posted February 15, 2003 10:07 PM              

Your husband, having both the Sun and Ascendant in Gemini, most likely shows the duality of this sign "doubly so" . In other words, you are dealing with 4 people instead of 2, lol.

As Tuesday says, having the Moon in Capricorn may indicate that he has more security concerns than Gemini would typically have; I wonder...does he ever struggle between caution and spendthriftiness?

Being Gemini too and speaking for myself here...I would say, let him know he's heard when he needs to talk, show him you're interested in his ideas, give him space when he needs it...be willing to try new things (shouldn't be hard for you as an Aries ...) with him.

We Gems are (unfairly) described as "fickle" sometimes. My response to that is when we have a true meeting of the minds with a mate and feel understood and supported, we are every bit as devoted and attentive as any other Sunsign!

Best of luck to you; I hope this helps.

posted February 18, 2003 02:30 PM              

I am a capricorn with Pisces Rising. Ohhh it is tough, but it works!

posted February 28, 2003 06:32 PM              

The guys make great friends, they are kinda all over the place though, but I think that's why we're drawn to each other, I'm stable and keep everyone in check from picking on them and keep them from making silly mistakes (I mean they do tend to have their heads in the clouds, makes for quick mistakes and an easy target) and they are always changing and exciting, bouncing new ideas off me constantly. My bestfriend down here is so creative it's amazing, I recognize him for it verbally and encourage him to press on and develop his talents. We joke that one day I'll be his agent...

The thing is ALL of my Gemini's I know HATE WORK, HATE JOBS, and have a severe case of "Peter Pan Syndrome" they never grow up, and the jobs they DO take seems to involve kids a lot.

posted February 28, 2003 11:31 PM              

Also, I've been very committed and devoted, but unfortunately, it wasn't mutual, and it turned out to be painful. But I still am a firm believer in monogamy.

I do know a Gemini girl just like the ones you described but not all of us are like that!!!!!!!! She and I are almost complete opposites. Her sister is also a Gemini and one of my best friends and she also has a more devoted attitude to work.

(Sorry, I just had to defend my people!)

posted March 01, 2003 12:17 AM              

THIS Gemini woman is quite capable of monogamy. Having Venus in Taurus, when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex I am very stable in my affections; having Moon in Scorpio adds intensity. And BTW, it was my Leo husband who cheated on me and left.

Even without the fixed signs, I stand on my original post here where I said that when Gemini feels understood and supported, and has a true meeting of the minds...we are very devoted partners.

As for work and responsibility, I've raised 2 children on my own...and I can't think of a tougher job or more responsible one either. In addition to that, I've had more "jobs" than I care to remember; anything to supplement the meager child support I received from the ex.

It is true that much of my work has involved children (my own and other's), but I don't think that means we never grow up. I believe it has more to do with Gemini's gift of remaining young at heart and thus having a special understanding of children...and there's certainly nothing wrong with that. If more "grownups" could hold on to the childlike innocence we are born with, this world may be a better place.

I'm sorry too...but like Tuesday, I had to defend my people.

LL, one mustn't generalize or catagorize Sunsigns. If I were to do that, I'd be saying that all Leo men are arrogant a******s who don't think with their brains...but I would be basing that on my experience with my ex and that wouldn't be fair to the rest of you, would it?

posted March 01, 2003 12:52 AM              

And there is a difference between a married Gemini and one that isn't...

As for the generalization and categorization... what do you think we do here all day every day?

We only criticize generalizations when they fall unfavorably upon us.

Obviously you lovely ladies are exceptions to my experience... (or maybe I've unmasked something and the Gemini wit is being used to quickly cover it up the exposed nature, lol, j/k)

Or my experience was an exception to the true Gemini nature...

posted March 01, 2003 01:52 AM              

Point taken. I am speaking strictly for myself, but I honestly try not to generalize Sunsigns, knowing as I do how one's chart makes us all unique. Also speaking for myself...married or not, I've tended to be true blue and it was usually me whose heart was broken.

Anyway...I guess I felt you hit a nerve, with all I've been through, and I wanted to clarify; that's all. See how my Scorp Moon overreacts? Sorry; no harm intended and no harm done.

And to be very fair, I have known 2 Gemini ladies similar to the kind you described, but they were both "double" Gems. One had a Gemini Moon in addition to her Sun, and the other had Gemini Rising and Sun. Both eventually settled down happily, though they were pretty crazy when younger and single (but so much fun to be with!)

posted March 01, 2003 09:39 PM              

My last relationship was with a gemini and my current as well !!..... Wow! Seems a little bizarre also that I seem to be attracted to them and am constantly getting involved with gemini's?? I can meet someone and really like them then to find out they're nearly always a gemini...

I'm a scorpio sun !! So no, we don't always agree on everything..... he's a scorpio rising with a scorpio moon !! I understand his mood shifts, though they never coincide with my own?? I've never had the feeling that he would ever be unfaithful..... he actually smothers me at times !! (go figure)
Also, jealousy is extremely more strong from him than myself.

posted March 02, 2003 08:11 AM              

Your BF having both the Moon and Ascendant in Scorpio would explain the connection he has with you. Also, if you have LG's Love Signs and you read in the back where she describes the combinations of Sunsigns in terms of numbers - - I think Gemini/Scorpio constitutes a 6/8 combination which says there is usually a very strong mutual attraction.

Being a Gem with a Scorp Moon myself, there's no getting away from intense feelings, nor from a tendency to be jealous/possessive in a relationship. Your BF is fortunate because it sounds like you are able to understand him, maybe better than he understands himself sometimes! Anyway, good luck...and bless you for realizing that like everyone else, there is usually much more to Gemini than the "surface stuff". BTW...what are your Moon and Rising signs?

posted March 02, 2003 12:44 PM              

My ex gemini was a taurus moon. However, I don't know what his asc. was. We still get a long on a friendship basis..... just couldn't live with each other !

I don't know what the attraction factor is for the geminis to the scorps... but I think you guys are interesting, charming and sweet.

Also, extremely intelligent.... though, once I get to know the guys, we seem to conflict on our opinions as it seems he always wants the "quick way" to a lot of things where as I have more patience.

My current gemini puzzles me sometimes... though he's a sweet heart.

Still I love all you geminis.