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Topic: Ups and downs of my life!!!!!
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Nikky
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posted January 28, 2003 12:02 PM
 
Donna/friends,
Being an asian indian girl ain't that fun when you are 30 and still unmarried. According to the society a girl has to be married to a guy before 30 or else you get forced(emotionally blackmailed) to get married. Oh! well I succumed into one those traps last year, got married to a guy whom I don't love. My mom consoled me saying that I will love him in the course of time!!!! On top of that i got laid off by my company thanks to the economy!!! Life is like a torture one after the other sometimes i feel like giving up....Then I thought why not find some comfort by making some new friends and searching for the truth. Would anyone have any clue how long will this pattern will go on in my life????Can someone give some insight????
dob: june 18 ,1972
time:11:48pm
place: Kerala,indiathanks in advance IP: Logged |
Zerep
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posted January 28, 2003 02:07 PM
Hiya Nikky, (you know my real name is Nikky!)
you're a Gemini with Pisces rising, libra moon... there's a site you can get your chart done but I can't remember the address...IP: Logged |
Zerep
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posted January 28, 2003 02:15 PM
You can go to www.astro.com or www.alabe.com I got mine done on astro.IP: Logged |
Cat
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Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 28, 2003 02:29 PM
Hi Nikky 
I'm sorry I don't have time right now to look at your chart. I just wanted to say HI....and also I noticed your Sun is in Gemini and rising in Pisces - both classed as mutable signs.I'm not sure how much astrology you know but transiting Saturn has been in Gemini for almost 2 and a half years. That transit has been giving all of the mutable signs a bit of a tough ride 
The good news is that it will move into Cancer in June this year and so things should start to change for the better for you.
Obviously I'm making a very "general" statement here and your full chart needs to be looked at in order to make accurate comments. But I really feel your frustration and just wanted you to know that there will be some light at the end of the tunnel 
Sue  PS: Another major transit change will happen in March when Uranus will move into Pisces. Now without looking at your chart I don't know if you have any planets there or if it's just your ascendant. Plus would need to know what degree your ascendant is at as sometime in the near future Uranus will conjunct your ascendant. Uranus is a kind of erratic influence and can bring about sudden changes..... IP: Logged |
lllog
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posted January 28, 2003 06:49 PM
Nikky, I see your living in St. Louis. I too have been laid off, so I understand your pain in that area. I tried to do your transit chart, but I couldn't find your birth place. If you will provide me with more info about that, I'll do a redaing for you. You can reach me at lllog@yahoo.com Love*Light
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KP
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posted January 29, 2003 04:30 AM
Dear NikkyI felt the impulse replying to your message despite the fact that I am not (yet) astrology-literate and I cannot give you any astrological insight; I hope you will not mind if I interfere with my thoughts:
Life is like this, almost never as we want it to be and sometimes it is up to us to enjoy and appreciate what we have. You can enjoy being single and having fun with no family burdens/worries, or you can enjoy having a family. You can enjoy working or having a few months off to rest and prepare a plan for your future job-hunting. If you clear other peoples' influence and listen to your voice, eventually you will do what makes you calm and happy; please remember at the same time to genuinely love the people around you (family and husband included) because, oddly enough, it will be so much easier to break free from them (plus they will know that you love them and that you do not hold anything against them when you follow your own path).
I know from personal experience that what I say is very difficult to put into practice, particularly when one has been brought up in an environment with strong traditions.
Please remember: there does not have to be a pattern here; maybe this is just life. Take care PS: Have you thought that your husband may be unhappy too?
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theFajita
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posted January 29, 2003 04:59 AM
what the heck happened to my post??? I thought I responded to you? Did you have a different thread??  ------------------
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Randall
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 29, 2003 01:23 PM
She has another string in another Forum.  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Nikky
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posted January 29, 2003 03:22 PM
friends,
I am sorry for the confusion, this was my first time on this website and I happen to post my first msg in this forum. But while going thru other forums I realised that I had posted in the wrong forum, so I went ahead and posted my msg again in Labor and love where at the first place I should have posted.
But guess what I am glad I posted my msg in this forum  You guys have been great help to me, thru this venture i came close to one of my neighbor Strange things happen when you try to reachout and the best part is I have always found help when I felt broke.
I guess GOD has his own way of helping Zerep I was in paris last october that was my first trip to paris boy!! such a wonderful city and Nikky is my nick name I was named nikky by my first grade teacher. Nikky means small kid I will checkout the website that you mentioned. Cat i will wait for your answer and hope that you will give me an insight to my problems.By the way I have no clue about astrology but do wanna learn it. lllog thanks for being so helpful, oh! by the way guys this is my neighbor KP your message was very profound and well meant. I do feel guilty of hurting his feelings but for me to accept something that is not what I want is a bit difficult may be I will change with time. But I feel frustrated since I committed to something which I didn't wanna do ,just to make both the families happy.Actually I sacrificed my dreams for the happiness of my as well as his family.he is head over heels for me but the sad part is that I am not able to reciprocate.
theFajita sorry to confuse u by posting twice i read ur msg
Sorry Randall
thanks for being there for me
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theFajita
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posted January 30, 2003 01:39 AM
OH that's OK phew thought I imagined the whole thing and might be losing it thanks for putting me on track
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