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Topic: Does S.Node in 7th house mean a person won't/shouldn't marry?
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Snake Lady
Knowflake Posts: 232
From: Austin, Texas
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 07, 2023 03:08 PM
  
I've been trying to find out what this placement means for a person's relationships, marriage, and kids. I've heard it said that they should focus more on themselves rather than giving themselves to a family. It seems like they have trouble finding the right partner, whether because of too much idealism or because the relationships are always deeply karmic and thus difficult.What do astrologers here think about this? And what has your experience been? IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted April 07, 2023 11:04 PM
My sn sits exactly on my descendant. The first half of my life I gave away to everyone else in different ways. I was always there for anyone who needed anything, at my own expense. I have 2 children and have always put them first. I've had commited relationships, never cheated, never been cheated on.
Now, I'm almost 40. I am just now (in the past few years) been fully focusing on my own happiness. That doesn't mean I'm neglecting my children, I'm just spending my free time learning how to match my outside (personality) to my inside (soul). That means loving my body, my mind, and my unique journey.I truly believe having my north node exactly on my ascendant means that I am on a journey to find my true self, my deep inner self. That's the me that I must somehow bring through all of the self doubt, self hate, all of the egotistical insecurities so that I can share that with my children and with another. I refuse to marry until I am satisfied enough with my own self love that I will not be a danger to any future relationship however, my past relationships have been cathartic in my learning. They've shown me shadows I didn't even know were there, especially the relationship with my children. In order to be the best mother, I had to overcome myself and past traumas and I'm still learning. The more they grow, the more I'm required to gain a new set of skills and that requires me to go even deeper within myself to find.
South node on the descendant does not mean doom, it just means you will have to find your true self this time and not rely on mirrors (relationships) to show you your reflection. The universe will absolutely force you into situation after situation until you look inward instead of out. Hope this helps. IP: Logged |
Snake Lady
Knowflake Posts: 232
From: Austin, Texas
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 09, 2023 03:24 PM
Dons2angelss, Thank you so much for the insight. I have S. Node conjunct descendent (5 degree orb) and I can relate to the earlier version yourself that you describe. That was me for most of my younger years. I've always felt that my purpose was to develop my inner potential, but I was also always conflicted about how that would fit in with marriage and kids, which I always wanted as well. Once I actually got out and started to develop myself, the desire for kids waned a bit, though I didn't want to rule it out. I just got a little concerned that S.Node on descendent meant that it would go badly if I did have kids. IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss
Knowflake Posts: 1175
From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted April 10, 2023 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by Snake Lady:
Dons2angelss, Thank you so much for the insight. I have S. Node conjunct descendent (5 degree orb) and I can relate to the earlier version yourself that you describe. That was me for most of my younger years. I've always felt that my purpose was to develop my inner potential, but I was also always conflicted about how that would fit in with marriage and kids, which I always wanted as well. Once I actually got out and started to develop myself, the desire for kids waned a bit, though I didn't want to rule it out. I just got a little concerned that S.Node on descendent meant that it would go badly if I did have kids.
For that I would look at the condition of the 5th house ruler, not sn on the descendant. My 5th ruler is in Aries in my 12th house (it's also my chart ruler) and sits opposite my moon/Pluto. Both of my children tried to kill me lol. My first was a 36 hour labor with him already being almost 2 weeks overdue. I had to have an episiotomy and omg so many stitches from still tearing extensively. My blood pressure plummeted and I had many complications after his birth. It was awful. My 2nd was a complete previa and had to be delivered 1 month early. 5th house ruler in Aries, surgical complications and very aggressive births effecting me in a deeply emotional way. On a brighter note, both of them are wickedly smart (mercury chart ruler) and very very deep souls (12th house). I would not worry about your south node. The best advice I can give is to ALWAYS follow your gut. In every aspect of your life, nn on the ascendant is about you trusting and knowing yourself well enough to make those big decisions. I wish you well 😊
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Snake Lady
Knowflake Posts: 232
From: Austin, Texas
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 12, 2023 10:18 AM
Thank you, I appreciate your insight. My 5th house ruler is in the 5th house conjunct Jupiter in Gemini. Together, they don't make aspects to anything else, except Jupiter makes 3 degree orb aspects to my house cusps (in the equal house system).
Also in my 5th house are my Sun conjunct Chiron in Cancer opposing Saturn/Neptune in the 11th. I do feel that about trusting my intuition. Learning that has been a major theme in my life. IP: Logged | |
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