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Topic: Do my exes still hate me?
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 29, 2014 10:53 PM
I don't know why I've been thinking about my exes so much, but I miss them and wish I could talk to them still or be friends with them on some level. No, I don't want any of them back but I hate that I couldn't just call one up and say "Hey, let's go get a beer!" once in awhile. It seems that after break ups the guys want nothing to do with me, weird because they didn't treat me like a princess to begin with so you'd think they'd be happy after I broke up with them. (Please no one ask "Why do you want to be friends with them then?") IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 30, 2014 02:12 PM
Is the moon VOC? Other than that Mercury and Jupiter are aspecting and Jupiter is squaring Saturn, so I would think that means yes they're holding a grudge?IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2679 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 30, 2014 03:00 PM
Moon is not voidIP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 30, 2014 03:06 PM
What do you make of all the sigs (except Mars) being in the 5th house? Yes, Jupiter is in the 3rd house (ironically I just realized that's a fixed house...so no wonder it still feels like there's tension even if it's been awhile. Right?) but SUN is in the 5th house, conjunct Venus, so they're dating other people, but I'm also in the 5th house too. The other "young man" significator is Mars and in the 7th house - so one is dating and one is just focused on himself? Or...how does that work in reading that since we're not asking about one specific person? IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 2391 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 30, 2014 03:32 PM
No moon is not VOC. It's making an applying sextile to Saturn. Not really sure if Jupiter would be considered all your "Ex's" of just your latest one, but you are both receiving each other by term and face. Your also in his 11th house of friendship so I'd say he dosnt have any negative feelings toward you. On top of that, you are not in his detriment or fall which would definitely indicate negative feelings. I'd say no, he (at least the latest one) doesn't hate you. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 31, 2014 12:46 PM
Okay thanks tGemIP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 02, 2014 06:14 PM
Hey Tgem, if I'm in his 11th house and that means he doesn't hate me, then why hasn't he reached out at all? What I mean is why am I the one placed there and thinking about friendship if that's how he sees me? Secondly, when asking about multiple people like exes or people from the past how do you determine significators after the initial one? IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 2391 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 03, 2014 09:58 AM
Well the sun is his co-sig and it is conjunct Venus. Venus can be another woman so I believe he might be in another relationship right now. On top of that Mars rules his 5th house of children and both the sun and Venus are making a sextile to Mars. Additionally Mars is sitting in his 1st which means children are significantly on his mind right now so there's a good chance they are expecting a child. I would think that's why you have not heard from him.As for your second question, honestly I have no idea. That's getting a tad over my head...one of the other mods like LP or DM might be able to better answer this one for you so I'll bump it for them IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 07, 2014 09:51 AM
TGEM! HE TEXTED ME. O-O. After nearly 5 months he still had my number and asked if I wanted to be friends. Crazy, right? IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 700 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2014 12:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: TGEM! HE TEXTED ME. O-O. After nearly 5 months he still had my number and asked if I wanted to be friends. Crazy, right?
Just wanted to say ... I'm happy for you IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8803 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 07, 2014 03:02 PM
^^ Thanks MineAgain, but its bittersweet. He's not a super great catch or anything. 😞IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 2391 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 09, 2014 08:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: TGEM! HE TEXTED ME. O-O. After nearly 5 months he still had my number and asked if I wanted to be friends. Crazy, right?
That is seriously cool!!! I'm happy for you IP: Logged |