posted June 24, 2023 12:27 AM            

She can be really quiet around me and sometimes avoids me. Like we'll be eating and she'll leave when I walk in. But then she'll go out of her way to say hi and hint at wanting to hang out. Others have commented on the way she interacts with me. So many mixed signals! She's got a partner unfortunately and I'd never get in between that. I get very flustered when I'm around her - dropping glasses and not being able to say words. I get very nervous and quiet. I can't even look her in the eyes at times. Her body language definitely shifts around me and she carries a cool energy with her. I've tried several times to try to cut off the connection because she has a partner and I can't stop thinking about her - but I always go back like a moth to a flame. It feels like everything is underneath the surface and I wonder if she feels it too. My venus is in pisces in the 12th so I'm aware I can get delusional about my crushes.

This connection has impacted me so much that I refused to move into her apartment complex when my roommate needed to find a place to live.

I just want to know what y'all see in these charts! I am the aries - she is the libra. I have the synastry chart/ composite. I have never felt this obsessive with someone. Would love to know what y'all think and if you can see how she feels from her side. I can typically read synastry pretty well but i think my judgement is cloudy when it comes to my own relationships.

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Here are our natal charts seperately

mine:

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Hers:

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posted June 24, 2023 04:31 AM            

Your Moon is in quite good condition and nicely aspected in x2 talent triangles (with the Uranus/Neptune too). Through the conjunction to her Moon, she will be able to sense these dialogues your Moon is having in your own chart. It may be very stabilising or/and alluring to her Moon if it is not as well aspected.

And you both have a square from Mars to Moon (or close enough). A common aspect like that brings affinity and empathy with each other, understanding eachother's inner struggles. Ditto for both your Suns (and Mercury/Chiron) that are square the Uranus/Neptune conjunctions.

It would be good to see natals, though.

The Moons are in Scorpio, too... so.. yes, both Moons are scanners for the undercurrents in life. While scanning, looks like you've both bumped into each other.

Your Marses are also conjunct... this is looking a lot like you're both recognising that you are each treading on each other's turf. You haven't decided if you are allies or rivalries. This makes you alert and watchful with each other, which can instead be interpreted as "obsessive".

Also your Venuses are opposite. A nice dynamic that translates as seeing clearly (the opposition) each other's gentle receptive side. The Moon + Venus being highlighted in your interaction = the softer, more personal and receptive sides of each other's natures.

But, still, opposites as a rule mean you are sizing each other up.

Also your Suns are opposite. So, again, the opposite is a dynamic where two people do really notice each other. The rulers of your Suns are in powerful dynamics: her ruler is in opposition to your Venus, and your ruler is conjunct her Mars.

There's a lot of gnarly fun going on in your dynamics, haha.

The kite in the composite chart points to Uranus/Neptune conjunction. So this brings a certain charge to the interaction, too. All the energy is channeled to these two outer giants. Neptune: dreamy and full of hope, Uranus: the feeling that this is such a unique connection.

Is the NN of the composite on her natal Sun? Which means the SN is on your Sun. Pretty easy to work that one out.

But too hard to analyse a chart with so many aspect lines. Please get rid of all the asteroids and lines to points.

Other things that will interest each other are that: your Venus is the addition to those common aspects you have with the Saturn trine Moon. Also the role Jupiter is playing in each chart: it's attached to her Venus and also to your Mars and Venus. Then, Mercury is on your SN, and her Mercury is on her NN. Communication and having fun/being playful are a theme here (but not exclusively) with these aspects.

There's so much in charts.. more analysis is necessary of course. But this is a few things that jump out for me, and a lot to like.

I like to see the natal charts and also a synastry grid.