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posted November 21, 2016 01:32 PM            

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Me and this guy had met up previously last year, but I had a lot of emotional stress at the time and it didn't work out. More recently, we had been talking everyday for 3 months, but he does not want a girlfriend and prefers casual hookups, whereas I can't do casual. I know he was seeing somebody casually while we've been talking, and it made me jealous, and so we parted ways in an angry way. Now we are no longer talking and I am curious to know what the future holds for us?

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posted November 22, 2016 01:09 PM            

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posted November 23, 2016 12:44 PM            

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This should work...just to update because there horary was written a couple of days ago. He contacted me after two days and I'm getting the feeling he is more sure than ever and really likes me but just want me to feel more positive first so is trying to help. He still hasn't actually said this though, it's just a change in him I see.

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posted November 24, 2016 11:25 AM            

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Like I said, i am still learnig so be aware about this. Your significators are Mercury, Venus, Moon and his Sun and Jupiter. His Jupiter is in the sign of Libra, which is ruled by Venus. So yes his Jupiter should loves your Venus. But at the same time, Jupiter is in fall of the Sun, which can mean that he doesn't feel comfortable about this. And still his Sun is in the detriment of Venus, and in the place fall of Moon. So still there are some feeling hatred and loathing. But Sun will change sign for a while, so it could be better but still will be something uncomfortable for him. And you, your Mercury is in the sign of Jupiter, and Moon in the sign of the Sun. You love him, emotionally and physically and like him a lot, his company etc..But also your Mercury is in himself detriment, and Venus in the detriment your Moon, you may feel like this feelings for him, are not comfortable for you. Maybe there are too strong, and you aren't sure about his attitude. Maybe there is a hope, still like I said Jupiter is in the sign of Venus, this mean a lot of positive feeling and motivations toward you, but for him this won't be so easy. Did you do something which can cause that he has loathing for you?

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posted November 24, 2016 03:49 PM            

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Hi shesz, that's really spot-on, thank you!!

Yes when we met up last year, I was in a really bad place emotionally as I was grieving for my Gran, and I basically pushed him away with words and he's understandably still wary because of that. And I'm still not 100% and he sees that so it is making him hesitate.
My feelings for him are really strong but that makes me uncomfortable because like you said, I think he should just try again and my feelings are that strong for him, that I'm not sure it's the best time for us to start anaytbinf. But we still talk everyday...

Thank you so much for your comment.

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posted November 24, 2016 04:20 PM            

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I hope that everything will be okay, you know when some significator it is in sign, which is ruled by other significator, that always means, that this two planets love each other. And this is the strongest reception between two planets, so eventually he should love you, despite the other things. Let me know what will happen. You know, I have similar situations, I do something, that make that man which I love started seeing with another women, but I love him, form the horary, I see that he loves me too. I am curious what will happen, and if astrology will really work

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posted November 24, 2016 05:34 PM            

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Yes hopefully he will come round. I will defo keep you posted. I hope things work out for you too, it's such a frustrating feeling being in 'no man's land.' Do you have Venus square Saturn in your chart or another aspect that causes this?

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posted November 25, 2016 12:06 PM            

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Keep us updated.

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posted November 25, 2016 12:38 PM            

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I will do.

Is the moon in 12 anything to worry about? I'm worried it is a symbol for my emotional problems because I am the moon, but the moon can also be a journey...so does that mean my emotional problems will be the undoing of it?

Would you be able to tell me what the dignity of the significator first house means? I heard it can tell about his intentions and Virgo could be a good thing?

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posted November 25, 2016 03:29 PM            

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I will do.

Is the moon in 12 anything to worry about? I'm worried it is a symbol for my emotional problems because I am the moon, but the moon can also be a journey...so does that mean my emotional problems will be the undoing of it?

Would you be able to tell me what the dignity of the significator first house means? I heard it can tell about his intentions and Virgo could be a good thing?

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Moon often is the co-significator for a female querent, so you. With it in the 12th I'd say it very likely simply shows you keeping your feelings a secret from him until you know for certain he likes you too. With the NN conjunct the Asc and subsequently the SN conjunct the DC, I'd also say that MAYBE (don't take it as 100% certainty) there is an element of karmic fate related to your friendship/relationship.

The slight issue is that your significator Mercury is in detriment because it's in it's sign of debilitation which is Sagittarius (it can't perform up to it's full potential, in this case the Mercurial energy is slightly stifled in a way); however, your significator sextile and applying to his significator Jupiter in Libra is positive for their being amicable rapport and good feelings between both of you! Since it's applying and doing so in a positive sextile aspect as opposed to separating (past) in a negative aspect (uncomfortable/bad interactions) I'd say that you'll meet in two days, weeks or months (hopefully not years!). Sorry I can't give an exact time; I know for sure how to predict the time an event will happen in horary charts if the significators are applying in conjunction in the same house and sign, but I don't know how to do it when they're in different houses and signs and not conjunct.

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posted November 25, 2016 03:39 PM            

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I have read that the moon signifies the end of the matter in horary, and by looking at her sign and house you can tell what may or may not happen next; however the moon isn't applying to your main significator Mercury OR his main significator Jupiter, but I'll still try and give a time frame in case you want to know.

Since the moon is in a fixed sign and a cadent/fixed house that would equate to the time being indefinite or unknown since fixed signs in fixed houses mean that as per this article on timing in horary charts

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posted November 25, 2016 05:24 PM            

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Hi thank you so much SunAscendant!! I was trying to look up and read stuff as I was going along but getting myself confused, I think because the moon showed no obvious connection to the other significators and the 12th house placement had many meanings.

I won't take to heart about the Karmic fate aspect, but my intuition did tell me from the beginning that this was a special connection, but unfortunately 'life' got in the way. 2 days, weeks or months to meet and a possibly indefinite journey sounds promising tho! I'll have my hair done in 2 days, 2 weeks AND 2 months time, just incase hehe xx

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posted November 25, 2016 07:16 PM            

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Thank you everyone x

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posted November 26, 2016 09:36 AM            

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Thanks!

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posted November 26, 2016 05:53 PM            

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Hi if you don't mind I have one more q about the chart.

I was wondering on your opinions on Neptune in the 7th, would it mean he isn't available..?

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