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Topic: Will She Come Back?
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CuriousPisces
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posted May 21, 2015 06:41 PM
  
Here's the event chart:  Please please please help me interpret as i know nothing about Horary.  Thank you! IP: Logged |
midnightvenus
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posted May 21, 2015 07:01 PM
Here you're the 1st house Taurus, and your significator is Venus.
She's your 7th house, this makes Mars (traditional ruler of Scorpio) her significator.She (Mars) is in your house.
This shows she has feelings for you, but since Mars isn't applying aspects to none of your significators (Venus or Moon, Moon being your secondary significator) it means she won't come back.
Saturn in her house backs up that. Sun and Mercury in the 1H might suggest that you'll find out for sure soon.
Sorry, but this is what the Oracle seems to say. IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 21, 2015 07:05 PM
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Originally posted by midnightvenus:
Here you're the 1st house Taurus, and your significator is Venus.
She's your 7th house, this makes Mars (traditional ruler of Scorpio) her significator.She (Mars) is in your house.
This shows she has feelings for you, but since Mars isn't applying aspects to none of your significators (Venus or Moon, Moon being your secondary significator) it means she won't come back.
Saturn in her house backs up that. Sun and Mercury in the 1H might suggest that you'll find out for sure soon.
Sorry, but this is what the Oracle seems to say.
That's sad to know, but does she still have feelings or love me now? Or have she found someone else already? And how will i find out that she's not coming back? And is Horary permanent a results?? IP: Logged |
midnightvenus
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posted May 21, 2015 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
That's sad to know, but does she still have feelings or love me now? Or have she found someone else already?
She still has feelings for you, but please, don't hold on to that.
I see you're trying to find signals that you should wait, but it seems to be making you miserable. Nothing in the chart seems to indicate that she's with someone right now though!! Since the ASC is almost late, it means there's still a bit of time for the situation to change. Maybe you should use this time to just go and talk to her.
Ask her directly what she feels and what she wants.
I think you need some real closure. IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 21, 2015 10:09 PM
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Originally posted by midnightvenus:
She still has feelings for you, but please, don't hold on to that.
I see you're trying to find signals that you should wait, but it seems to be making you miserable. Nothing in the chart seems to indicate that she's with someone right now though!! Since the ASC is almost late, it means there's still a bit of time for the situation to change. Maybe you should use this time to just go and talk to her.
Ask her directly what she feels and what she wants.
I think you need some real closure.
I've tried sending her emails for the past few months, probably about once a month. She's not replying. 2 weeks ago one of my colleague told me she found someone already, but the chart shows nothing?? How much time do i left before the ASC thing ends? Im really finding something to hold on to. Cause i love her very much. Sigh.. And can I know how is she doing now? Does she misses me too? And is she waiting for me to contact her? IP: Logged |
midnightvenus
Knowflake Posts: 515
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posted May 21, 2015 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
I've tried sending her emails for the past few months, probably about once a month. She's not replying. 2 weeks ago one of my colleague told me she found someone already, but the chart shows nothing??How much time do i left before the ASC thing ends? Im really finding something to hold on to. Cause i love her very much. Sigh..
I already told you that the chart shows she still has feelings for you, it can mean that she misses you, yes.
But if she's not replying, then she's not waiting for you to contact and you shouldn't insist anymore.
You did your best, now you have to leave it to her. I also had someone I loved very much, and still do, but he didn't feel the same, so I had to let go.
You do what you can do, but you can't make someone love you and/or stay.
You have to respect her decision. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2315
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 21, 2015 11:12 PM
I agree with MidnightVenus.The chart does show that she can't see the whole situation (whatever that means for you)... and possibly communication is becoming more restricted (but that's debatable). On a little bit of a brighter note, if we count the modern aspects, the final aspect of the moon is a trine to Chiron. I think you will come out of this better than you think. It could be a healing experience by the time you find yourself on the other side of the tunnel. IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 21, 2015 11:33 PM
thank both of you for your replies.Guess its going to be a tough time for me now. Does the chart show how is she doing now? So I guess this is THE permanent break up? IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 22, 2015 08:16 AM
The chart shows that she's not with someone else, or rather found someone else yet?But I heard from my ex-colleague she have a boyfriend now? Are you able to advise? IP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 26, 2015 12:29 PM
any insights???IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted May 26, 2015 04:02 PM
I would argue that perhaps she is with someone because she is in the same house with Mercury (ruler of her 8th house), they are conjunct and applying.IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted May 26, 2015 04:07 PM
P.s. Nothing in this life is permanent. There's always freewill, but if the universe has better plans for you... I believe that even your actions/lack of actions will be guided in that direction.
My advice to you is focus on yourself for a while and see how you feel in a month's time. If she's not answering your contact, then for now... Leave it x being clingy and desperate NEVER works - trust me xIP: Logged |
CuriousPisces
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posted May 26, 2015 07:44 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
P.s. Nothing in this life is permanent. There's always freewill, but if the universe has better plans for you... I believe that even your actions/lack of actions will be guided in that direction.
My advice to you is focus on yourself for a while and see how you feel in a month's time. If she's not answering your contact, then for now... Leave it x being clingy and desperate NEVER works - trust me x
hello ikja, thank you very much for your insight. I didn't contact her already. trying to focus on myself, but the pain is kinda unbearable.. IP: Logged |
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