also has Moon Conjunct Pluto as well so that indicates stalkerish tendencies and difficulties letting go. I heard Moon/Pluto also means they attract 'intense' partners (which explains my attraction to him lol). I won't lie, I do tend to attract types like these since I have a Scorpio stellium [Asc/Sun/Mars & Pluto]. But I've never seen someone else with as many plutonic contacts as myself. Good compatibility you think? Or should I run for the hills? I get the feeling sex between us would be quite emotional/heavy with all the contacts we have... thoughts?

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Yes, see my first post. I've Mars square/quincunx Pluto with my current guy. He has Mars square Pluto in natal. Curious, how does it feel when you have the aspect natally? Does someone's Pluto touching your Mars trigger your explosive temper? With my guy, we do have heated arguments but he has never been violent to me.

Our dynamic is quite cute actually... I'm 2yrs older but I'm the tantrum princess - pouting, storming off, deleting his number, texting him hate messages (lol). He'll chase me back but I'll also regret quickly, and then we'll have an emotional reunion.

He also has natal Moon conjunct Pluto and Juno in Scorpio. I believe he attracts intense partners. I've Pluto in 5H quincunx Sun which makes me intense/passionate in love but I think our volatile emotions come from our natal Moon square Mars (both) and Venus square Mars (me) / Venus semi-square Mars (him).

IMO 2 strong plutonians coming together can be good or bad. If both have harsh Pluto aspects and one or both are not good at managing their unhealthy plutonic traits, it can cause major heartbreak.

posted June 10, 2019 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
how does it feel when you have the aspect natally? Does someone's Pluto touching your Mars trigger your explosive temper? He also has natal Moon conjunct Pluto and Juno in Scorpio. I believe he attracts intense partners. I've Pluto in 5H quincunx Sun which makes me intense/passionate in love but I think our volatile emotions come from our natal Moon square Mars (both) and Venus square Mars (me) / Venus semi-square Mars (him).

IMO 2 strong plutonians coming together can be good or bad. If both have harsh Pluto aspects and one or both are not good at managing their unhealthy plutonic traits, it can cause major heartbreak.

Just like our individual natal Moon square Mars. We both have volatile tempers but he manages it better than me. I'm sure my temper has hurt him couple of times, e.g. the last time I deleted his number he said he felt very hurt. :P

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I feel very in tune with my dark side as odd as that sounds. I'm a quite sanguine individual (born on the cusp of Scorpio/Sag) so there's a lot of Jupiter energy in me. Not to mention my Gemini moon but a switch flips when I get into competition (Sports) or when I feel jealous in love which is quite easily triggered. I'm pretty tough, I was the only girl on my high school football team. I forced them to let me join lol. But I do have a temper and it's explosive since I let it breed. People have told me I have an intimidating presence. When someone touches it, they either become obsessed with me or they can make me lose my mind with anger or jealousy. Depends on how invested my feelings are for them. I have gotten a better handle on my volatile emotions since I don't like feeling like someone can have that much control over me. But inside, I'm a maelstrom and I tend to plot revenge. Very much the text-book definition of hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Wow what a coincidence! He has his Juno in Scorpio, too! His Lilith as well. I really do feel like I can feel his intensity. He can probably feel mine as well. I get a feeling he's got a hidden well of intensity that might be triggered by someone else plutonic i.e, me. I have had many transformations so I'm hoping I'm mature enough in my Plutonian and Martian energy to handle what's coming but from what I've been reading (from you and many of these astro sites) I should prepare to have my world rocked and for obsession to take a front-row seat between the two of us.

posted June 12, 2019 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
What's your relationship with this guy currently?

Scorpions/Plutonians are really good at stalking. They're natural investigators.

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Yes, I can definitely concur with your last statement, lol. I'm the queen of obsessing. Both Martian and Plutonic energy makes for a super potent cocktail of fixating on things for a long timg (sometimes too long.)

And we're coworkers. Nothing serious has happened yet. I'm very very very much attracted to him though and I know the feeling's mutual. He's ALWAYS staring. Trying to catch my eye. I catch him creeping on me. So do my friends at work. His Venus is in Taurus so I know they like the voluptuous type-- I have an hourglass figure and tend to wear body hugging outfits. Just my style. He could simply be visually stimulated by me but I have such intense/vivid dreams about him since we've been in contact and I think that may have to do with all our moon/Mercury/outer planet and north node links.

posted June 19, 2019 12:01 AM            

Scorpio has staying power and Aries is more about instant gratification so that could cause friction; Aries Mars takes everything head-on and Scorpio can plot for months. So there would be tension, but passion, too. Really depends on other placements and aspects, though.