posted July 29, 2003 05:27 PM              

(just curious )

posted July 29, 2003 09:36 PM              

I love looking into a man's eyes, the color, the light dancing, but not if he is staring at me with a fixed expression, glassy look, goofy expression, staring at point on my body, men have trouble with eye contact. The best way is to look, look away, look again, smile, look away, smile more, not one fixed STARE. I mean after a while? I knew a Scorp who did this and finally I had to talk to him. He was in a really bad mood and I had to tell him he was a little scary. (Cue story about nasty ex girlfriend) He turned out to be a real honey, but his eyes said I can turn you inside out in my head.

I mean, let's face it men come off tough, they forget that when dealing with a lady. They want to be tough, emotionally, when a little smile with the staring (no goofy look) helps. If I make eye contact back and the man talks to me I am happy, but if he just continues to stare then I get upset.

I go right up to him, look back, smile and wait...no talk, no smile, just a stare? Now I am more assertive about breaking the ice, but it's a little crazy out there, lots of staring lots of stone walls. Makes you have to accidentally bump into a man once in a while and say HI, I love looking into your eyes..smiling and talking is attractive too. It's not easy though even if he is cute. Must be must be my Vesta and Mercury in Gemini on the 7th.

I mean what's wrong with "Nice Weather"?

posted July 30, 2003 10:12 AM              

Sthenri: I don't know. It all depends on the person... the atmosphere, the vibes I'm picking up, etc.

As I mentioned before... my mom has the same sun and moon as you do, and she hates when people spring a glance. She's always saying something like "what in h*ll are they looking at"?!...