posted January 05, 2003 01:41 AM              

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yes...more green eyed Virgo stuff...now I'm putting all the pieces together I'm thinking people are able to tell that I like this guy and they're making little comments and I don't know if they're poking fun at me or if maybe they know he likes me too...or maybe they have their own agenda and would like to see things happen....I don't know...I guess I'm uneasy because I haven't been there long and I don't want to screw things up by getting involved with a coworker.

Does this make sense?

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posted January 05, 2003 03:42 AM              

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I think you're over-reacting and you just needed to vent the nervousness, I'm sure he jocks you hard, just don't show your interest, mystery is one of the most powerful attractions for a man from a woman.

You ever feel like when an acceptable love interest pops up we kinda become infatuated, or overexcited, with the possiblities too quickly? I've caught myself doing this to every possibility I come across, only to let myself down by getting so worked up in my head. I don't share it with anyone because why share excitement for something that may not workout. I dunno... last New Year's felt so much better being with someone I cared for, this year, although with someone new, meant nothing, I hate the holidays w/o someone special

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posted January 05, 2003 12:28 PM              

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maybe I am over reacting...I'm just paranoid. It's been so long since I've had a relationship...I'm trying not to get too excited because the reality is..I WORK with the guy and for all I know..he might just look at me as just a coworker..nothing more...so I have toplay it that way...but it's everyone else who keeps saying things to me...I know they have to be saying it to him too....

I don't know...I just feel astrologically doomed when it comes to relationships of this nature.

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posted January 05, 2003 01:18 PM              

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Hi Finance. If I may interject for a minute........ you are probably not being paranoid that other people are picking up that you like this guy (or that he likes you). People can sense things like that. Maybe he even feels the same way as you, apprehension about getting involved with someone you work with. You're nervous because you don't know where all this is going or how it will work out. It's completely understandable. Stop feeling doomed about it. Relax and go with the flow of things. It will work itself out. (yeah, I know...easier said than done) You are going to drive yourself crazy trying to figure it all out. Here's my other piece of unsolicited advice: if you guys do get involved with one another, keep it all hush hush office wise. Most people in the office should not know you are seeing each other. I'm sure you understand what I mean by that and for what reasons.

Best wishes for you. Stay positive.

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posted January 06, 2003 02:55 PM              

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You feel doomed, I feel lost, what they h*ll are we going to do? For me all I can say is I'll try to be an optimist
At least you have a possibility, and sounds like you're starting to play your cards right! And imagine the excitement of finally starting up a new relationship after its been awhile, doing everything again for the first time!!!

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