posted April 04, 2022 04:41 PM            

We feel like "family", and since day one we couldn't really get away from the other. So I have high hopes about this relationship and would love to know what you think. Thank you very much in advance.

Composite: http://ibb.co/sWNhc6Z

Synastry: http://ibb.co/H7FM416

posted April 04, 2022 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Overall it definitely looks like long-term partnership is the LESSON of this relationship, but whether or not you pass the class is up to you. It won't be easy, but no relationship is!

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I just updated the charts with the information you asked and a few more objects.

I feel puzzled by all the 6th house energy (and grateful for the 7th!!). Maybe it's what you mean regarding the long term commitment, because as far as I know, is the house of habits and day to day (marriage could be involved in that, isn't it?)

posted April 04, 2022 07:34 PM            

Thanks for the updated charts. Some of the conjunctions in the synastry look promising, particularly your vertex on his North Node! You can really help him towards his soul purpose. In the composite you have Vertex conjunct Juno AND Venus, and even being opposed by Saturn, I think that's really strong. Is there an age difference between you?

Sun conjunct Chiron shows it could be very healing or very wounding, so watch out. I would read up on that if I were you. From ihearturanus.blogspot.com:

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Sun-Chiron contacts in a composite suggest that the relationship itself carries an unhealable wound, usually from the past of both parties, or from the nature of the world in which the two people are living. At the same time, the relationship may provide deep healing for both people, or for others who come in contact with the couple, because the inherent limits invoke suffering and consequent understanding and compassion.

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As I say though, it won't be without its challenges. I would read up on that Saturn too. For example, Saturn opposite Venus in the composite, from cafeastrology.com:

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Roadblocks to your relationship are notable with the hard aspects between Venus and Saturn in the composite chart, whether they are finalizing plans to be together or frequent problems/burdens that seem to keep you separated or living together but frustrated. While this may not be immediately obvious, displays of affection and intimacy between you tend to be strained, forced, or otherwise unnatural, self-conscious, and lacking in spontaneity. Fear of rejection is the reason for holding back, as there is a feeling that you can’t be loose and open with one another without some level of disapproval or confusion. You might argue over money and possessions, as well as personal values, and either of you might attempt to limit the other person’s spending or leisurely activities. Jealousy or fear of losing one another can lead you to attempt to limit your partner’s enjoyment of life beyond your own interactions. You will both need to be aware of criticizing or limiting one another, or any romantic innocence that you once shared will leave quickly, and the relationship will feel more like a business agreement than a romantic partnership.

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posted April 05, 2022 12:42 AM            

I don’t see this connection lasting or becoming a marriage at all either. Very obvious from the charts..,
Tbh if your TOB is correct, I don’t think you’re truly that into him. They’re obsessed with YOU, and I think your scorpio energy likes that and it makes you feel good and safe and secure in the connection with them, since you have a need to have the upper hand and control in your relationships etc. but beyond that, I’m not sure how much you’re into him?
This self denial or illusion is present in the composite as well, I think you have a lot of wishful thinking and hope or you’re romanticizing this more than the reality. I think you want to love them because they love you, but I really don’t think you do or ever will.

You two have very incompatible lifestyles as well, example he might stay up all night and you’re an early bird, or they smoke and you don’t etc. male could be a workaholic, have commitment issues or baggage from the past/ex’s etc. I don’t see a satisfying sexual relationship either, you have different preferences and some timing issues as well, when one is in the mood the other might not be etc. I also see some illusions/lies regarding communication too and fooling yourself emotionally about how you truly think and feel in this relationship.

I’m also just getting an awkward vibe, I don’t think you’re that affectionate or open with each other sexually or love wise/being expressive of your feelings

Definitely not a match despite what Neptune might be confusing you about right now.
Let me know how this all plays out…

posted April 09, 2022 09:04 AM            

I'm curious about something that LunaIscariot said,

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Inner person is not as invested or interested compared to the outter Taurus rising person.

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Because I actually feel that is ME (Pisces rising) the one that is far more invested! I felt it was me you were describing here, since I felt love at first sight with him, but I can only talk about myself here. So that left me very puzzled.