posted December 01, 2020 08:17 PM            

I don't know why you're worried about this, I see they have an affectionate link, since they have a Grand Trine formed by Ceres-Venus/Moon/Jupiter, and Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Cupido. It's true that they have Eros opposite Psyche in Composite and Pluto square Venus in synastry, but other elements are not favourable for a romantic connection. Sun conjunct Chiron usually suggests that other priorities in life can keep the two people separated and this is square to the Eros/Psyche opposition, so I assume that an attraction would lead to nothing. Mars is opposite Saturn so he's likely not up for compromising or any kind of personal involvement. The Juno/Jupiter midpoint is square to Uranus/Neptune, so if an attraction is there might be short lived or stay on a platonic level. South Node is conjunct Mercury and square Jupiter, this may signal that there's a very good intellectual exchange between them, but South Node here would suggest a temporary connection.
Sun/Chiron on its own could be a binding aspect despite the challenges it poses, but it could also suggest that their connection is significant as a teacher/student exchange cause it's square Jupiter.
My feeling is that there could be a particular harmony and/or affection/appreciation between them, maybe also a subconscious attraction, but I don't see this developing in anything serious outside the teacher/student exchange.

posted December 02, 2020 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi efaki94,

I don't know why you're worried about this, I see they have an affectionate link, since they have a Grand Trine formed by Ceres-Venus/Moon/Jupiter, and Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Cupido. It's true that they have Eros opposite Psyche in Composite and Pluto square Venus in synastry, but other elements are not favourable for a romantic connection. Sun conjunct Chiron usually suggests that other priorities in life can keep the two people separated and this is square to the Eros/Psyche opposition, so I assume that an attraction would lead to nothing. Mars is opposite Saturn so he's likely not up for compromising or any kind of personal involvement. The Juno/Jupiter midpoint is square to Uranus/Neptune, so if an attraction is there might be short lived or stay on a platonic level. South Node is conjunct Mercury and square Jupiter, this may signal that there's a very good intellectual exchange between them, but South Node here would suggest a temporary connection.
Sun/Chiron on its own could be a binding aspect despite the challenges it poses, but it could also suggest that their connection is significant as a teacher/student exchange cause it's square Jupiter.
My feeling is that there could be a particular harmony and/or affection/appreciation between them, maybe also a subconscious attraction, but I don't see this developing in anything serious outside the teacher/student exchange.

Of course if there are alarming signs/developments give me updates and I'll give a further check.

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Thank you a lot for your insight
Well I worry about her because she is 6 years younger than me and I searched her on Instagram and she looks very good like most of his students.
Also he has a similar composite and Davison with one of his ex which he was very into.
They had this venus pluto opposition in Davison. Mars saturn in composite. Mars chiron in composite.

Also They have node to node opposition
And saturn to neptune conjuction
In synastry.
Her pluto square his stellium also worry me.
His asteroids and node conjuct her venus.
I m afraid that all this will lead to something.

posted December 02, 2020 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I see darling... but you can have a strong chart with a teacher cause they can have a significant impact in your life and become a very familiar person, this doesnt mean it has to be romantic... the nodal opposition is on his IC/MC axis and her north node falls on his 9th so this can also suggest his teaching profession, but she doesnt seem to hit his romantic houses... I wouldnt worry too much unless you have more evidence... you could ask also for Todd's opinion if you want to make sure about their connection and see what he thinks.
My opinion is that this doesnt look particularly dangerous for your relationship with him, but I may miss something that Todd might see instead.

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Thank you a lot stoika
I know
I'm just being paranoid all the time
Because I can't imagine him with another woman so close.
😭
I don't have any other evidence yet
But to be honest I try not to search her on social media and his phone
Because my stress getting worse
I prefer to see his attitude to me
Tosee if something has changed.
And I wish it won't.
I'll tag Todd too to take one last opinion.

posted December 02, 2020 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by efaki94:
How can I tag him?, 🤔

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If he doesnt see this or your request at Saggy7's, just go ahead and make a new post for him!

posted December 02, 2020 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by efaki94:
Thank you a lot stoika
I know
I'm just being paranoid all the time
Because I can't imagine him with another woman so close.
😭
I don't have any other evidence yet
But to be honest I try not to search her on social media and his phone
Because my stress getting worse
I prefer to see his attitude to me
Tosee if something has changed.
And I wish it won't.
I'll tag Todd too to take one last opinion.

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efaki94 darling... if he's a teacher, I am afraid you will have to get used to him having girls/students around him... many of them might have good astrological charts with him :-)

Why dont you just share these fears directly with him? why dont you open up and talk to him about your fears? In relationship trust is everything ❤️

posted December 02, 2020 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
efaki94 darling... if he's a teacher, I am afraid you will have to get used to him having girls/students around him... many of them might have good astrological charts with him :-)

Why dont you just share these fears directly with him? why dont you open up and talk to him about your fears? In relationship trust is everything ❤️

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posted December 02, 2020 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I understand, jelousy is not an easy thing to control... but honestly, what is he supposed to do? :-)

I think I have seen your composite some times ago, but I cant remember the details now... if you like, I can check it out again.

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Yeah I know.
So difficult to control that feeling.
somewhere I saw you are aquarius sun and Venus on a past thread
I'm jealous of that aquarius aura and the cool vibe they have. I had an ex with that placements who never went jealous.
Lucky people. Hah

If it's easy for you I wouldn't say no
For one more indight

Synastry_ I'm outside

Davison Chart

Composite chart

posted December 02, 2020 08:02 PM            

But I am sure that you as a Leo Queen can understand my pride ❤️

posted December 03, 2020 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
ahah, actuallyyyy... yes, but I'm also a Taurus Moon and Aries Mars, so I'm wierdly very possessive and proud for an aqua Sun/Venus and I become jelous cause I can't stand being replaced by any other (in the heart of my beloved), makes me deeply outraged and humiliated. On the other hand, my aqua sun/venus acts cool on the surface and would never openly admit to be jelous, cause I absolutely want to be free from any kind of obsessive/jelous attitude towards me... how self-centrated is this?! lol

But I am sure that you as a Leo Queen can understand my pride ❤️

Looking at the Composite, I think you have a strong loving bond, the nodes are square the Venus/Jupiter midpoint, Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct IC, the Venus/Mars midpoint is conjunct Chiron opposite Saturn... you love each other on a very emotional level, but your communication can be unclear and there are trust issues. You need to control the toxic energy of Pluto square the Saturn/Chiron opposition cause this can become abusive, frustrating and divisive. With Chiron in first house opposite Saturn, you both need to work on your own self-worth/insecurity issues which are triggered by the relationship with the Pluto/Saturn/Chiron t-square. There's a need to listen more to the other reason's putting aside each of your ego issues cause of the Sun/Mercury quincunx to Neptune/Uranus.
Your natal Saturn opposite Chiron shows you need his support to find self-assertiveness cause his Mars is conjunct your Chiron, but he might actually not be always there as you wish. On the other hand, your Pluto square his Jupiter seems to perfectly describe what is going on with his job and your jelousy...
Transiting nodes are currently conjunct Composite nodes in reverse square the Venus/Jupiter midpoint in 2nd house, so I think you will be forced to address these issues definitely, it looks like a significant transit for the future of the relationship.
I think he's into you and seriously, but there's a fragile balance you need to keep under control, Saturn square Pluto on his own is usually an ego clash and shows that there are basic things the two people won't ever feel on the same page about, this is where the ego side must be put aside otherwise love can turn quite toxic with the Pluto/Saturn/Chiron t-square.

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my sister is aqua with taurus moon also
haha
totally understand and relate to you
but this aquarius energy manage to keep this feelings and to show coolness without efort
love that <3

everything you said is happening
when we are good we are very good
and when we are bad we are very bad.
everytime we are close to a separation
we feel the same sadness and we cant
break up for more of two days.

as you said i totally need his support
but why do i feel like i need it more than he do?

by the way the last months im unemployed and
i have much more time to make bad scenarios in my head and i think that cause some arguments Between us. when i was working i didnt have the time and the interest to spend
all my energy on these things but i wasnt
so affectionate with him like i am now.
and he is the opposite now that im affectionate
and i have decide to find a job and stay with him he seems more focused in his career and to his world. could that have to do with his progressed venus conjuct jupiter?
by the way his progressed venus and mars is retrogade should worry me?

posted December 05, 2020 07:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
He does want your support as well, but in a different way, he wants to feel you appreciate him and share his life path, with Chiron in 10th house he needs support in his professional choices and wants to receive appreciation for his success out there.
He's also a libra asc, your juno is conjunct his asc, so he expects you to be on the same page with him and he doesnt like confrontation too much.
Yes the composite t-square can give such stormy ups and downs...
Yes prog Venus/Jupiter might have to do with his focus on his job. He's also having transiting Saturn/Jupiter opposite MC and transiting north node sextile Jupiter.
tr north node is on your mars so you likely feel the urge to focus on your own projects, things for you will get going next year when tr jupiter will go towards your MC, so I think you will unblock your situation likely in spring.
Yes I understand that being at home makes you more focused on your relationship with him and overthink... try to keep busy with something creative ❤️

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Yep thats totally true
He prefer both of us to be one the same page
Like when both we were working
And there was more understanding between us
Because of the tiredeness and the routine
We both felt
I already feel that node I think on my mars
I spent last months taking care of my grandmother(because my mother doesn't seem interested to do that) who has alzheimer in hospital and still do that
But I came to a place that I feel so tired
And I need to focus a little to my myself
Waiting for that jupiter in my mc
The last time it was there it was such a lovely year.

Thank you for your time stoika
❤️🙏

posted December 06, 2020 05:21 PM            

The composite just looks like the age old story,teacher trying to get a piece of young co-ed butt.
The grand trine as stoika pointed out does show a genuine affection and support.
But the Mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct the south node pointing to a rather intense sexual,emotional attraction.
But the bottom line is the Mars/nessus and mars/Pluto midpoints opposed to the juno/Jupiter midpoint .this opposition square to the Neptune/Uranus conjunction.
Thus impies that he is telling her anything,such as a long term hookup ,to facilitate his access to her body.there is no sincere emotional interest by him.he is pure into a exploitive sexual conquest.

posted December 07, 2020 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Hi efaki94

The composite just looks like the age old story,teacher trying to get a piece of young co-ed butt.
The grand trine as stoika pointed out does show a genuine affection and support.
But the Mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct the south node pointing to a rather intense sexual,emotional attraction.
But the bottom line is the Mars/nessus and mars/Pluto midpoints opposed to the juno/Jupiter midpoint .this opposition square to the Neptune/Uranus conjunction.
Thus impies that he is telling her anything,such as a long term hookup ,to facilitate his access to her body.there is no sincere emotional interest by him.he is pure into a exploitive sexual conquest.

After her it will be another so I am not sure why you even are concerned about this guy.you can see what his act is ,so why would you think he would treat you any differently?
Todd

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Todd first thanks for your response
Well we are together 2 years now
He want to move in with me
(I didn't want it first but now I want it too)
I have met his family
He invite me in all their family events
Thats why I think he see me seriously
Why do you think it would be another girl?
That nessus mars is in our chart?
in synastry his mars/nessus mdpoint
conjuct my venus means the same?
Also their Mars opposite saturn in composite how could play out?

posted December 07, 2020 01:52 PM            

upload picture online

synastry
he is the blue

posted December 07, 2020 06:13 PM            

I have to explain that I have been under great stress tgevlast few days. I assume government troll have been attacking my iPad and mobile.I have spent many hours just getting these device on line and still I have to reset them throughout the day.this has been a ongoing struggle for several years as I post many political comments on the spider line forum.but my comments on this corona hoax has really put me in hot water as in addition to trying silence my list,these "forces" are also trying to cause me physical harm.
I am under a lot of duress and I am not able to concentrate now.looking over the first chart I missed very important aspects .the mars sextile to nessus/Pluto,trine to Uranus and Neptune and opposed to Saturn is very " cohesive ".I mean that this relationship supports his professional endeavors .
With Jupiter square the node and trine to the moon and Venus and with Juno conjunct to Lilith ,there is a possibility this chart could evolve into a serious relationship.
MMercury conjunct the south node shows that have a very string mental/psychic bond.it thin they first were attracted by their minds but it seems they have also developed the emotional side also..
The only questionable aspect is still the Juno/Jupiter midpoint square to the uranus,/Neptune conjunction as talk of a serious relationship would be problematic.
Wither mercury square to Jupiter again there is a strong intellectual connection which is likely a strong part of their feelings for each other.
It seems they might be closer than he has let on
So I am somewhat unclear about your role here.he wanted to movevib,you didn't. Now you want to moves in but now he doesn't???

posted December 07, 2020 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Hi efaki94

I have to explain that I have been under great stress tgevlast few days. I assume government troll have been attacking my iPad and mobile.I have spent many hours just getting these device on line and still I have to reset them throughout the day.this has been a ongoing struggle for several years as I post many political comments on the spider line forum.but my comments on this corona hoax has really put me in hot water as in addition to trying silence my list,these "forces" are also trying to cause me physical harm.
I am under a lot of duress and I am not able to concentrate now.looking over the first chart I missed very important aspects .the mars sextile to nessus/Pluto,trine to Uranus and Neptune and opposed to Saturn is very " cohesive ".I mean that this relationship supports his professional endeavors .
With Jupiter square the node and trine to the moon and Venus and with Juno conjunct to Lilith ,there is a possibility this chart could evolve into a serious relationship.
MMercury conjunct the south node shows that have a very string mental/psychic bond.it thin they first were attracted by their minds but it seems they have also developed the emotional side also..
The only questionable aspect is still the Juno/Jupiter midpoint square to the uranus,/Neptune conjunction as talk of a serious relationship would be problematic.
Wither mercury square to Jupiter again there is a strong intellectual connection which is likely a strong part of their feelings for each other.
It seems they might be closer than he has let on
So I am somewhat unclear about your role here.he wanted to movevib,you didn't. Now you want to moves in but now he doesn't???

The second chart you ask about is very sexualky charged. Mercury on the south node adds the sane mental/psychic connect Uranus opposed the mercury and Venus indicates they really get along well this and eris square the nodes marks their connection as very physical.but this chart is extremely unstable so anything long term is not on the table..

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It's OK Todd.
Take your time. I didn't tottaly got what you mean my English isn't the best.
Wish you are well.

Well I wish that won't happen
She is his student but the class are 10 to 11 for 45 minites
So they have 7 more classes and after that
He won't see her again
Expect if he or she text him or call him (I don't know)

Well yes
In the summer we had a fight
Because I didn't want to move in with him
I wanted to stay alone first (because I still live with my parents) and then moved in with him
Now that I'm again obsessed with him
I want to moved in and he wants to
But I have to find a job first because I'm unemployed the last months
By the way he had buy a ring to ask me to engage (not marriage) the last year but when I said to him that I'm not a marry type person
He gave it back to the store and he didn't say anything about engage . I learned about that after months.

posted December 07, 2020 06:55 PM            

Here's my charts with him
If that helps
Synastry_ I'm outside

Davison Chart

Composite chart