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Topic: Divorce and Astrology
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lovely
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posted July 07, 2003 04:38 PM
 
Hi there, recently i've separated from my leo husband and subsequently have been working on a reconcilliation. anyway, i was just contemplating the idea of divorce and how our astrology plays out the process. So my questions are: have you been divorced? if so, what does your astrology look like matched with your partners. what were the deciding factors? who's decision was it and what was the end result? for me, im a double virgo with cancer asc and he is a leo sun, libra moon and virgo asc. his venus is in leo, mine in virgo..both our mars placements are in libra. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted July 07, 2003 04:47 PM
hi lovely,divorce and separation depends on the individual charts, synastry, composite, and transits to all of them. one person i know going through a divorce has transiting pluto conjuncting his descendant (7th house cusp), and the actual separation occurred when transiting saturn was squaring his venus. if your venus is in virgo, that means transiting saturn has recently finished squaring this planet. (no, i haven't been divorced, but have looked at charts of those who have been . . . so just answering the astrology part).  aphrodite IP: Logged |
lovely
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posted July 07, 2003 06:20 PM
well that is interesting aphrodite because when transiting saturn moved into cancer is when we started discussing reconciling our issues. and btw, i was the one who left. hmmm... so now im dealing with my saturn return (in cancer).. i dont know which is worse for our relationship. the transiting saturn in gemini (now in cancer) square to my sun, moon, venus.. or my saturn return (in cancer.) ugghh. relationships are difficult. saturn is difficult. i am difficult  IP: Logged |
jwhop
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From: Madeira Beach, FL USA
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posted July 07, 2003 08:03 PM
Hi lovelyJust a matter of curiosity on my part, but if you know your emotions and moods are induced or influenced by gravitational forces beyond your control and your husbands too, why do you not think you'll feel differently when the particular transit that caused it in the first place passes? jwhop IP: Logged |
moondust
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posted July 07, 2003 08:41 PM
I've been divorced, i'm scorpio, he's cancer. He doesn't have any scorpio in his chart and the only cancer I have is saturn. But, I think it all comes down to loyalty and being in tune to one another's feelings and emotions. I left because he didn't fulfill these requirements. At the time, I really didn't care what the planets were doing, I only wanted to stay sane. You have to go by your intuition and what your heart is telling you. You also have to realize that even if the charts are compatible, we still have life lessons to learn. Our charts both have strong water influences. All of his major planets are in cancer and mine in scorp. Those are supposed to fit quite nicely together.  IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 07, 2003 09:27 PM
Jwhop, I think she is trying to analyze why she feels the way she does. Women tend to analyze emotions instead of trusting instinct.I think there are no mistakes, I know that I tend to fall in love with friends and if there is a friendship there is nothing to regret. Sometimes friendships are better left that way but we share and learn. Lov, stay strong and hang in there, do what makes you feel strongest. Natasha IP: Logged |
Lunargirl
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posted July 07, 2003 09:52 PM
Hi lovely,Given that the outer planets drive these transforming transits we all experience, have you had a look at the houses affected by your respective Saturns, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto? (Jupiter too) Maybe you have done more soul work in the house where Saturn is about to return than you realize.  He'll reward you for hard work, if that's so. It would be very interesting if your 7th House was in either Gemini or Cancer, to see if Saturn has already done his work in your house of marriage, or is about to offer you a chance to work hard at it. Lunargirl
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moondust
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posted July 08, 2003 12:44 AM
Good point, Lunargirl. I have Saturn in Cancer in the 7th house. (my ex was also a cancer, think it's a coincidence?)  IP: Logged |
lovely
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posted July 10, 2003 05:43 PM
jwhop-good point. i will have to consider that one before i make anymore decisions, lol!and thank you for all of your replies. i have capricorn in the 7th house of partnership and saturn in cancer, 1st house. im just afraid my husband and i dont have that real soul connection i so desperately seek. and now we are back together, and im not sure its where i want to be.
thanks again for your replies and support. moondust, im sorry to hear of your split. it must have been difficult given the positive astro contacts..? IP: Logged | |
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