posted September 02, 2003 08:59 PM
hi greg i have not been posting, but i came out of the woodwork for your post. my husband has venus in scorp, and its in the second house. wooo doggie it relates to sex. perhaps not in the way that one would expect, but it does.
its like this. he shows his love through sexual oneness. that is how he loves, plain and simple. i show how i love, through service of some sort. like, taking care of him when he is ill, things like that. i have venus in virgo, blech. but yea, its how he connects with me in a loving and profound way. our experiences *ahem* are always deeply spiritual. sometimes he gets a little sex crazy, but its because he loves me so much. its not cause hes sluttish or whathaveyou. its the most basic and sincere way he can show me how much he loves me.
he does have some sexual issues sometimes, like if i dont instigate lovemaking it makes him feel bad, he tends to see his form of expression of love as the one everyone should have, he does understand a bit better now (through astro) that the way i show my love is a little different. i go through phases, i have mars in cap Rx and thats ones sexual drive. look at your mars for more insight there. but, sometimes i am quite in the mood shall we say, other times i just need a break and am totally not in a sexual place at all. he finds that hard to deal with, he immediately gets suspicious that i might be cheating or not in love with him anymore. thats hardly the case, its just the way my sex drive is. its very much a balance thing, one moment im electric, the next i need space and to not have any sexual pressure as it were.
if you are looking to learn about your sex drive, take a look at mars as well, and also your 8th house, even if there are no planets there the ruling sign of the 8th will tell you some things, say if virgo is on the cusp of your 8th house, look at mercurys position in your chart. its kind of like a tapestry that way, all planets have input in areas other than their own usually. unless they reside in their own natural house, and are unaspected. that in itself creates interesting info in itself, as that planet will seem to dominate and that aspect of your character will stand out, not being fully integrated with aspects to the rest of the chart.
hope that helps! did you get my email? i answered you awhile ago.
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