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Topic: Third party situation help-found out he had a girlfriend after 1 year
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ToughPrincessa1997
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From: 8th house;)
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted August 10, 2022 07:43 AM
  
Heloo,I been casually dating a boy for 1 year, meantime he had a gf the whole time, and i didnt know. He lied to both of us. I did not tell him i loved him but he did tell me. It all came out this sun day and things exploded. Can you please look at the charts with him and me and him and her and try to explain to me what the hell was he doing.
Mine and his synastry and composite:
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vansio
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From: the outskirts of Delphi
Registered: Dec 2017
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posted August 10, 2022 08:04 AM
Advice: dump himImmediately forget what the charts say or have ever “said”. IP: Logged |
ToughPrincessa1997
Knowflake Posts: 117
From: 8th house;)
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted August 10, 2022 08:59 AM
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Originally posted by vansio:
Advice: dump himImmediately forget what the charts say or have ever “said”.
I really wish i could immediately forget, i feel terrible.Thank you for the advice <3
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Librapurr
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Registered: Jul 2019
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posted August 10, 2022 02:34 PM
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Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 2391
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted August 10, 2022 11:54 PM
Hi ToughPrincessa1997, so sorry to hear about this... sending you hugs ❤️
Is this the one I have read about some time ago?In the synastry with you, his Mars/Mercury and Jupiter form a YOD to your Neptune, so yes it seems he betrays and lies to you... mainly holding things back, hiding things, not being honest.
His natal Venus is in the 12 house, and his Neptune is conjunct Saturn in the 4th house, so he's likely not reliable in relationships and escapes committment.
Transiting saturn (retrograde) is square to composite Pluto, triggering your Saturn/Pluto square, so it seems that the reason for your incompatibility has been definitely revealed and almost impossible to be resolved..... In the synastry with her, his Saturn/Neptune is quincunx to her Jupiter, and his Mars is square to her Saturn, so he's not loyal to her either... in their Composite, they do have a strong bond/committment with the big stellium involving also Jupiter, but Mars is square to Neptune/Uranus, and Saturn is square to the stellium... he cheats on her regularly. my idea is that the strong committment with her is a burden for him and he wanted to escape from this. I think he's mainly not a monogamist person, not able to be loyal even when he's in love, and basically a player for this reason.
(with Saturn square Jupiter/stellium, and Uranus quincunx Venus, I don't think their relationship is going to last too long) I hope you can move on soon from this.... IP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 2391
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted August 11, 2022 12:27 AM
...yes, I found your old post and my reading. Now I see why the Composite Vertex points to unattainable committment as I was suggesting, and I had seen that transits where pointing to some upcoming definitive "resolution"... I could not imagine he had a gf though :-(IP: Logged |
ToughPrincessa1997
Knowflake Posts: 117
From: 8th house;)
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted August 11, 2022 03:51 AM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi ToughPrincessa1997, so sorry to hear about this... sending you hugs ❤️
Is this the one I have read about some time ago?In the synastry with you, his Mars/Mercury and Jupiter form a YOD to your Neptune, so yes it seems he betrays and lies to you... mainly holding things back, hiding things, not being honest.
His natal Venus is in the 12 house, and his Neptune is conjunct Saturn in the 4th house, so he's likely not reliable in relationships and escapes committment.
Transiting saturn (retrograde) is square to composite Pluto, triggering your Saturn/Pluto square, so it seems that the reason for your incompatibility has been definitely revealed and almost impossible to be resolved..... In the synastry with her, his Saturn/Neptune is quincunx to her Jupiter, and his Mars is square to her Saturn, so he's not loyal to her either... in their Composite, they do have a strong bond/committment with the big stellium involving also Jupiter, but Mars is square to Neptune/Uranus, and Saturn is square to the stellium... he cheats on her regularly. my idea is that the strong committment with her is a burden for him and he wanted to escape from this. I think he's mainly not a monogamist person, not able to be loyal even when he's in love, and basically a player for this reason.
(with Saturn square Jupiter/stellium, and Uranus quincunx Venus, I don't think their relationship is going to last too long) I hope you can move on soon from this....
Thank you for kind words Stoika, yes you were right all along!<3 I am happy everything was found out so i can heal and move on. IP: Logged |
teasel
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 11, 2022 09:24 AM
quote:
Originally posted by vansio:
Advice: dump himImmediately forget what the charts say or have ever “said”.
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Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 2391
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted August 11, 2022 04:21 PM
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Thank you for kind words Stoika, yes you were right all along!<3 I am happy everything was found out so i can heal and move on. [/b]
Yes, I think he could have been in both situations for long, so it's good that you found out... I wish you to heal soon, stay strong... lot of hugs ❤️ IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 28, 2022 10:02 AM
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Randall
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posted September 10, 2022 03:32 PM
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Randall
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