posted November 03, 2020 07:11 PM            

A bit of history: this concerns a friend of mine with whom I get along very well on an intellectual level. This might sound silly coming from a grown up man, but I've always felt intensely attracted to her (not sure if she activates my Pluto conj. Moon in Scorpio in the 7th house - she definitely feels like "The One"), and have contemplated making a move multiple times, but I really never felt anything from her end and so I kept quiet out of fear of blowing up a perfectly good friendship. For the last three years and change, I had given up hope on this one and gone about my business as she moved to a different country. But now, she's moved back to my city and gotten in touch, so I'm thinking of giving it my best shot, outcomes be damned.

Do you think this relationship has any long-term potential at all? To be honest, I'm a bit worried by Uranus and the stellium in the composite 7th, Chiron in the composite 1st and Saturn in the composite 8th.

Please note that I do not know her exact time of birth, so I've set it to 12:00pm. I've tried to include as much information as I can; please let me know if you'd like me to include more.

Thank you!

# Composite (mid-point method)

Aspect table: https://i.imgur.com/qErIXsC.png
Chart: https://i.imgur.com/fXl1lFT.png
Planetary position table: https://i.imgur.com/qcXdGNv.png

# Davison (uncorrected)

Chart: https://i.imgur.com/1aKRMin.png
Aspect and planetary position table: https://i.imgur.com/sNmxkBk.png

# Natals

Aspect table for her: https://i.imgur.com/wkDusw8.png
Aspect table for me: https://i.imgur.com/GEJsKVm.png
Chart for her: https://i.imgur.com/5Q7b3LR.png
Chart for me: https://i.imgur.com/HNGa8Hx.png
Planetary position table for her: https://i.imgur.com/D7t9jvr.png
Planetary position table for me: https://i.imgur.com/Kxre2wx.png

# Synastry

posted November 03, 2020 08:19 PM            

The sun/eris/Venus stellium is square to the Uranus/Neptune/Jupiter stellium.this is really quite electric.but this dynamic never ends with a long term relationship. It is more characteristic of a intense affair.
If she hasn't put out any vibrations it may be that she too doesn't want to put your friendship in jeapordy.
It might also be the mars square to Saturn which can be dispassionate.
These two impulses are like fire and ice and don't make for long term relationships.

posted November 03, 2020 08:20 PM            

Composite

Davison (uncorrected)

posted November 04, 2020 01:11 AM            

Each of these 30-degree-aspects will create the base for a temporary 165-30-165 poleaxe figure whenever a planet progresses or transits through the zodiac degrees at the apex point. ... And, (from my experience of having just one natal semi-sextile to cope with), the poleaxe can - at the drop of a hat - turn an otherwise harmonious/stable relationship into a "take no prisoners" battleground.