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Topic: Should I ask him where we stand?
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SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 511 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 13, 2015 11:09 PM
I was seeing this guy for a few weeks before we had a fight last week and I decided to end things. I realized I was wrong and told him so the next day, but he said he needed time to think about what to do. On Thursday he asked if we could meet on Saturday to start over, and we did. Last night was comfortable and nice, but he didn't kiss me goodnight or try to hold my hand like he did before everything happened. I just feel like I'm unsure of what he wants since he's been going back and forth and never gives a definite answer. I want to ask him where we stand in terms of us dating or not, but I don't want to upset him (he's a very sensitive Pisces moon that takes offense easily).I'm Sun and he'd be Saturn. We're both in the 5th house but not aspecting. I usually use the moon as my co-sig, but I remembered someone said that the first applying aspect it makes will describe the next unfolding events related to the question. Saturn isn't aspecting me or the moon and neither am I, but the moon's next applying aspect is a simultaneous trine to the NN/sextile SN. Does that mean that some type of emotional event is fated to happen? Does it answer my question about whether or not to ask him where we stand? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 60118 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 15, 2015 01:01 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 511 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 15, 2015 02:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Bump!
I decided to tell him he was way too wishy washy. He couldn't ever give me a straight answer :/ IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 60118 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 16, 2015 10:41 AM
Yeah, I'm not a fan of that kind of behavior.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 511 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 16, 2015 03:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Yeah, I'm not a fan of that kind of behavior.
It's still hard to let go :/, but I'm trying. I got attached quickly (and still am if I'm honest) because we have a Moon-Pluto double whammy. IP: Logged |