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Topic: I don't know what is happening or why
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charlie
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posted October 16, 2021 03:00 PM
  
I'm being bombarded. By Cancers! I mentally drop one (it was an illusion anyway) and then another one pops up. Or back, I should say. We have quite a long history together. First met in Los Angeles around 2008. I was so in love with him but never did anything besides sleeping in the same bed a few times. Didn't even kiss once!
The other day he confessed how he's always felt for me and I just broke down the same night. I mean WTF am I supposed to do with this info NOW?? It's just pure and simple mind-fukcery by Universe. I mean, he literally dropped the L word on me. 7 years after I've left?! ******* I want to punch him so freakin hard!Synastry
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anska5
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posted October 16, 2021 07:55 PM
Are you the cancer inside or outside in synastry?IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 5191
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posted October 17, 2021 02:15 AM
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Originally posted by anska5:
Are you the cancer inside or outside in synastry?
Inside. Should have stated, sorry! IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
Knowflake Posts: 228
From: The Nether World
Registered: Mar 2021
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posted October 17, 2021 03:49 AM
Hi Charlie, your description of what happened just screams Uranus at me. So that’s the first thing I checked in your synastry and composite and I wasn’t disappointed. His Sagittarius Uranus square your Virgo Mars/ASC, composite Uranus in H1 squaring Venus & Jupiter and trine Sun & Mercury. In Davison Uranus is conjunct DSC, square Venus and sextile Sun & Mercury. And if I’m correct transit Uranus is currently on your MC. No wonder you feel this way! Uranus transits can be very karmic and I’m being affected by it right now myself (I have a H8 Taurus stellium). Maybe this is a good time for you to look at the way the Uranus transit could offer you opportunities to change whatever isn’t working in your life at the moment and what will help you grow as a person. Capricorn Pluto transit opposite your natal Cancer Venus probably adds to to this momentum (and may be the reason for attracting Cancer placements as well). Wishing you lots of love and wisdom! IP: Logged |
anska5
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posted October 17, 2021 06:51 AM
There are obviously plenty of synastric connections with this particular cancer that explains why there is attraction (venus-ascendant, sun-venus, you hitting his 7th house, Venus-mars conjunction, and probably even an out of orb double whammy, moon-mars opposition). Why he is only now coming out with his feelings? I would assume as a late Cancer sun, pluto is opposing his 7th house sun (and some years before his 7th house mars) and may have triggered something in him to actually come out and say it. Something changed in him (pluto also has been travelling through his 1st house in capricorn for the past years), for him to feel the need to declare himself now. I'm a triple capricorn and pluto has been conjuncting my sun, mercury and now venus for the past years and it's a very heavy transit that leads to a lot of introspection, not least because it brings along some tough experiences. So that's my take on why he acted now. Why the other cancers? I would assume because as with him you hit some personal planets and many of them will also have pluto opposing their personal planets i.e. making them prone to intense attractions.IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted October 17, 2021 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Hi Charlie, your description of what happened just screams Uranus at me. So that’s the first thing I checked in your synastry and composite and I wasn’t disappointed. His Sagittarius Uranus square your Virgo Mars/ASC, composite Uranus in H1 squaring Venus & Jupiter and trine Sun & Mercury. In Davison Uranus is conjunct DSC, square Venus and sextile Sun & Mercury. And if I’m correct transit Uranus is currently on your MC. No wonder you feel this way! Uranus transits can be very karmic and I’m being affected by it right now myself (I have a H8 Taurus stellium). Maybe this is a good time for you to look at the way the Uranus transit could offer you opportunities to change whatever isn’t working in your life at the moment and what will help you grow as a person. Capricorn Pluto transit opposite your natal Cancer Venus probably adds to to this momentum (and may be the reason for attracting Cancer placements as well). Wishing you lots of love and wisdom!
This is the first time in my life I'm flabbergasted! He is the sole reason (not putting blame on him!) I dated some really shady characters and broke many hearts. I just had to get him out of my system. And I kinda managed despite us talking on/off since I moved back to Europe 2013. I only really see two options right now. Either I make extra effort, again, to try and work things out with my husband or take this as a sign that it's probably time to let go.
I do think it's slightly unfair of other Cancer to tell me this now knowing my situation. He could have perhaps kept things simple? IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted October 17, 2021 11:44 AM
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Originally posted by anska5:
There are obviously plenty of synastric connections with this particular cancer that explains why there is attraction (venus-ascendant, sun-venus, you hitting his 7th house, Venus-mars conjunction, and probably even an out of orb double whammy, moon-mars opposition). Why he is only now coming out with his feelings? I would assume as a late Cancer sun, pluto is opposing his 7th house sun (and some years before his 7th house mars) and may have triggered something in him to actually come out and say it. Something changed in him (pluto also has been travelling through his 1st house in capricorn for the past years), for him to feel the need to declare himself now. I'm a triple capricorn and pluto has been conjuncting my sun, mercury and now venus for the past years and it's a very heavy transit that leads to a lot of introspection, not least because it brings along some tough experiences. So that's my take on why he acted now. Why the other cancers? I would assume because as with him you hit some personal planets and many of them will also have pluto opposing their personal planets i.e. making them prone to intense attractions.
He told me he has been doing years of thinking. It's nothing he even hinted at while we sporadically exchanged sms's since I left US. He kept it all inside. We also had a falling out many years back that he said took him a long time to forgive me for. And once he forgave me, he realized he loved me. Those are his exact words! It's kinda ironic that when *I* am almost done with tPluto on a personal level, I get it tenfolds from others :-/ IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
Knowflake Posts: 228
From: The Nether World
Registered: Mar 2021
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posted October 18, 2021 02:39 PM
I can understand how confusing this must be. Especially because you already thought you had handled this as an unrequited love before. I think that it is important to look at your current relationship without any expectations of a relationship with the Cancer Sun. That would definitely complicate everything. If your current relationship still is fixable and the effort you have to put in is proportionate to the returns, you have to seriously consider investing in your current relationship. But that only works if your current partner is also willing to work on it. It can’t be a one way street. Personally I feel that it would be very difficult to start a new relationship if I didn’t have full closure on the previous one. And with all that Uranus going on at the moment I don’t know if this would lead to a very stable situation with a new love interest either. IP: Logged |
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